True. You know what they say, if they won't tell you in person then it probably means that they never really cared about you.Noamuth said:
Best way to get over someone
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Drink your sorrows away. thats what I do... although on second thought, that might not be the best advice if it's what I do.
hookers and blow always works too.
hookers and blow always works too.
Is this what you want or do you think he will actually feel better if he did invade france?Pimppeter2 said:
Rationalize, (get a rebound girl if possible), think the whole thing through thoroughly and then try to occupy yourself with other stuff.
Eventually time is the only thing that fixes, or at least mellows down heart aches. And everyone needs their certain time for that. The time needed can't be generalized at all.
Eventually time is the only thing that fixes, or at least mellows down heart aches. And everyone needs their certain time for that. The time needed can't be generalized at all.
"You can spend, minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months overanalyzing a situation, trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened...or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move on."- Tupac Shakur
Take this to heart my friend, spend time with your friends, eliminate all traces of her, be it photos, messages online, anything, kill it...preferably with fire. You'll be fine in no time, especially considering she dumped you via text, you could do much better. There's my two cents worth.
Peace,War,Love,Hate,Chaos and Greed
-Unstoppable Wall
Take this to heart my friend, spend time with your friends, eliminate all traces of her, be it photos, messages online, anything, kill it...preferably with fire. You'll be fine in no time, especially considering she dumped you via text, you could do much better. There's my two cents worth.
Peace,War,Love,Hate,Chaos and Greed
-Unstoppable Wall
Kind of like new zealand to Australia...Sion_Barzahd said:
Well if you want to invade a country then go for it. Just be sure to take pictures.
She isnt worth it. Just remember that she ditched you. Why have feelings for someone who does that to you? Sorry to sound cruel, but whilst i face the possibility of my loved one dying though something not his fault within only a few years, your upset over a cow who didnt deserve you in the first place. Trust me, best thing to do, go out with friends, put her out of your mind, and look for someone better.Sion_Barzahd said:
Talk to her best friend about what she did.Sion_Barzahd said:
Then sleep with said best friend.
You don't sound cruel at all. Its good advice, and lots of people have mentioned it on here. Its also nice to have someone tell me these things, since i've long given up on my own thoughts. (i tend to double guess everything i think.)DemonicKitten said:
Also i'm sorry about your loved one, whatever it is that he has.
Yeah i used to feel that way also. I find even though you do get some narrow minded people on here, you also get many who are willing to help when they can. I just put my own thread up about my (well, and my fiance's) problem so as to get some "advice" of sorts. I know noone can help me, but im hoping just as you were, that they have advice on how to cope with these problems. http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.168756#4567443 as you will notice if you check it out (not advertising and you don't have to comment) there are some really nice Escapists on here and im grateful to them. Hence why i thought i might sound cruel. I didnt want to jump down your throat about it, i know what its like to be ditched by someone i thought i loved, but now that i've found this love, its so much harder to bare knowing its in danger through his heart condition.Sion_Barzahd said:
I honestly hope you find someone decent because you sound like a really nice guy. Don't let them walk all over you, girls can be bitches quite often.
Road Map
Shock stage: Initial paralysis at hearing the bad news.
Denial stage: Trying to avoid the inevitable.
Anger stage: Frustrated outpouring of bottled-up emotion.
Bargaining stage: Seeking in vain for a way out.
Depression stage: Final realization of the inevitable.
Testing stage: Seeking realistic solutions.
Acceptance stage: Finally finding the way forward.
Follow it.
I personally listened to a lot of sad (read emo) songs. You get really angry at the girl, decide that she wasn't good enough for you. Declare "bros before hoes," go about your life, then BAM! Who is that fine looking, emotionally stable, intelligent girl?
Shock stage: Initial paralysis at hearing the bad news.
Denial stage: Trying to avoid the inevitable.
Anger stage: Frustrated outpouring of bottled-up emotion.
Bargaining stage: Seeking in vain for a way out.
Depression stage: Final realization of the inevitable.
Testing stage: Seeking realistic solutions.
Acceptance stage: Finally finding the way forward.
Follow it.
I personally listened to a lot of sad (read emo) songs. You get really angry at the girl, decide that she wasn't good enough for you. Declare "bros before hoes," go about your life, then BAM! Who is that fine looking, emotionally stable, intelligent girl?