EVE Online Terms of Service said:
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25. CCP reserves the right to close, temporarily or permanently, any user's account without advance notice as we deem necessary. Furthermore, we reserve the right to delete all user accounts or inventory of characters as warranted.
26. We reserve the right to ban any user from the game without refund or compensation.
Further to the point, regardless of how others have treated you on this thread, they have merit. What you're suggesting is a lawsuit against the CCP Company, over the terms of a service which you are currently no longer enabled access to. This means that the suit is going to be contractually-based. Due to the natural of the Terms of Service, and your agreement to them prior to creating an account, the suit will be thrown out before it even reaches litigation. That means no jury, no arbitration, no settlements. Nothing.
Discounting the logical facts of the case, any juror can conclude with very reasonable doubt that the company was both within its legal and written bounds. Your case, regardless of how personal it may or may not be, is a particular no-win case. Due to the nature of the case as a whole, it will likely have no precedents to which you can refer.
As harsh as the reality is, your best option is to drop the idea of a suit completely. For starters, if you start off aggressive with the company, they will likely respond aggressively in reply. Business negotiations are better done with civility and kindness, rather than court summons and lawyers. It's that sort of lack of implied respect that will cause your suit to be handled mercilessly more likely than it would accomplish anything productive.
Beyond that, it is a grievous waste of time and energy. The time constraints that go along with any form of legalese is incredibly irritating and time taking. The case has to land on a judge's docket, an agreed time must be arranged, a jury must be selected, summoned, and present. Trials will also last several days, and involve fees with the courts, the lawyers, and any miscellaneous costs that may come from travel, lodging, and so on.
Simply put, your best option is to contact the company, and wait. If you don't hear back in the maximum time listed - or two business weeks - then contact them again. Make sure to keep your tone civil, and respectful. Any anger will be met with professional distance in the best case, and outright rejection in the worst.
Hopefully this has helped, and consider that CCP is also a company whose operated this service for the customers. They're doing this for you, even if it doesn't seem like it right now. They're most likely trying to help, and just fielding calls and complaints from other customers. Have some patience, try to relax, and remember that if it all goes horribly south, it means the lawsuit option is still open. Illogical as it is, it's still available. But if you go in guns blazing, you've lost the option of civility.