Best way to get over someone

[Aesir23]

Via text message? That b*tch.

Here's my answer: Booze... or video games... Maybe both?

Ok, now here's my serious answer: Just do what you enjoy that DOESN'T involve her. Don't dwell on what happened (beyond a healthy amount at least) and talk to someone you trust about what happened.

 

[Aerodyamic]

Get on top of someone else.

+1

 

[The Kangaroo]

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You say your conscience is getting in the way? Well here's an example of what I would send her;
You ended your relationship with this man by text message and that just that you are a mean person, I would even go so far as to call you a meanie. Yes you heard me, a meanie

 

[Scumpernickle]

Anyone that dumps you via phone, email, IM, etc. is not worth your time AT ALL. Plus, she MUST be insane if she claims that she is "crazy" about someone she met at a club, so you could've dodged a bullet right there.

My suggestion is to get yourself ice cream and invite some buddies over to watch some movies.

 

[Freshman]

Get out the most difficult video game you own and play it to 100% completion. If you don't have any difficult games, i suggest Demon's Souls

 

[Aerodyamic]

Okay, that is some downright FUNNY SHIT.

 

[Blanks]

Usually hating them works, or actually talking to her about it, (i've done both, the second one works better)

 

[garfoldsomeoneelse]

My girlfriend of one year cheated on me and left me for the guy she was fucking when I found out. I loved her, so I was both infuriated and heartbroken for about a month. Barely ate, barely slept, may have made an attempt on my own life. Y'know how it goes.

Anyway, what helped me through it was to look back on everything through hindsight with the knowledge that she didn't love me back. And knowing that, you then start to look at every aspect of the past relationship and you get angry. Very angry. You realize that you were only an object of convenience (why else would she have been with you if she's so happy to ditch you for someone else?), and you begin to hate the person you used to love. This is good: hang on that festering, churning rage for the rest of your life. I know it helps me sleep.

 

[Skuffyshootster]

Try jumping.

AHAHAHAHAHA...haha...ha...

Sorry.

OT: Find someone else, or punch a pillow with a photo of her face glued to it.

 

[Z of the Na'vi]

Videogames?

That's my solution to everything.

 

[Steeveeo]

To put it flatly, if she dumped you via text message at 2AM, you probably didn't have anything real in the first place.

Make sure she really meant it, women are known to be manipulative and a wee bit crazy, she could be testing/messing with you. If she is serious, shrug it off and move on.

 

[E-mantheseeker]

Her name wouldn't happen to be Dominique Cross would it?

Real answer: A straightforward method is to overload yourself with things related to her and your former relationship. Listen to the songs that remind you of her over and over until you feel nothing for it, visit the places where you were with her etc... this way you confront all of the reminders upfront instead of feelings little pings of pain whenever a certain song plays weeks or years later.

 

[Pegghead]

This innocent little flash cartoon (From the oh so talented brothers Chaps...aka the guys at homestarrunner.com) is y bible on break-ups.

 

[Sion_Barzahd]

Her name wouldn't happen to be Dominique Cross would it?

Ding! you sir get 10 points for referencing my username to my current dilemma and an extra 20 for knowing who Sion barzahd was

 

[UnkeptBiscuit]

But i ask you, escapees, what is the best method for getting over someone ?

Well, you could always use a pole vault. Humor, definitely.

 

[sabercrusader]

Invading the French.

Is this what you want or do you think he will actually feel better if he did invade france?

*Stares down and shuffles feet*

I'm british so i am brought up with a built-in disdain for the french...

Kind of like new zealand to Australia...

Well if you want to invade a country then go for it. Just be sure to take pictures.

there is no invading at all... all you have to do is walk in and say "im going to take over this country!" and they will surrender, trust me

 

[Undercover]

Scotch and moving the hell on.

Dude, she dumped you via text message. I know it sucks and it hurts, but seriously the sooner you get on with your life the better.

My best piece of advice would be to just keep on living your life, but whatever you do, do NOT jump right into another relationship right away, just hang out with your friends & talk about it with them if it helps.

Jumping from one relationship to another right after a breakup again and again will fuck you up and doom you into becoming a serial monogamist, co-dependant doormat who can only define themselves by being with someone.

I say enjoy being single and have fun, and more importantly let your ex see you doing it.

 

[thestickman91]

A ladder! BaZing!!
But seriously.
Dumped by text? What a *****