Thank-you for apologizing!A Smooth Criminal said:No, that's not being condescending. If I came across that way then I apologize, but that's not what was intended.phylline said:Hey - I'm not willing to discuss this with you if you begin to condescend me.
I think you may have misunderstood me or I didn't explain myself too well. Yes, they're all idealizations. Yes, women are deemed more attractive to men if they have bigger breasts and buttocks. However, men are generally not deemed more attractive to women if they have absolutely huge muscles (note: absolutely huge). That's more what men aspire to be, because it shows power and the ability to dominate. Yes, they're all fantasy as you quite patronizingly pointed out. But they're quite clearly fantasy tailored to a male target audience which is what people have issue with I think.
Edit: I also don't think you noticed/I didn't make it clear enough that I was talking specifically about the images you posted (and I am aware they're all from LoL). Whilst I think the images you've recently chosen aren't representative of how women and men are painted in gaming generally, I was pointing out the issue with the two images you chose.
Also, games are generally created by men. Women are in the gaming industry, however it's mostly dominated by men. It's more of a sexist community rather than sexist game developers.
If men are making these games, the games will look how they want them to look. Also, not everyone sees the same things as attractive. Some people don't find flat chests and big tits to be attractive, some people don't find the muscles to be attractive. It's all subjective.
However the point is that they're all being portrayed in the same way. They're ALL idealized.
I'm aware games are mainly created by men, and that has an effect. The position of whoever creates the game will always drip through, it's unavoidable, so I understand why a lot of games come from a male perspective even though I have issues with that.
I know not everyone sees the same thing as attractive, but in society the thing that is seen as ideal for a woman (for a man - I'm not sure this ideal is pushed on women so much, I haven't formed an opinion... I can never decide if stick thin is pushed upon us or perfect hourglass is) is the perfect hourglass figure with big T&A.
I disagree that they're all being portrayed the same way although I agree that they're all idealized. I simply feel uncomfortable with how the genders are idealized. I think, /in general/ (there are of course exceptions), women are sexualized in video games and men aren't so much, even though all genders (another topic for another day, trans* individuals are represented piss-poorly in games) are portrayed very unrealistically.