Bros Before Hos?

[Teh Magic Man]

most of my bros would understand if i put a girl first,(i refuse to use the word "ho" that my friends is a tool farmers use) and some of them will usually put girls before me. a bro will understand, but females tend to be kinda unreasonable at times about these things (not trying to hate on you girls, its just what i have seen).

 

[Prof.Wood]

*Creates a time bubble with a kettle and some string*

If I had the perfect partner then they would come first. All my friends are tools

But you have had many partners over the years.

O.T it depends on what friends
Best friends: most likely no
Friends: yeah

 

[Alon Shechter]

Listen to House. He knows what he's talking about.

But really, since all my friends were girls, I can't really say that

Being a "Bro" in these terms does not mean MEN BEFORE WOMEN.

 

[Infernostrider]

This is a toughy...it's highly situational, really. In the example of the awesome concert versus her birthday, i'd go for her birthday. It's my money, so it's mine to waste. My friends can give my ticket to some1 else. If they bought the ticket for me ill be happy to pay m back.

Good friends understand that sometimes the girl comes first. I can guarantee you that my own friends would respect any girl-related decision i make. They may try to give me advice if they think i need it, or they believe i'm making a bad call (like a girl who ends up mentally killing me, be it in- or adventertendly), but they know that sometimes one needs to burn his hands to know how it feels.

A good girl understands and respects your decision to spend time with your friends every now and then. She might not always be happy about it, but she has friends too, and she'd want you to let her go out with them aswell.

Striking the balance is hard, and as i said before, highly situational. Give me an example and i'll be glad to tell you what i'd do in such a situation, and i'll even try to come up with some scenario's of what might happen when stuff is handled in that and other ways.

Disclaimer: I don't know how many women are on the escapist, but where i'm saying "good girl" you should read "good man" aswell. Respect goes both ways.

 

[Troublesome Lagomorph]

Friends and family always come before love interests.
A love interest might leave you but you still have your friends.
Unless you basically alienate them.

Then you're screwed.

 

[crudus]

Depends on the context really. I won't let a girl ruin a friendship but I will hang out with my girlfriend if it is a toss up between the two.

Isn't "bros before hos" getting out dated with the increase of homosexual couples?

Bros damn it,

It's a constiution:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=bro%20code

Yes, because I take all my morals and rules from the Urban Dictionary

That wasn't sarcasm. I really do.

 

[blackcherry]

Hmm, well it all depends.

Most of my friends are all oppertunistic fuckers that will drop me at the slip of a hat if something better is going. Those close friends I have live far away from me and I rarely get to see them anyway.

My girlfriend lives far away too, so when she comes to see me, sure I will happily hang out with both and it introduces her to my friends. At the same time, if she wants to spend time only with me, its her right. She has come 200 miles just to see me and I have all the time in the world to hang out with my friends.

 

[Nouw]

Spoiler: Listen To House!

That is all

 

[Jfswift]

Romantic first. Friends don't fill that special gap only a romance can. Also, i've had friends pester me before about getting involved with someone and when I do, they pester me to hang out with them. I can't win.

 

[MinishArcticFox]

Bros always go before hos, your bros will always be there while the hos may leave. Now being married on the other hand is different.

 

[zelda2fanboy]

Hos WAYYYY before bros. I've had far too many plutonic hangouts with males and I cannot stand it no more. I'd rather be alone than have to buddy up with men and most of the time I am. If I had any possibility of interactions with females, romantic or otherwise, I'd take it at the expense of dudes. At least women are nicer to look at and (usually) smell better, too. About 50% of all the men i've met in my life have literally smelled like shit. It's like they don't know how to wipe/bathe properly or something. Off hand, I can only think about 3 or 4 women I've had to interact with that stunk, and most of the time it had to do with perfume.

The only problem is that most women are completely repulsed by me. I'd go gay, if men weren't so disgusting.

 

[ottenni]

But really it should be something like friends first, in case you have female friends or are female yourself.

 

[Quiet Stranger]

Homies over hoes, homies over hoes, do the homie! Do the homie!!!

I think that clears things up

 

[Klarinette]

Listen to House. He knows what he's talking about.

Hahaha!! House is awesome. I love when he says stuff like this.
Cuddy: "Wear them damn coat."
House: "But it itches!"

OT: Most of my friends are guys, actually. I think it depends on how long you've been with your significant other. After it's been a while.. maybe between 6 months and a year, they can take some priority over your friends, but I think it might be a case-by-case basis sort of thing.

 

[Xiorell]

Niether, ! don't get attached to people all that much. Just whatever works in my best interests at the time.

 

[Arkzism]

friends first, always the relationships can end suddenly and your friends can help ease that

 

[Nuke_em_05]

If you have to choose, one or both aren't worth it.

 

[gamefreakbsp]

With the concert example I would choose my partner over friends.

 

[Irridium]

Listen to House. He knows what he's talking about.

But really, since all my friends were girls, I can't really say that

Mines better:


But yeah, that sums up my thoughts on the matter.