Do you have a fetish? Why do you think you have it?

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herpaderphurr

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To the people posting in this thread: Would you admit the same things you're admitting here, in real life, to your friends?

If not, then... aren't you a little anxious that a friend, maybe an Escapist lurker, might see your post/username, then realise it's you (through username or information posted), and thus know some embarrassing things you'd rather not have them know?


1. Yep.
2. Same reason I like my favourite foods and colours, same reason I prefer computers over sports...
 

Sebenko

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A few. Read my previou posts and you might dredge up a couple.

Why? Dunno. Feels good, man.
 

herpaderphurr

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Yes. Nekos. ("Catgirls" to you Yanks. Neko is the "proper" term for them.)

Reason? I guess since I have a personality that is decidedly feline.
Neko is the Japanese term for them... and...some might say that it's a bit of a weeaboo (wapanese) term.

Catgirl is not a "Yank" term, it's simply a Western term that conveys the meaning of the term more clearly to English-speakers.
 

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1. Who doesn't? Currently I'm into heavy rope play and domination (I'm the top). I can only do a couple complicated knots at the moment, but I'm eyeing a few books that will teach me more. There's something so visceral and sexy about a thick hemp rope totally restraining your partner. Fetishes are so weird. There are of course specific "rules" as to what works:

-Ropes only (cuffs suck)
-The act of tying is by far the hottest part
-There has to be some kind of "punishment" that the "victim" accepts. Simulated rape bores me.

2. I'm not sure how it started. I never found bondage hot in cartoons. Even explicitly sexual bondage videos don't turn me on (at least not like "straight" porn does). What I have found is that how much I want to engage in bondage/dom play correlates with how stressed out I am in my real life. When I feel like I'm out of control in my life there's something incredibly redemptive about being totally in control in the bedroom.

Also. Vore!@? wtf!? That's so .... uhhh ... What's so hot about it? I looked up some images and it was pretty much what you see in cartoons (except they're usually naked). Most fetishes I can somewhat relate to, but not this. I'm intrigued. What's the hottest part? The anticipation? The initial plunge? While the person/animal is sliding down? Or at the end when it's just a lump in the person/animal's belly? Is the idea of subsequent digestion hot? I don't mean to be judgmental at all, I'm just fascinated.
 

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herpaderphurr said:
To the people posting in this thread: Would you admit the same things you're admitting here, in real life, to your friends?

If not, then... aren't you a little anxious that a friend, maybe an Escapist lurker, might see your post/username, then realise it's you (through username or information posted), and thus know some embarrassing things you'd rather not have them know?


1. Yep.
2. Same reason I like my favourite foods and colours, same reason I prefer computers over sports...
That's a good question. The only person that might possible know who I am is my younger brother? But would I mind if my friends found out about my fetishes? Hmmm. I think I would be more embarrassed for my partner. But if she was cool with it I could care less. I'm know for a fact that of my four closest friends at least two of them have a certain fetish they've told me about. Yeah. Beer and camping always leads to sex talk.
 

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1. A handful, one of them being sports related. I just find chicks involved in extreme sports and shit more attractive. Even if most of them look like blokes.
2. Fuck knows why, I guess I just find chicks with balls of granite sexy or some shit.
 

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herpaderphurr said:
To the people posting in this thread: Would you admit the same things you're admitting here, in real life, to your friends?

If not, then... aren't you a little anxious that a friend, maybe an Escapist lurker, might see your post/username, then realise it's you (through username or information posted), and thus know some embarrassing things you'd rather not have them know?


1. Yep.
2. Same reason I like my favourite foods and colours, same reason I prefer computers over sports...
I've considered it, but to be honest I've had talks with friends that went way further than anything you'll see posted in this thread so I'm not too worried.
 

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1. I have enough. :p
2. I'm pretty sure it's because of my personality, some stuff i used to watch as a kid and teenager plus the right person who just unleashed them.
 

keve4433

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1) I like getting bit and have a thing for neko-girls...among other things.

2) For the first I blame my ex, for the second I don't have a damn clue, I hate cats.
 

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Ramare said:
Yes. Nekos. ("Catgirls" to you Yanks. Neko is the "proper" term for them.)

Reason? I guess since I have a personality that is decidedly feline.
No, 'neko' literally just means 'cat', not 'cat girl'. Tell a Japanese person you're sexually attracted to Nekos and they're gonna think you're into something else.
 

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herpaderphurr said:
Ramare said:
Yes. Nekos. ("Catgirls" to you Yanks. Neko is the "proper" term for them.)

Reason? I guess since I have a personality that is decidedly feline.
Neko is the Japanese term for them... and...some might say that it's a bit of a weeaboo (wapanese) term.

Catgirl is not a "Yank" term, it's simply a Western term that conveys the meaning of the term more clearly to English-speakers.
Yes. And Neko is indeed the Japanese term. And from a combination of them most likely inventing what Westerners call the "Catgirl" in popular culture, and it sounding more "professional" than Catgirl, I said it was proper. But there was a reason it was in quotes: No one can really say what you should call them. Especially since they don't exist, outside of fetish-shop frequenters with heavy willing suspension of disbelief. (I kid. Well, mostly...)

