thedoclc said:
It may sound horribly elitist, but I think I understand why the player base in Live can act so immature much of the time. Connecting into Live is so easy, any idiot can do it. The 'buy-in' cost of online gaming on XBox Live is virtually naught. This is true of all of the consoles, of course; I just bought my technophobic elderly mother a Wii with games and she figured out how to get it up and online with no help in no time flat. However, the 360 has the most machines in field at present, as well as a library of competitive shooters which appeal to twitching adolescents. If it were more difficult, well, less immature stupids would be doing it. Just as bad money drives out the good, bad behavior drives out respectful behavior. I'm convinced I'm not alone; mature players find others they like and keep it within their own circles, leaving others to deal with the screaming Halo kid.
What I've really, truly failed to understand is why female gamers get treated so poorly. Honestly, I just decided to filter down to people I like for gaming, but the player base seems misogynistic at best.
A agree with this. I was actually gonna start a topic on this sort of thing, but I got lazy. Plus I figured "meh, it's probably been done to death".
I really think it has a lot to do with the fact that nowadays, kids really don't appreciate what they got cause they never played the stuff that led up to it. I mean, I remember when I was a kid growing up playing the NES back when it was THE system to get. But back then, when my friends weren't around playing, I'd think "Man, how cool would it be to be able to play with people from their houses."
Then technology got better, we started being able to talk over computers more easily, we started finding games that we could play over the computers with each other, and even though there was no voice communication at the time, it was a good time.
So now that we've finally reached this place where you can just turn the console/PC on and "bang" you're connected to your friends just like that, I appreciate it, and thus don't treat it as an excuse to act like a douchebag to strangers. When I was invisioning it as a kid, I always imagined people meeting each other, having laughs, saying "hey good game", and talking tactics when playing as teams.
Unfortunately too many people use it just to satisfy their inner asshole and feed a part of their ego. They use it to display a racist or sexist side that they wouldn't show if you were in person. I too prefer to play with friends, or at least people who are generally having fun and joking around or whatever. You know, people with more humor and less pride.
I'm glad the technology's there now, but it sucks how a lot people choose to use it. But hey, that's humanity for ya.