Do you feel alone?

[DYin01]

Often... Life sucks I see no point in going on with it. School is shit and I can't be bothered with it anymore (Should be studying for a maths test right now actually), I hate my family, one of my best friends is being a wanker and spreading rumors and shit about me, and the girl I'm in love with, also my best friend, does not reciprocate. (No I'm not emo) So yes I feel very alone... most of the time... join the club

Puberty, trust me. You won't believe me now, but it'll all pass and you'll feel better when you're 18 - 21.

 

[Cowabungaa]

Understandable, she's in a similair situation. That's why I think I'll never be with her, she's been fucked over once, and it was her first time (no not...that). Hopefully I'll win her heart. O look at that, I typed the word "hope", gee it seems that finally having Super Smash Bros Melee again after 2 years really helps.

I'm long past that hope. I just hope she stops talking about the boys she likes to me.
Good luck, though.

Ouch, especially when it's still fresh (doubt it is now, correct?), rubbing it in like that is painfull. Anyway, thanks, time to beat up Peach ontop of Mushroom Kingdom Castle. With Mario ofcourse.

 

[Beffudled Sheep]

If only I was alone...

 

[Chaosut]

Sometimes i get lonely, but i actually enjoy my alone time because when there's no people around there's a whole let less chance for problems or annoyances to occur (yes i know that's a bit cynical).

 

[Beffudled Sheep]

Since this is the internet, we all somewhat remain anonymous from what we all say, but what I want everyone to say now, is whether or not you feel like you have anyone on your side. I mean dig deep and ask yourself, do you feel abandoned, hurt, or abused? I ask this because I feel alone...

*hugs*

You'll never walk alone.

Okay, enough singing football anthems. Most of the time, I know I'll always have someone there for me, like my boyfriend. But I have 2 groups of friends. The first I've been close friends with since I started secondary school, but lately we've been drifting apart. And I feel alone when I'm with them, because they'd ditch me in a heartbeat.
The second group I've also known since I started, but I've become a lot closer to them recently, and I know they'd never leave me.

They will drift apart from you too eventually. Now if only I had friends who would drift away and stay away.

 

[Levziemuch]

Only when the g/f decides to put up the silent treatment

 

[Sindre1]

Kinda.

 

[tk1989]

On occasion, but I know im not really. Its all the voice inside your head trying to put you down.

Never listen to it!

Go outside for a walk or something, get some fresh air, some exercise. You will feel much better for it.

Try that.

Tried, works for alittle while, then it comes back. As for not listening to it, how?

dude, you just got to remember a couple of things:
1. You are responsible for your own life.
2. Regardless of your upbringing or different obstacles in you path it is up to you to make changes to improve your quality of life.

Its all about attitude dude. That sounds kinda gay but listen to me for a second. People can feel sorry for themselves, not do anything with their lives and blame other people, but thats their decision. You can resolve to take charge of your own life and assert control over it and change it for the better if you really want. The way you act and conduct yourself on a daily basis affects everything you do, so you need to stop being negative, chuck negativity out the door. If you remain negative then you are effectively leading a negative life.

I am not saying that you need to make life altering decisions here or anything, but the first step is to stop listening to that voice in your head. Think of what you really want to do with yourself, what you want to do to improve yourself etc, and do it! Make the effort and you will be rewarded believe me.

Also, about the walk thing, yes that will only be a temporary fix because its only a walk. Maybe do some proper exercise? Start going for runs. Do you have a dog? Go for runs with him. Make it a leisurely one, not an endurance one and go at your own pace - no music. You will give yourself time to think to yourself, about what problems you have and if you can fix them etc. Runs are awesome, and personal; if you are unfit then a regular jog will have the same effect and you will feel much much better about yourself after a couple of times being out.

 

[Tech Team FTW!]

I don't fell alone, I am alone.

 

[Doug]

On occasion, but I know im not really. Its all the voice inside your head trying to put you down.

Never listen to it!

