ThePlasmatizer said:
Oh please, if you're so shy about RPing then, why do it? what are you embarrassed for some reason? are you worried you real life friends will see "John Smith likes RPing"? You are blowing it way out of proportion and if you have a problem with it that much what do you answer when someone asks for your name in RL?
Take a look at Amazon, people display their real name on there, why? because it's brokers trust between members, are they worried someone sees their comment on a man hair groomer or a self help book? are they scared they are broadcasting that they bought a massive TV and someone might track them down and rob them?
Paranoia is not a good thing to have, my friend.
It is not about RPing. It is about the right to keep your private info, private. People have their lives they want to keep far away from their gaming. In my guild only 5 people i trusted knew my real name, only 2 knew how i looked like. They earned my trust over 4 years of playing together.
When i meet someone in real i am able to judge the person i see, if i don't like him/her i can say "Get lost, none of your business". It is simple. Now why would i be denied such basic right on game forums?
During my playtime in WoW i was even careful with revealing my gender. Thank god for the "There are no woman on teh internets" theme going on i just played along whenever someone i didn't know treated me like a guy. It helped me avoid stalkers and pestering whispers, like i wouldn't get enough of that playing a priest. Some of my friends that made a mistake of revealing their gender had to actually deal with plenty of idiots.
You really under estimate data mining possibilities, as i said, ever since e-mails became logins for battle.net and thus WoW accounts the amount of hacked accounts increased because the the hackers did not have to bother with guessing your login name anymore. Any community site where you used your e-mail to sign up was a resource. I used separate e-mail set up for that and it got flooded with about 200 phishing attempt email in 2 weeks. For about 6 million players in NA/EU (rest is supposedly Asia), there was plenty of casual enough to not do such thing. People tend to be careless if they are not internet-savy, but there is no reason a service they pay for should punish them.
When you know how to connect the dots you have pretty high chance of finding out things about others, they wouldn't really want to give you out.
Then you have people with original names, names pointing at their nationality, suddenly more and more info you can gather from all that. Imagine that world doesn't consists only from Joes and Janes and not everyone has American name.
With sites like Amazon or any other trading site on that matter they are doing actual business. When you are selling something the name makes sense, because of legal reasons. On game forums, where you come to talk about events or just to simply discuss builds or strategies it doesn't. There is nothing that would warrant displaying real name.