Conflicts of sexuality

[JimB]

I don't know if this counts, since I'd argue that in first grade I didn't have a sexual orientation at all, but nevertheless, when I was eight years old I was fascinated by how beautiful a boy in my class was. It was his skin, mostly. I've never before or since seen skin so perfectly smooth and unbroken. He also had great bone structure and a grace it seems like I must be exaggerating in my memory because no first grader could possibly be that smooth, but that's how I remember him: almost angelic.

 

[RatRace123]

Chris Hemsworth's chiseled abs in Thor. That uh, that scene very briefly turned me gay for him.

 

[Rednog]

I won't get into too much detail as i have made a thread about this in the advice board. But as a trans woman, i always saw myself as a lesbian. Over the last few months I have had a growing attraction to men, and most recently a extremely handsome, charismatic man has been giving me some attention, and he's always very sweet, and complimentary. Now i am totally confused. All I know if i dream about him in some seriously "adult" ways.

So, ya i'd say my sexuality is "evolving".

Your story is just like Melanie's, you look like her and your name is Melanie?

Alt account by any chance?

New account, the other is no longer being used...

Why is that?

I don't see the point of changing accounts especially as you freely admit you are the same person on both.

I felt like a change, woman's prerogative right?

I would check with the mods if it is kosher or not, while you only have a single warning against you, it might be seen as circumventing the system.

 

[tobi the good boy]

So, ya i'd say my sexuality is "evolving".

Sorry, couldn't resist...

OT: Unfortunately, I'm rather boring and don't seem to deviate from the heterosexual norm.

 

[zelda2fanboy]

I was really attracted to Kim Possible for a little bit. The only other time I've ever been sexually attracted to an animated character was the bizarre looking one I made on Beach Spikers for gamecube. (Anyone remember that?) Really fun volleyball game... that I had to occasionally take "breaks" from in my room with the door locked.

 

[217not237]

While I do identify myself as a homosexual, I have been attracted to a woman occasionally. I can see what straight guys get off on in some women, and I've been snared a couple times.

 

[Beautiful Tragedy]

I won't get into too much detail as i have made a thread about this in the advice board. But as a trans woman, i always saw myself as a lesbian. Over the last few months I have had a growing attraction to men, and most recently a extremely handsome, charismatic man has been giving me some attention, and he's always very sweet, and complimentary. Now i am totally confused. All I know if i dream about him in some seriously "adult" ways.

So, ya i'd say my sexuality is "evolving".

Your story is just like Melanie's, you look like her and your name is Melanie?

Alt account by any chance?

New account, the other is no longer being used...

Why is that?

I don't see the point of changing accounts especially as you freely admit you are the same person on both.

I felt like a change, woman's prerogative right?

I would check with the mods if it is kosher or not, while you only have a single warning against you, it might be seen as circumventing the system.

I already have spoken to a mod. I have been verbally (or written) warned to leave the other account dormant.

 

[BehattedWanderer]

In the words of Abed being Troy in the dreamatorium, after being injected with truth serum, ?I can see why women find Clive Owen attractive to the point where I might just as well be attracted to him.? But not Clive Owen, though he is a handsome man. And there are a few animated characters that are not human, but given human traits, or even are humanoid but still different, that I've found myself extremely attracted to. So far I'm okay with it, I'm just making a list of movies not to watch while I'm "telling embarrassing things about myself" drunk.

 

[Erana]

Namely that I, as a child, experienced some... attraction to Nala and/or Kiara from The lion king 1/2. Not sexual attraction mind you, I was too young for that. Romantic attraction was what I had going on if my memory serves me correctly.

The only person at fault here is Disney for hiring people with amazing voices for adult lions.

Also, Moira Kelly kinda looks like my mom... o.0

With myself, though, I haven't had this myself. Honestly, I'm still coming to terms with my apparent aromanticism, along with the asexuality. I mean, what's going on with me that I don't ever crave even romantic attention?

 

[ReinWeisserRitter]

I'm not attracted to men, but over recent years I've realized I have an attraction to their penises. There's just something fascinating about it that makes me want to [censored].

Also related to a continually developing sexuality, I've realized I'm not exclusively attracted to women, but rather to femininity, the qualities that make a women... womanly. Even a woman with prominently masculine traits projects those traits differently than a man himself.

The point is that a sufficiently adorable, feminine male would probably be fair game to me, and hey, I'd get to experiment with that thing of his, too. Unfortunately, the likelihood of coming across such a person, and one that'd also be willing to let me play with him, besides, is quite small.

...Maybe if I visited Asia.

 

[The Night Angel]

Back before Christmas, I dated a guy for a while, which at the time was weird, as before that I had never once felt attracted to a guy. At least not at a conscious level.

 

[Kae]

Well when I was in middle school, at the end of the year I found out that my friend was gay, and he had a crush on me, and apparently we had been going on dates but I never realized it, they just looked like the normal things friends do together, doesn't help that dates technically are just that but with romantic interest, and I guess it doesn't work when one person is completely unaware of such things, so anyway when he told me that I just got confused and thought about all the hints, which I guess were there, but I find it hard to tell those things, shortly after I moved to another city and I haven't seen him since, it was pretty odd.

 

[Zoe Castillo]

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[NoNameMcgee]

I came out as gay when I was about 16.

But I'm straight, so I later had to "come out of the gay closet" so to speak.

I was a weird one back them.

If anyone's curious I'll tell the story why, but weirdly enough it was to do with personality confusion, which led to sexuality confusion.

Glad to say these days I'm entirely comfortable and confident with my personality and sexuality.

 

[Erana]

-snip-

It seems that every time I see one of your comments I have to go look up a new sexual term =)

...Are you the spatula guy?

Well when I was in middle school, at the end of the year I found out that my friend was gay, and he had a crush on me, and apparently we had been going on dates but I never realized it, they just looked like the normal things friends do together, doesn't help that dates technically are just that but with romantic interest, and I guess it doesn't work when one person is completely unaware of such things, so anyway when he told me that I just got confused and thought about all the hints, which I guess were there, but I find it hard to tell those things, shortly after I moved to another city and I haven't seen him since, it was pretty odd.

This totally sounds like something I'd wind up getting myself into. Whenever I see any story of a couple where the person telling the story says that they never made it official, I always feel very concerned...

I just don't get romantic signals and such. I don't believe in the Friendzone as a thing, (doubly so in my case, where I openly talk about my asexuality and general uninterest in relationships) but I do get that it probably does hurt when someone you like does something to completely spurn your feelings towards them. A few people I know have told me that they have had some degree of interest in me in the past, and I always have this nagging feeling that I must have said some things that made them very uncomfortable because of my sheer ignorance of their feelings. :/

 

[Clearing the Eye]

I've always been into boys and girls about the same, so I can't really comment directly. But when I was about thirteen my cousin and I made out every day for a week, lol. I guess you could say that was a conflict of sexuality, because I thought incest was disgusting until then. Pretty much been A-Okay with it since ^^

 

[rebus_forever]

mrrshan from moo2, in reality as a grown up I now recognise the fur would be a bit of an issue, but yeah, as a kid I definitely got more into them than i should have.