Go outside for a walk or something, get some fresh air, some exercise. You will feel much better for it.

Try that.

Tried, works for alittle while, then it comes back. As for not listening to it, how?

dude, you just got to remember a couple of things:
1. You are responsible for your own life.
2. Regardless of your upbringing or different obstacles in you path it is up to you to make changes to improve your quality of life.

Its all about attitude dude. That sounds kinda gay but listen to me for a second. People can feel sorry for themselves, not do anything with their lives and blame other people, but thats their decision. You can resolve to take charge of your own life and assert control over it and change it for the better if you really want. The way you act and conduct yourself on a daily basis affects everything you do, so you need to stop being negative, chuck negativity out the door. If you remain negative then you are effectively leading a negative life.

I am not saying that you need to make life altering decisions here or anything, but the first step is to stop listening to that voice in your head. Think of what you really want to do with yourself, what you want to do to improve yourself etc, and do it! Make the effort and you will be rewarded believe me.

Also, about the walk thing, yes that will only be a temporary fix because its only a walk. Maybe do some proper exercise? Start going for runs. Do you have a dog? Go for runs with him. Make it a leisurely one, not an endurance one and go at your own pace - no music. You will give yourself time to think to yourself, about what problems you have and if you can fix them etc. Runs are awesome, and personal; if you are unfit then a regular jog will have the same effect and you will feel much much better about yourself after a couple of times being out.

Good advice, I think. I'll try and follow it.

 

[The Dr0w Ranger]

I've got it, not horrible, but I'll tell my story.

I'm a homeschooler, have been since I was 2. I've been dragged around from church to church for years, so I have no longstanding friends.
My oldest friend(and Best Friend), is on Xbox Live, he lives on the other side of the continent.
I love a girl at my church, but she has no idea and I don't have the nutz to tell her.
I've got nothing to show for 18 years of school, I'm no prodigy, I'm not good at ANY extracurriculars, and while I admit that I chose that, I beat my self daily for it.
My family isn't dysfunctional, but at 18, family isn't going to change the lonely feeling.

So yeah, I'm kinda Lonely

 

[Cowabungaa]

Ouch, especially when it's still fresh (doubt it is now, correct?), rubbing it in like that is painfull. Anyway, thanks, time to beat up Peach ontop of Mushroom Kingdom Castle. With Mario ofcourse.

It never really gets better.
I think I will just stop loving her.

It is within my power to do so. Hooray, repression.

Phil Collins begs to differ. I'm probably never gonna give her up, never gonna let her down and hurt her.
I could NOT resist, that makes 2 musical references!

 

[space_oddity]

Nope

 

[Grimm91]

I use to a long time ago. Now I feel like I can never be alone its a nice change.

 

[slevin8989]

I

This is why I elect to be dead inside - being told how much I'm hated doesn't matter, because I don't care about who it's coming from.

That worked for me too, untill that girl showed up and defrosted me. Now the lonelyness hurts.

I had that same problem, actually.
Girls.
Bleh.

I had the same problem i was perfectly fine being by myself until i met someone that i actually liked and now she doesn't talk to me and i always feel like shit.

 

[massau]

only if i start to think very deep than i feel a pain in mine hart and i see i'm lonely but i have some friends

 

[Trivun]

I feel independant, and I'm unhappy in that I'm single. But apart from the 'being single' bit, I definitely don't feel alone, and I've got the drunken Facebook photos to prove it

 

[Zombie_Fish]

I used to feel alone, but over time, things started to get better and I started to make more and more friends.

Think when I started here I was lonely, but over time I've become a little less shy and worked better at doing stuff on here.

But I don't really feel lonely outside in my area. I've got a small comftorable group of friends and I get on really well with them.

 

[Andalusa]

Well, in contrast to being hugged by about 50 people at the same time, I could say I'm feeling pretty lonely right now. I'm all alone in the house, my only company is all these frigging astronomy books.
But back to everyday life, I choose my life of solitude.