Coloured men don't cheat - *UPDATED* 29/10/11

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Abedeus

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Woodsey said:
Your sister is an idiot.
Plus how exactly having more or less dye in your skin pigments affects your personality? It may affect your health (since those colors and slight variations in outer layer of our skin are a result of human evolving in different climates and yada yada yada), but not your brain.
 

KnightOfHearts

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I'm a colored 19 year old
In all honesty I'm pretty old school and try to have as much respect for women as possible thus I would never cheat.
That being said!

There is no way in hell that can be proved nor do I find to be true.
How can skin color determine if someone is likely or not to cheat?
Unless a full blow survey is conducted and take sinto acount every single male from every single country I don't see how that can be true.

Any man Australian, American, Greek, African, Arabic, Russian, Indian
All of them could at some point cheat on the person they happen to be in a relationship with.
 

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I think cheating or not cheating has more to do with your upbringing and personality and (possibly) culture. I suppose if you date someone from a culture that is notoriously monogamous, I guess it could be true, but I have yet to hear about such a culture. I hardly think it's the level of melanin that causes you to be monogamous.
Also:
Woodsey said:
Your sister is an idiot.
That is all.
 

MassiveGeek

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Uh, the statement is absurd.
First off, I am not going to attempt to get proof to show how that claim is stupid becuase there is nothing backing it up.
We seriously need to give up this ridiculous blame game. Drinking soda does not make you violent, or less violent, being a certain color doesn't make you cheat, or not cheat.
Humans do stupid things, and brilliant things.

Don't state things as fact unless there is actually a valid reason to believe that is is a fact.
 

Ruwrak

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White people can cheat...
Black people can cheat...

Or well... Every single human regardless of skin color, bring up, localisation, wealth or life opinion can cheat. As long as the opportunity presents it and the circumstances are to much it can happen. It has nothing to do with exterior of the person. If people think that exterior traits still have something to do with who you are and how you live your life (i.e. by stereotype) they need to open their eyes.

Seriously, race got zip to do with anything =/
It's human nature ya know. Civilisation made us a monogamous creature for the most part. But deep inside we're no different then any other animal. Reproduction is what it is about. Unless you consiencesly cheat on your significant other. But then, with all respect.... actually, no, without any you deserve a punch in the nuts. But that's my philosophy.
 

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rednose1 said:
Some people have just very odd beliefs that they hold true, no matter what. I knew a guy that would argue against anyone that black people could run faster because they had an extra leg muscle.
Actually, there is biological evidence to support this...kind of. They are built to run faster, but not because of leg muscle. The hip joints of people of African descent are built differently. The legs are able to move faster and raise the knee higher because of how the femur fits into the ball-and-socket joint.

OT: I've only dated white guys (not because I limit myself or anything; it's just how it's turned out so far), but I've heard of people of all races who cheat on their significant others. As far as I know, my white boyfriends have never cheated on me, and I've never cheated on them. My friend's fiancee (who is black) cheated on her with her sorority sister. So yeah, your sister might want to rethink that logic.
 

Seventh Actuality

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Wat.

Okay, I can understand how experience might give you a prejudice one way or the other, which is fine if you keep it to yourself, but actually coming out and saying it like it's a valid belief?
 

EHKOS

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I...I thought Coloured was considered a very bad word to use nowadays. Is it just in America?

Anyways, I'll have to go with every other post and say that's pretty stupid.
 

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Amplify said:
That is a direct quote from my (white English) sister as to the reason why she only dates Arabic, African & similar men. She is adamant that white men are going to cheat on their spouse / partner while coloured men will not.

How true is this statement to you, fellow escapists? If it turns out to be true, fine. If it's untrue, then I'll have evidence I can present to her as a result of this thread.


So I ask you all:
Do you have any surveys or statistics or studies or similar that show how often relationships with coloured men end due to infidelity? Alternately do you have any stories from a friend where a coloured guy was caught cheating or similar?

Alternately escapist girls; do you have any personal stories where a coloured guy was caught cheating on you or similar?


