Just to clear something up - in the Shepard/Jacob thing, there are a number of options for what you can "share" with Jacob about yourself (either you're lonely, you have survivor guilt, or you feel burdened by command), or you can choose a neutral option and not share any emotions at all (either tell him it's none of his business or just say nothing)- the scene is still defined by the character and isn't any different from any other the chat options throughout the game. There is still choice, and if you don't want to share anything, you don't have to. Also the scene is very brief. At no point does Shepard become a "gushing ball of emotions".Guitarmasterx7 said:As for the "romance with Jacob" thing, there's a few things wrong with that.
1. Shepard doesn't need to show "humanity" because his/her personality is supposed to be defined by you. You choose what makes him/her tick. I haven't played as a girl, because I'm not female, and I want my Shepard to be as close to me as possible, but I would assume that introducing outside psychology to Shepard would detach me from the character more, unless it just so happens to be concurrent with my personality.
2. Traditionally, guys are less emotional than girls, or rather, they tend to hide their emotions more. Yes it's a stereotype, but the purpose of Shepard is, again, to be projected onto, and putting male gamers into a situation where Shepard is a gushing ball of emotions would be unrelatable to many people, especially those who want shepard to be a cold hearted killer or a suave playboy.
3. Might I remind you that Shepard is supposed to be a hardass marine in the first place?
I suggest you play as female Shepard. I played as my own gender the first time around, but then switched to the other because it's a whole nother part of the game. Why buy a game if you're only going to play half of it?