Do you feel alone?
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everybody who is lonely..find people who are like you, friends who play games too....i'm not badmouthing games, but i feel that if you play them alone, they suck all the life out of you, and even while playing with a friend, its not the same as going to the movies or just plain hanging out.
hope that helped.
hope that helped.
Sometimes. I have a girlfriend, and I've been with her for a long time, but I don't get to see her nearly as much as I would like. Obviously, when I'm with her, or even just talking to her on the phone, I don't feel alone, because she's one of the few people who truly understand me.
On the other hand, when I'm not with her, I often feel very alone. Most of my friends are very different to me and enjoy doing completely different things. Add to that the fact that I have very few close friends, and the fact that I can be very awkward around new people and tend to have a difficult time making new friends, and you begin to see the problem.
On the other hand, when I'm not with her, I often feel very alone. Most of my friends are very different to me and enjoy doing completely different things. Add to that the fact that I have very few close friends, and the fact that I can be very awkward around new people and tend to have a difficult time making new friends, and you begin to see the problem.
Dude i'll tell you I know what you mean with the family and such. But do as I did and think tomorrow is a new day and don't look back to what happend. Nor look too far ahead to what migth happen it helps , at least it did for me. So to answer the thread no im not lonely, have been but not anymore.
When I was about 15/16 I used to get really nervous before big cricket games. My nerves would leave me feeling anxious and jumpy, worrying about what everyone thought of how I played. It sometimes made me play badly and let everyone down.
I then had a coach who caught on to the fact that it was effecting my game, and he spent a lot of time instilling in me that "positive thinking means positive actions". Thus, my game got better.
A few years later when i left home to go to university, I found things tough going. Stressed from Uni, broke up with my gf, struggling to work part-time and still pay the bills etc... And certainly not having time to socialise and see my friends. I felt very alone.
Then i bumped into my old coach one day. Told him how i was finding life in general and he brought me back to the whole "positive thinking means positive actions" theory he had spent a good couple of years drilling into me. He saw potential there, he just had to make sure that i saw it too. So I now applied that to everything i do, my sport, my relationships, my family, my job so on and so on...
Anyway, the point of this (far too long) story is; you need to start looking up. Think about what you want to be doing with your life, your friends, your family and aim towards it. Think of the positive outcomes that can come from it and aim towards those. When you are getting out of a rut like this, it can often feel like you are betraying your own pride, like taking steps to fix broken friendships that fell apart for stupid reasons etc. But do it anyway, its worth it.
Dont just wait for it to get better, go out and make it better. And try not feeling so alone.. i mean just look at all the support that you have had on here...
I then had a coach who caught on to the fact that it was effecting my game, and he spent a lot of time instilling in me that "positive thinking means positive actions". Thus, my game got better.
A few years later when i left home to go to university, I found things tough going. Stressed from Uni, broke up with my gf, struggling to work part-time and still pay the bills etc... And certainly not having time to socialise and see my friends. I felt very alone.
Then i bumped into my old coach one day. Told him how i was finding life in general and he brought me back to the whole "positive thinking means positive actions" theory he had spent a good couple of years drilling into me. He saw potential there, he just had to make sure that i saw it too. So I now applied that to everything i do, my sport, my relationships, my family, my job so on and so on...
Anyway, the point of this (far too long) story is; you need to start looking up. Think about what you want to be doing with your life, your friends, your family and aim towards it. Think of the positive outcomes that can come from it and aim towards those. When you are getting out of a rut like this, it can often feel like you are betraying your own pride, like taking steps to fix broken friendships that fell apart for stupid reasons etc. But do it anyway, its worth it.
Dont just wait for it to get better, go out and make it better. And try not feeling so alone.. i mean just look at all the support that you have had on here...
Bit like me really. You, into your D&D and gaming, where's all I have time for is sport..Anachronism said:
What you're trying to say, is that you don't like people. Except the girlfriend. Enjoy it when she goes to uni!
Me? I'm so lonely...
All you have time for is sport? Don't make me laugh. Starcraft...elitecrewer said:
Brilliant deduction. It's a fairly well established fact that I hate 90% of all people. Which, to be honest, is probably a significant reason for why I feel alone a lot of the time.elitecrewer said:
It was sarcastic. I thought that I wouldn't need sarcasm tags when telling you how I love sport more than gaming!Anachronism said:
Agreed -> people suck, we know this. You'd think that our school would be a haven, but you still find the likes of... (you know who I mean).
Well I'm 18 in 3 months (2 the day as of tomorrow) so... it had better start passing real soon...DYin01 said:
Look at the crowd and tell me whether
All are surrounded
But none are together
If you're awake, look all around
At all of the people
Still you're so alone
So alone
If I could, I'd make a suggestion
Without sounding preachy
Or begging the question
Melt with your minds
Melt with each other
Don't be surrounded
Don't be so alone
All are surrounded
But none are together
If you're awake, look all around
At all of the people
Still you're so alone
So alone
If I could, I'd make a suggestion
Without sounding preachy
Or begging the question
Melt with your minds
Melt with each other
Don't be surrounded
Don't be so alone
That becomes really tough when you lack such a goal/aim in life, like I do. A friend of mine couldn't beleive that I had no ideals, dreams and goals left. It's 100% true though.NeferX said:
Every lonely person is lonely because they are choose to be, through action or inaction. If you think about it, you are surrounded by people everywhere. People who say, that they are lonely because nobody wants to talk to them or be friends with them, are themselves introverted. People are not mind readers, if you want to talk to them or be friends with them, well, go ahead and speak up. The great majority of people respond positively when you address them, from then on, it's just a matter of personal taste.sonicspin said:
Naawww *feeds you friends*fullmetalangel said:
I like being alone, in a physical sense.
I do, however, like having someone to talk//txt to whilst being alone, sort of like vicariously living the life of a socialite whilst being locked away in my room. I think I enjoy my freedom too much to ever get married, kinda sad really :|
Most of the time I feel alone, probably because I only have friends on the internet. However, over the past 18 months I've grown to love my own company, and whilst sometimes it feels bad, most of the time I love it.
I would still like to meet people in real life though, hence me moving out after summer.
I would still like to meet people in real life though, hence me moving out after summer.