Matt Oliver said:
As Europeans, we regularly come over to America and tell you what we don't like about it. It's part of our job. We tell everyone what we don't like about everything.
In China? We don't like your silly language.
In India? What's with all this colour and joviality?
In Africa? Where all the water at?
In America? Why you guys so patriotic?
If I can be serious for a second. Americas famous patriotism bewilders most everyone else in the world. I'd hazard a guess it isn't just Europeans. Of course everywhere has it's people who take it all a little too seriously. In the UK, we've got our fair share of annoyingly patriotic douches. But for some reason, in the US. It's kinda spread into ever facet of daily life. And even people who aren't nationalistic feel the need to say things like 'God Bless America' etc.
This is a completely alien concept to Europe. We are all very self critical but it's not without it's reasons. You absolutely
NEED to be self critical about your country. It doesn't mean you hate your country or you're a commie liberal socialist who wants to take away everyones guns. It means you care about your country and you don't want to see it get worse.
The people I find that I most relate to from the US are the people who don't make a song and dance about the fact that they're American. The people who just think of it as another country where they can enjoy their lives. Most of the Western world enjoys the same kind of Freedoms the US can sometimes seem to think are unique to itself.
I personally don't think I could live in the US. Not because of the people but the government. We all have our axes to grind with our own government. But there just seems to be a lot more that I disagree with in US policy than most other places. I'd quite like to visit America, but I don't think I could live there. I'm way too vocal about my own countries issues, and that wouldn't change no matter where I was. And as you pointed out, criticism is generally met with hostility in the US. Some people seem to take it as some sort of personal slight.