Do you know that one Ex-girlfriend...

[Yog Sothoth]

*sigh* I remember high school...

So what, they're your friends and no one else's? Your friends can't decide for themselves who they want to hang out with or who they want to date?

My advice? Get over it. Your ex and your friends can hang out with who ever they want to. If you don't like it, make some new friends. It's high school, and it will all be over soon and you'll never have to see her again...

 

[the_joker1112]

Do you know that one Ex-girlfriend that you had that knows all of you friends. Well recently my ex has gone psycho-*****. She keeps hanging out with my friends and even dated my best friend a week after she and I broke up. I have hated her so much and I just can't get away from her. She's in my classes, she sit with me and my friends in the mornings and today she crosses the line. I have tried to be nice and say "hello how are you" and today she gos off on me. Saying how she wants me to leave her alone and the only reason why she is by me in the mornings is to talk to my friends(when almost all of them call her a slut and whore) and how I should just stop trying to be nice; and that she never cared and shit like that. I just need some advice. Oh, and to put the cherry on the cake she dumped my best friend like seven times and he kept going back! She is like a plague! I graduate in 96 days but if this keeps up I am going to go crazy. What should I do?

why would you come to the escapist to talk about this stuff? as we have all said before Wes. We may not like it but just let it go. how about you stop talking to her and then possibly she will leave you alone as well. And another thing, you are dating someone elce now..it's time to move on mate. also with Bryan going back to her, just let him do it. we cant stop him anyway might as well keep to ourselves about it.

RUN, DUDE! THIS CHICK HUNTED YOU DOWN ABOUT THE TOPIC! i know she probably isnt the psyco, but thats still pretty weird.

anyways, i think you should just talk to her. and if that dosnt work then if she had the nerve to go off on you, you should do it right back. and if that dosnt work, then you could allways just tell her "its over, and it will never be again." that little sentence works wonders. althow, ya might want to watch out, i said that to my now ex, and after two days, she started dateing this huge guy just to sick him on me, which she did. so after i beat the crap out of him (im a martial artest, brawlers are so predictable.) i tell him how he was being used, the tool, and we both ganged up on her and had a talk, and now she never bothers me anymore. but ya, fighting with words is so much easier. think about it.

 

[Hamsterlad]

Do you know that one Ex-girlfriend that you had that knows all of you friends. Well recently my ex has gone psycho-*****. She keeps hanging out with my friends and even dated my best friend a week after she and I broke up. I have hated her so much and I just can't get away from her. She's in my classes, she sit with me and my friends in the mornings and today she crosses the line. I have tried to be nice and say "hello how are you" and today she gos off on me. Saying how she wants me to leave her alone and the only reason why she is by me in the mornings is to talk to my friends(when almost all of them call her a slut and whore) and how I should just stop trying to be nice; and that she never cared and shit like that. I just need some advice. Oh, and to put the cherry on the cake she dumped my best friend like seven times and he kept going back! She is like a plague! I graduate in 96 days but if this keeps up I am going to go crazy. What should I do?

why would you come to the escapist to talk about this stuff? as we have all said before Wes. We may not like it but just let it go. how about you stop talking to her and then possibly she will leave you alone as well. And another thing, you are dating someone elce now..it's time to move on mate. also with Bryan going back to her, just let him do it. we cant stop him anyway might as well keep to ourselves about it.

That's not what you said in Cyberarts today Steve. You basically agreed. I'm not going to get too much into this because I got in trouble with things like this before.

yes i dont like the relationship. and sometimes i want to gouge my eyes out when i saw PDA from them and its true i dont rlly care for her as a friend iether but still.

 

[ladyblackwolf]

My advice (and I admit I'm still LMAO that you are asking such a question HERE) is simply grow up and move on.

I agree with Thiosk and Yog Sothoth. It's just High School, you're a teenager, I know it seems all important right now but trust me... it's just all bullshit.

Life is yet to happen to you!

This is just playground politics. It's very unlikely you will even know half these people in three years time.

Yes I sound old... compared to you I guess I am... and I'm not trying to be nasty by saying this, but just try to put it into perspective. You're nearly outta there. College awaits. And after that comes the real world.

I am sorry to hear that your feelings have been hurt, honestly. I'm also sorry to hear that she seems to have some issues to resolve too.

Real friends will stick by you no matter what. And only time will tell who they are.

So hang in there, graduate, move on. Seriously, where do you see yourself in three years? In six years? Now how important does this seem really in the overall scheme of things?

 

[brtshstel]

Breakups are wars, just like divorces. Instead of fighting to keep yout for your hard-earned assets from her bitchy greed, you're going to have to turn your friends against her before she does the same to you. Fight for what's rightfully yours and make her get her own life instead of taking yours away.

 

[mocruz1200]

if she has a pool, throw a matress in it. oodles of fun, because it requires a crane to remove. literally. if not, chloroform+ pooper sex is not a bad idea either

Am I missing something here? Since when was a crane required to remove a mattress from a pool?

the matress essenciall becomes a huge sponge, and becomse incredibly heavy. it happened to my school once, a crane was required

 

[justnotcricket]

My advice (and I admit I'm still LMAO that you are asking such a question HERE) is simply grow up and move on.

I agree with Thiosk and Yog Sothoth. It's just High School, you're a teenager, I know it seems all important right now but trust me... it's just all bullshit.

