Autism. Do you think it is a blessing or a curse?

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I don't have autism but I do have ADHD and the way I look at it with these sorts of disorders, is that it kinda is a curse but only due to modern circumstance.

Because the world we have built with the 9 to 5 work and school and society in general isn't built to suit us, its built to suit the majority...
 

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Fieldy409 said:
I don't have autism but I do have ADHD and the way I look at it with these sorts of disorders, is that it kinda is a curse but only due to modern circumstance.

Because the world we have built with the 9 to 5 work and school and society in general isn't built to suit us, its built to suit the majority...
Really?
I'll be sure to pass out the memo to the severe suffers, who need full time carer in order to live, that its just societal constructs keeping them down, man.
 
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Speaking as an Aspie....Ehhh...

Not a blessing. But it's not a curse unless it's so bad that it impairs interacting with the world.

I'm pretty high functioning and can live a pretty decent life (social and otherwise), only having ADD that brings me down a bit, so I wouldn't say it's a curse on my end, but neither is it a blessing.

In my case it's just "Ehh...I think differently, and have too much empathy to read people well at all, and can have some trouble focusing on overly complicated work that doesn't interest me".

For more serious cases, it's definitely a curse.

I'd love to cure my ADD but not my aspergers (as I don't find it bothers me at all), but I'd totally support a cure if one was invented. Not everyone is lucky enough to get a high-functioning variant, and some of those who do might want to get rid of it.
 

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It's horrible. I'm high functioning apparently, but it still took me 3 times longer to learn most subjects compared to all my class mates. Plus, even now, there are some basic things in the English language I still don't completely understand, and I can't catch every sign in body language.
 

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Elijin said:
Fieldy409 said:
I don't have autism but I do have ADHD and the way I look at it with these sorts of disorders, is that it kinda is a curse but only due to modern circumstance.

Because the world we have built with the 9 to 5 work and school and society in general isn't built to suit us, its built to suit the majority...
Really?
I'll be sure to pass out the memo to the severe suffers, who need full time carer in order to live, that its just societal constructs keeping them down, man.
Why would you make this assumption? He's being general but nothing in his post says that he's ignoring those you mentioned. Obviously it's a different case.
 

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Based on personal accounts, I've noticed that those afflicted with autism (the type that impairs cognitive reflexes and response times) are noticeably afflicted with it in the earlier stages of their life, but with proper therapy, can reach a level of control over their affliction that makes their autism unnoticeable by many and might even grant them unique mental dexterity.

One of my relatives has gone through this; when they were a toddler, it was very apparent that they were slow to react or respond to anything or anyone around them. They were then diagnosed with autism and went through several years of therapy before they could properly acknowledge and address others, let alone strike up a conversation with them. Now, as a pre-teen, they can engage others, albeit in small snippets of dialogue, and can answer others. They're cognitive reflexes are also improved to the point where they can play sports and video games with others their age.

The most interesting thing about them is that they are constantly jotting down seemingly random facts and numbers. Also, if you give them any date, past or future, they can say, almost instantly, what the day of the week for that date is. It's unbelievable and I believe that their notes are just their own mind racing with vast amounts of data.

So while I can initially see that autism of this degree can be seen as a disability, it can be proven that with proper therapy it can become manageable to the point of allowing the affected individual to reach higher plains of mental capabilities.
 

hermes

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I wouldn't call it "a blessing". Like most medical conditions, many people learn to work around it and function in society, but that doesn't make it a blessing.
 

Padwolf

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I wouldn't call it a blessing, but nor would I call it a curse. My nephew is severely autistic. He is a lovely child, and his musical ability is incredible and I admire him greatly because of it. But, I have watched the downsides of his autism, his confusion and his inability to understand things. I love him for who he is, and I always will. But I have seen how it has impacted his family, how their entire house has to be under a strict routine, and have changed their way of life to fit around him. It has not been easy for them, with 3 other children too, and I wonder if they all ever wish things could be different.