Asking a girl out

[Cortheya]

Yeah yeah another one of those threads.....
Ok so I'm a freshmen, almost 15 and have never asked out a girl unlike most people I know.
So there is a very attractive girl in many of my classes who I would like to ask out. I however am unsure how to do so, where to ask out to etcetera, being a total (excuse the term) noob in the area.
The girl is someone I've known for a while, has been talking to me more recently.
So my question to you, escapists, is what should I do? (Besides the cliche just talk to her)
EDIT: Just btw, I'm well known as a huge nerd...I can tell the difference between an Asuran and an Alteran (Stargate nerd) and the ins and outs of every bit of world of warcraft and she is a really smart, decently popular person.
EDIT 2: Oh and BTW she is a twin and someone I know dates her twin

 

[scrambledeggs]

"Do you wanna go to the movies?"

 

[ZeroMachine]

There's nothing you can do other than the cliche. Ask her out. See if she wants to see a movie or join you for some food somewhere. And make sure you say "Would you want to go to see a movie with me?" or "Would you want to go out and get some food sometime?". If you say "wanna go to a movie?" or "wanna grab a bite to eat?" it may come off as too "friendish".

Just don't feel to bad if she turns you down and says "just friends". More will come along.

 

[Craig FTW]

As a fellow 15 year old who has had 1 1/2 girlfriends(the second one sucked beyond belief) I think you should totally go for her man! Just ask her to something casual, like mini golf or a movie, or even just hanging at your house. Be very calm when you do it. I support you dude!

 

[kobold king]

well personally i can't go up to her and asjk her out i need to wrie a letter i don't know why but i makes it a lot easier to say what you are really feeling for her. Then the girl i have asked out will either talk to me or write me a letter back so far this approach has not failed me yet but i am still scared of rejection.

 

[kobold king]

well personally i can't go up to her and ask her*

 

[scrambledeggs]

"Come to the movies on Friday and we can tongue wrestle"

 

[superbleeder12]

dinner and a movie is so boring and cliche.

You are only 15... can you drive?

My 1st date of choice (albiet only 1 in my 21 years of life, so take my advice with a grain of salt) is either bowling or mini-golf. something to get you two talking and having fun.

With a movie you sit next to someone for 2 hours and don't talk, then say "that was a good movie, good night." almost no bonding/fun.

 

[Roxilla84]

If you're not comfortable going up to ask her out, don't do it. Women sense your fear and it tastes like anti-chocolate.

 

[SonicKoala]

Just ask her out. If you get rejected, well that's life, and I'm sure your heart will go on. Oh, and just as a tip, when you do take her out on a date, I'd avoid the whole movie thing for the first date. Why would you stare at a screen for two hours when you could spend that time talking and getting to know the person?

 

[Panzer_God]

I'm sixteen and I've asked out more then my fair share of girls. I find it best to go up to her and give her a big kiss and then ask her out.

 

[Radelaide]

If you do what my boyfriend did, you end up being asked out by his friend at a concert where everyone is drunk. xD (It seems to work out so far)

Do you and the girl have similar interests? If you do, use that. Ask her about bands she likes or books, films or anything. Then ask her if she wants to talk more about it later at coffee or something. It's cliche, but it works.

Good luck and tell us how it goes!

 

[Aardvark]

"Does this smell like Chloroform to you?"

Almost never fails.

 

[101194]

CLOROFORM!

Sorry, But seriously. Just be kind, Be nice, And listen to your Gut, He knows what to do...

 

[DoW Lowen]

[HEADING=2]Confidence! Confidence! Confidence![/HEADING]

Don't worry Nerds are like a new fad now. I just wish it was like that back when I was in high school.

 

[Hollock]

umm a letter will probably be awkward (if you do the letter she'll know you're scared to ask in person) but facebook or somthing would probably work. This is coming from a guy whos been on a whole date (sorta) once last year.So I'm an expert

 

[slatts]

Be casual about it. Make your intentions and meaning clear but don't be too blunt.

Confidence is important. Thats about all.

 

[SebZero]

"Hey, would you like to go to the (insert place here) (insert time/day here)?"

It has worked 1 out of 1 times for me (today! ).

 

[hungoverbear]

go for it, but if you do plan on taking her out to a movie make sure its a dinner and a movie. Also dont talk too much about yourself, give her a chance to talk about herself and about common intrests. I know that sounds like common sense but I know alot of guys that, when they get nervous, they start to talk a mile a minute. Good luck.

 

[WorldCritic]

Just ask to go to a movie.