As far as saying it was what Yanks would call it, it was just a generalization. Nekos are very popular in America, depending on the circles we're talking about.

I would know. I am American. I just like to act like a pompous Brit. (On the interweb, of course. I act like that in real life, people would think I'm "gay", more likely than not.) Why? Hell if I bloody know. Just for fun, probably. Like everything else I do. Now sod off, I'm going to go make some tea. And I'm not even kidding. The tea I make is freakin' awesome. It's got honey and lemon in it. Quite good.

Although I admit that, again, you can call them whatever you want. It's like tomayto tomahto, but with different spellings included. Although, yes, the latter (Neko, of course.) will only be readily recognized in some Western circles. (Like this one, for instance!) Catgirl is less...uh...can't think of anything better to put here, again. So I'll just say "professional" again. What do I mean by this? Hell if I know. Just seems more proper, somehow. ...Maybe that's what you meant by "weeaboo"...

Addendum: Okay, I stepped on my own foot there. Somewhat. Now that I remembered that neko pretty much just means cat, I remembered something. They're called Nekomimis. Cat ears. And then remembered the reason for that above awkwardness: I thought that catears made more sense than catgirl. Mostly because the usual Western catgirl is pretty much just a woman with cat ears and tail.

Because woman aren't the only nekos out there, cat ears doesn't have a sex attributed to it. Plus the "real" ones have the whole shebang. Claws, elongated K-9s, matching hair color all around (Actual hair, ear fur, tail fur.), and cat's eyes. Not particular to the usual catgirl. There, now I sound less odd. Well, probably.
 

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1) I seem to have a fetish for womans screaming in terror.

2) Mt threoy is that I got it from overhearing my pairents watching poltergiest and I liked the screaming. Messed up I know >_>
 

herpaderphurr

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Ah, when you put it that way... yes, the term "Neko" does have a bit more class compared the more slang-ish term "Catgirl", even if it might not be as easily understood.

and lol british :v
 

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Bondage (kidnap/ damsel-in-distress), biting, legs, food-play (oral insertion only)

For bondage: I couldn't jump-rope well. Also, I remember bondage/ kidnap stories being really popular in late-80's/90's cartoons (TMNT) and in the older ones that were still being aired (Perils of Penelope Pitstop)

For biting...I think it comes with the Goth phase I went through in High School.

Legs are sexy

I love to eat (because I'm American)


I want it inside of me...down the throat, not up the butt

I am lucky to have found someone who will not only play with me and indulge in my little joys but shares the very same joys! It keeps the kidnap charges and, jail time away :3

An above post made me remember: cosplay! This includes elven-ladies and, cat girls.
 

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Shoggoth2588 said:
Bondage (kidnap/ damsel-in-distress), biting, legs, food-play (oral insertion only)

For bondage: I couldn't jump-rope well. Also, I remember bondage/ kidnap stories being really popular in late-80's/90's cartoons (TMNT) and in the older ones that were still being aired (Perils of Penelope Pitstop)

For biting...I think it comes with the Goth phase I went through in High School.

Legs are sexy

I love to eat (because I'm American)


I want it inside of me...down the throat, not up the butt

I am lucky to have found someone who will not only play with me and indulge in my little joys but shares the very same joys! It keeps the kidnap charges and, jail time away :3

An above post made me remember: cosplay! This includes elven-ladies and, cat girls.
Would that be me, by any chance, boyo?
 

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1. Hmmm, I'll definitely say I've got some interesting fetishes. The only one I'll mention is, I can't get off unless I can get off inside (any orifice will do). Kinda odd, but that's just me.

2. Why? To hell if I know! I've got others, but yeah, that's the only one I'ma tell you guys :p
 

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herpaderphurr said:
Ramare said:
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Ah, when you put it that way... yes, the term "Neko" does have a bit more class compared the more slang-ish term "Catgirl", even if it might not be as easily understood.

and lol british :v
Did you read the addendum? That clears things up a bit more. Hopefully.
 

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Ramare said:
Shoggoth2588 said:
Bondage (kidnap/ damsel-in-distress), biting, legs, food-play (oral insertion only)

For bondage: I couldn't jump-rope well. Also, I remember bondage/ kidnap stories being really popular in late-80's/90's cartoons (TMNT) and in the older ones that were still being aired (Perils of Penelope Pitstop)

For biting...I think it comes with the Goth phase I went through in High School.

Legs are sexy

I love to eat (because I'm American)


I want it inside of me...down the throat, not up the butt

I am lucky to have found someone who will not only play with me and indulge in my little joys but shares the very same joys! It keeps the kidnap charges and, jail time away :3

An above post made me remember: cosplay! This includes elven-ladies and, cat girls.
Would that be me, by any chance, boyo?
That was you: You are to blame for making me remember that one detail. I hope you're pleased with yourself too, putting images of neko-girls into my brain. They had been gone for about an hour and now they are back. It's all good though...I guess.