Thanks for any replies, everybody.
Honestly, you don't need statistics to prove her wrong. Her argument is basically that all (or even most) white men will cheat while men of other races will never cheat. Or in other words, 100% of white men cheat while 100% of other men never cheat.

Such a statement of certainty about the whole of diverse populations is complete nonsense on the face of it. If she actually believes this then she is unquestionably an idiot, and frankly, you have no need to even try to prove her wrong. Either challenge her to prove what she says has any validity, or simply wait for her to be (almost inevitably) proven wrong.

But if you really want evidence, then how about something fairly recent that I'm sure she's probably heard about: Tiger Woods. Enough said.
 

AnonymouZero

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are you fucking kidding me? this girl i'm trying to date is SO fucked in her head because even tho she is GORGEOUS, all these black dudes she's been in a relationship with only want to fuck her.

It's kinda hard to love someone who thinks you only want to fuck and leave, or fuck her, while you fuck other girls too.

From my experience, and knowledge of the "streets" of my city, i'd say all men cheat, but black dudes, HAVE to... cuz. you know. they be pimps and all that.
 

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Question! The hell do you care? No, really. So she only wants to date colored men, what's the problem? Do you really think showing her a bunch of stats and proof is going to do anything other than get her to respond "Way to be racists, asshole!"

You can just mention Tiger Woods to her, or numerous rappers.
 

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I'm surprised, I'd got the impression that the stereotype was the other way around.

I've known a few girls who have had the philosophy (that I found very unfair on men) that "all men cheat, it's just a fact of life, get used to it", and all these girls were black or Asian and dated men of their own race, so I assume they'd got this impression from those guys. I got the idea that it's a bit of a culture amongst young black and Asian guys to see women, particularly white women who their parents may not approve of, as meat, especially due to the portrayal of women in hip-hop culture, which is primarily followed by young black people and a lot of young Asian people. (It's not principally a race thing, of course, I've dated three very respectful mixed race guys in my time, also none of them were into hip-hop culture.)

And I'm from the UK too, just to clarify.

Also please... don't use the word coloured. Like the word 'half-caste' a lot of people still use it because they've been brought up using it like it's not a problem, but it gets a lot of people's backs up. After all, you're not pure white and colourless, are you? You're pinky orange. :p (Unless you're an albino, perhaps, but you get my point.) Some black and Asian people might not mind, or use it themselves, but the ones who do mind REALLY mind.
 

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She does understand that's an incredibly racist view?

Got no evidence either way only that some people cheat while others don't and they do it independently of race and color, hell even juggalos cheat and you can't get much more colorful then that.
I do believe she only has a hard time finding the proper reason for dating exotic men, you can put her mind at ease and tell her it's called "curiosity".
 

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im sorry, but that moron in OPs story gave me cancer. Now if you excuse me, i must go talk to my doctor to see how much hair im going to lose. My doctor is white so he may be seeing other patients behind my back.
 

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Blunderboy said:
When are people going to realize that nothing is ever true of every member of a race/religion/country?
"'Nothing is true. Everything is permitted.' Our creed is defined by these words..."

Sorry. Couldn't resist.
 

CrimsonBlaze

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All individuals, regardless of gender, age, race, ethnicity, or religious belief, are capable of cheating. This does not imply that everyone will cheat. Cheating involves so many factors, from their overall interest in their partner and their moral compass on cheating (some believe kissing another individual is not considered cheating, but if you are showing intimate affection to another individual that is not your partner, then it is considered cheating).

Frankly, you should get to know an individual before you get involved with them (through dating or becoming friends first) to know what kind of a person they are (looking for a committed relationship or just someone to hook-up with). Believing that once race will be more faithful than another is no different from believing one race is guaranteed a good financial standing over another.
 

somonels

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I think white men won't mourn for this fish.

EHKOS said:
I...I thought Coloured was considered a very bad word to use nowadays. Is it just in America?
All of them are offensive, don't even try to stay politically correct.