Samsont said:
tilmoph said:
they really need to stop trying to sex up 14-16 year olds
The legal age of consent in Japan is 13 years old so you know
And that is terrible, and they should absolutely fix that. It's not really a counter to my point that sexualising minors is an extremely not good thing to say that they have legal kiddie fucking. The US, in most states, has set 18 as the legal limit. It is not more or less wrong to depict young teenagers as sexual objects. Not sure if that's what you were trying to do, but I don't really understand why else you would mention that.
On another point that's been brought up; no, correcting pedophilic (or ephebophilic) desires is not the same as fixing gays. At all. The target of gay desire is a full grown, consenting adult (or teen, if they're a teen, or an adult that should turn down the teen). The target of pedophilia (or whatever subtype of sick fuck we're discussing) is a child. If you don't act on your urges to fuck children, good. Really, excellent. Not joking, gold star, you're cookie is in the mail. Now go get that shit fixed! You should feel completely awful about yourself for even having those urges, those desires.
That you don't act on them is great, but you know, deep down, you might. Maybe you'll be drunk and find a child whore, maybe you'll tutor or coach a child, get close, and let things "get out of hand" (i.e. rape a kid, but using a polite, ass-covering phrase). Maybe you'll just snap and go kidnap and rape a kid. Or maybe the kids you know will get lucky and you will keep a lid on your sickness. Who knows. What I know and you know is that you find childish features attractive. Sexually. Not a little outfit that shows off an adult's body, not a school teacher/student fantasy (which is just sub/dom in weirder make-up), actual childishness makes you sexually aroused. And you are seeking out images that play to that child-lusting part of your psyche. And those images are of little people you would mentally and possibly physically damage if you ever acted on your "harmless" urges.
You can do BDSM safely and consensually, you can get the thrill of even torture or rape fantasies with a willing partner, since what's thrilling in those is the sense of control or helplessness, not the innate damage and suffering. But you can not, ever, in any scenario, act or fulfill on what arouses your pedophilic nature. So, why not fix it. What's in your head makes you a risk to innocents. You know it's wrong. If you're decent enough to never, ever act on your impulses, then you're morally sound enough to know how completely asinine a comparison between your desires and a homosexuals is.
Sorry for the rant. Not aimed at anyone specifically, just kept seeing this comparison between gay "rehab" and fixing pedophiles and got a bit annoyed. I don't like it when conservatives trot out the "legalize gay marriage, might as well re legalize child marriage". I don't like it any better when "enlightened" people try to pull the same stunt.
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Ihateregistering1 said:
I mean, can't someone just say "well the guy looks 30, but I'm just gonna imagine he's a 16 year old who looks old for his age" and presto! child porn?
The difference is how the character is drawn. Now, we could argue a drawing of a young adult and an elder teen would be hard to tell apart, so in the absence of the creator telling you an age, sure, call em 20.
But unless the art is so completely out there that nothing really seems definite, a drawing of a bloody 12 year old is not comparable to that of a 30 year old. Now, can someone with a really deep pedophilia streak just imagine a 30 year old as a 12 year old. Sure, just like they can walk around, see and adult man, and say to herself "damn, bet he was a sexily adorable 10 year old. So sorry I missed that". But that's not really a defense for drawing a blatantly 12 year old child in an obviously sexual situation.