Life is yet to happen to you!

This is just playground politics. It's very unlikely you will even know half these people in three years time.

Yes I sound old... compared to you I guess I am... and I'm not trying to be nasty by saying this, but just try to put it into perspective. You're nearly outta there. College awaits. And after that comes the real world.

I am sorry to hear that your feelings have been hurt, honestly. I'm also sorry to hear that she seems to have some issues to resolve too.

Real friends will stick by you no matter what. And only time will tell who they are.

So hang in there, graduate, move on. Seriously, where do you see yourself in three years? In six years? Now how important does this seem really in the overall scheme of things?

Well said!

I know things must seem like such a mess right now, but the best way really is just to try and rise above it as much as you can. If you start throwing insults it *always* makes things worse, you wind up feeling childish, and it makes the whole feud drag out much, much longer than it needs to.

 

[Ryuzix]

Murder her or.... drug her and mail her to South Korea....

Why south? Why not NORTH!

Do they accept our mail?

Hmmm.
Say its a gift of peace or a package of radioactive stuff that will help them make nukes (You can tell I haven't been paying attention in science).

 

[BBONGA]

Stick it in her pooper?

She's begging for it.

 

[Corpse XxX]

The more you hurt the more you show that you care.. And you need to stop that..

Best thing is to get a new girl a.s.a.p, and always be in a good mood, or at least put on a fake smile when she is around, have fun with other people showing her your better off without her..

 

[BBONGA]

I'm glad to say that I don't know that one ex-girlfriend.

I have a girlfriend, and hopefully a fiance, and then a wife. I couldn't ever leave her, I love her too much. And she couldn't ever leave me, she loves me too much.

Good luck with that, Chief....


...Hope it works out...

 

[Aesthetical Quietus]

Get all of your friends and whomever else wants to be a part of it, and corner her at school for an intervention. You need to be the one leading it since you've been wronged, just flat out say, "Look, you're a whore, no one here likes you, GTFO." Either that, or take her out to the middle of a lake, and beat her senselessly with a wiffle ball bat.

+1
It already sounds like your friends don't like her, just ask them to stop talking to her.
They were your friends first, so unless your a lousy or she's really great they'll stick up for you.

 

[J-Man]

seriously leave her alone and she'll leave you alone or at least grow a back bone talk to your friends about it instead of using a forum site to solve your problems.

Rude.

Anyway, just be very polite but cold. She'll get the picture.

I have my reasons

For being a dick?

 

[Diceman]

Well yer a lucky one obviously...

Well if we ignore the fun option (kill her in an elborate plot involving cheese, a turnstile and X-Factor) you may as well ignore her.
And I dont mean the pussy ass approach some people use (if you do, i sneer at you), just be restraintly hostile toward her. Ignore her utterly, and if she is actually forcing you to talk, outright yell at her to fuck off. But be VERY careful not to over do it. Just shout once, and go off and talk to friends. Be the one to walk away. I know it sounds extreme and very very mean, but if shes as much of a psycho-***** as you make out, she will soon decide to flee.

Or prod her with a stick till she tells you all

 

[Bat Vader]

Do you know that one Ex-girlfriend that you had that knows all of you friends. Well recently my ex has gone psycho-*****. She keeps hanging out with my friends and even dated my best friend a week after she and I broke up. I have hated her so much and I just can't get away from her. She's in my classes, she sit with me and my friends in the mornings and today she crosses the line. I have tried to be nice and say "hello how are you" and today she gos off on me. Saying how she wants me to leave her alone and the only reason why she is by me in the mornings is to talk to my friends(when almost all of them call her a slut and whore) and how I should just stop trying to be nice; and that she never cared and shit like that. I just need some advice. Oh, and to put the cherry on the cake she dumped my best friend like seven times and he kept going back! She is like a plague! I graduate in 96 days but if this keeps up I am going to go crazy. What should I do?

Just ignore her. Carry on and show no more attention to her. If you leave her alone she may leave you alone. If not just make sure to never let her see how her insults affect you. But this is your problem not mine. I just offer advice.

 

[Altorin]

Why is your best friend dating her? That kinda goes against "guy code" to date a best friend's ex.

Agree. I have befriended my friend's ex-girlfriend, but I will never date her. Not because she's not attractive or because we don't like each other (quite contrary), but it would be quite assholish.


Oh, and just tell everyone how big of a whore and a promiscuous slut she is.

There is a statute of limitations on the guy code.

 

[AbsoluteVirtue18]

Get all of your friends and whomever else wants to be a part of it, and corner her at school for an intervention. You need to be the one leading it since you've been wronged, just flat out say, "Look, you're a whore, no one here likes you, GTFO." Either that, or take her out to the middle of a lake, and beat her senselessly with a wiffle ball bat.

This man speaks the truth.

A brilliant man indeed.

Quite.

 

[AbsoluteVirtue18]

I don't know man. I mean, you could just tell her to fuck off, but that might make you seem easy to break. The way I see it you have two options:

A) Act as annoyingly nice as possible and make her mind snap from the fact she's not getting to you.

B) Find one of her friends and date them. Ah.....vengence.....


Or there's always ignoring her, though I know that doesn't work often.

 

[Pumpkin_Eater]

Tell her you want to get back together and make it convincing; don't just give up after the first attempt. It may not solve your problem, but it should at least get an amusing reaction and make the next 96 days more fun.