Caramel Frappe said:
I'm .. lost for words right now. It's sort of shocking, out of place, and questionable. Like, why did the guy think that running across a train track would be worth catching the next train? Also as sad as I feel for the woman, what made her possible think about suing his belongings or family for the matter?
If I was struck with a dead body or limb.. despite the injuries as harsh as broken bones.. I wouldn't consider suing. I would be scared to death and need therapy for the sudden disturbing event. However people are all different and think differently. Just hope the family who belongs to the young adult will be alright in the end. They don't deserve to be dragged into court because he died and somehow his body goes right into someone injuring them.
I find it's often a bad idea to say what we wouldn't do, in a situation that we will probably never be in. As people, we can probably say what we
hope we would do... but often we're ignoring very practical facts that are really only apparent once you're in the situation.
This guy does something negligent, winds up dead, and you're hit by his debris. Suddenly you've got broken bones. That means pain and discomfort. That means decreased mobility both on and off the job. It might mean lost wages. It certainly means medical bills. And she's in her 50's -- while not old, it's also not "instant bounce-back" age anymore. Bone breaks in a middle-aged woman can be
very serious. Leg
and wrist... those impact nearly
every aspect of a person's life.
Basically, you find yourself saddled with sudden, unexpected, and large bills. You also find yourself, due to the injuries, less able to earn the extra money you'll need to afford them. In a situation like that, I think
anyone could be expected to demand a little help. She's not asking for a payday. She's not asking for free money for life. She's asking to be restored as close to "original condition" as can be managed, including her financial state.
I agree that the parents don't "deserve" to be dragged to court. I also believe this woman doesn't "deserve" to get stuck with all of the bills and trouble this has undoubtedly caused her. This isn't an issue that's about "deserving" or being at "fault." The only one at fault is the guy that didn't look both ways before crossing.
But it
is about responsibility. The guy was
responsible for his death
and this woman's injuries. As such, he is
responsible for helping her on expenses. She's not suing the parents for
their money. She's suing the guy's estate for
his money. If that runs out (what's the net worth of the average 18-year-old?), that's all she gets -- she can't then go after the parents, nor should she.