Did you ever go out with a girl just for the hell of it?

[antipunt]

go for it.
Dating is like any other skill. It requires experience and practice.

Forfeiting this chance isn't a good idea

 

[Matronadena]

Yes, yes I have..

( waits for the gasps and squeals from the guys to settle down)

To be fair it was a " for the hell of it.. that ended up lasting 4 years, so it worked out decently...Incidentally that was the last woman I dated before I met my hubs

 

[sokka14]

yeah, but it was empty.
found myself not caring and that can be unhealthy for both of you.

my (extremely well-informed) advice would be:
if you think you COULD care, then give it a shot, but let it go if it's not working.

 

[ccdistancerunner]

No, but I'd like to. In my book, "just for the hell of it" means "just for shits &giggles" or "just for fun". And imo those kind of of dates are always the best one's. Why? It's simple: no pretentions (at least not from your side), no pre-set goal you want to work to. It makes things more relaxed, chilled out, since you focus on fun.

Btw, the girl you're talking about, Mr OP, is pretty damn direct and honest. That shows guts, metaphorical balls (unless she has a pretty good rack, those also count as balls tbh), wich is pretty awesome and admirable. If you ask me: go for it, if you're not interested that much but you don't mind, just go for fun, maybe something nice will grow out of it, maybe a spark will fling over, maybe not, and then you just had a good time with someone. Nothing to loose right?

This is damn good advice. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. She may be the one, you never know.

 

[SoonerMatt]

Yes I have, and I was still able to have a good time that night. We dated a few more times, went out to parties together, and she even slept with me, but in the end we realized that it wasn't going to work.

As long as you both have fun then no harm.

 

[teisjm]

Back in gymnasium i was told at a school bar-evening (friday with beer at school till 18:00) that one of my friends girlfriend was having a small party/videonight sortof thing, and that her friend had asked for me. I could hardly remember who she was, but i went anyway. I thought she was kidna cute so i made my move and tried to kiss her while the others went to get more beer and whaddoya know SUCCES! She's been my girlfriend for well over 2 years now.

The funny thing was that she had just asked my friend to bring some of his friends, and she just happened to rememebr my name, but I thought/had been told that she had asked for me specificly cause she was into me. I guess it actually made it easier to just hit on her without really knowing her.

Just go for it, it's just a date unless you choose to make it more than that. If you don't like her you haven't lost anything, but you might actually like her.

 

[Sewblon]

I am too lazy to do anything for the hell of it.

 

[Hazy]

Yeah, plenty of times, and I regret it too. A friend and I were double dating to a movie, so I asked out a random girl from my class so I woulden't look stupid. Well the next day, she felt a strong connection, I didn't.. Made for an awkward day.

 

[neuromasser]

Yeah I did it, it was good for pauses in KotOR

 

[Plauged1]

If I were you, I would go out for the hell of it at first, and if it is working out better than expected, get serious.

 

[internutt]

I went out with a girl 'for the hell of it' once. Never again. She really liked me and I felt nothing for her. Its a bad bad move.

 

[PlasticTree]

Yes, go out with her, who knows what happens. But it might be a good idea to let her know that you aren't totally in love with her and all. Make it (hate the word) casual. It won't make her les crazy in love with you, but when you found out you rrrreally don't want to date her after a few weeks, it causes slightly less drama when you make out with her.

 

[dalek sec]

Nope, it's never happened and it never will happen.

 

[Cowabungaa]

Well, she did the usual routine, gave me the note, walked away, and got her friends to encourage me to say yes. She is nice, but one thing is that she talks about her relationships to other people a bit too much. All last year the only thing she talked about was who she was dating, and she shows almost no interest in my favorite hobby, video games. A couple days ago I'm playing a friend's DS, hopping around as Mario, and she asked, "What are you doing?" "I'm playing New Super Mario Bros." "Cool. So, how good are you at Halo?" "I don't play that game much." "You don't? Everyone I know says its their favorite game." "First time everything I guess." But you can't have everything, right?

Haha, o well everyone has his/her quirks ;-) Maybe she turns out to be nothing, maybe she turns out as someone you can just have fun with, or maybe it will turn out to be more.

This is damn good advice. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. She may be the one, you never know.

Thanks, and yes indeed, maybe she'll become a good friend, that's nice too.

 

[tyzzni]

yep

 

[jboking]

"For the Lulz" is how a lot of first dates start. It's what you find out inside the first date that matters.

 

['Let'sPlay' hosted by Kyle]

YES

 

[Benny Blanco]

You say she's nice and cute...

What's not to like?