Despite how dark it sometimes is and how funny the writing can be, I usually find myself thinking of Yahtzee's Dragon Age: Origins review. It definitely tries too hard and ends up seeming more juvenile than mature rather.
I've never met a woman yet who treated sleeping with men like fucking card captors (or a man, happily)...rbstewart7263 said:Well you know its common practice for girls to also brag and show off there conquests in certain circles so I dont really see the problem.Moonlight Butterfly said:I played the first one and the cards made me feel physically ill. I didn't buy Witcher 2 because of that. A lot of people defend it by saying 'Oh it's the books setting everything is sexist'. Well that's nice and everything but it doesn't stop it from making me feel uncomfortable.
So yeah it's probably mature in the way Leisure suit Larry is mature...
It would be nice to enjoy the gameplay without that stuff being rubbed in your face but what can you do. Hoping cdprojeckt bring an RPG out one day with a different setting so maybe I can play it.
It's the only AAA game series I really feel excluded from as a female.
Its the same way that django unchained was actually making you feel how brutal slavery really was by escalating everything. Its the first movie that made me feel bad and educated me on things. Other films just looked at it reverently which is fine but it does nothing for me to not know how brutal and terrible something is. Knowing it sure I know slavery was bad hell those three words sound like a tshirt. But "feeling" that slavery was bad now that was an accomplishment. The witcher made me feel just how subjugated the elves were. I certainly didnt smile a wicked patriarchial smile when that poor elf was kept as a sex slave for months on end by the most elfist racist mug in the game. BUT! I did have an appreciation for how that mentality is harmful. These days racism tends to just lead to words and hurt feelings or not getting a job. Seeing the extreme I was able to revile such a thing.bastardofmelbourne said:I...well, I don't have much of a response to that other than to say that I don't think Sapkowski put pervasive, institutionalised sexism in his setting because he enjoys subjugating women.Moonlight Butterfly said:If I actually thought that was the reason they made medieval type games sexist I would be all for it. I actually think they do it because men like it that women are oppressed. It gets kind of tiring after a while. I try to put across my point of view on this but most of the time I just get shouted down and told my opinion is worthless.
Robert Jordan, maybe. That's an allegation I'll lend credence to. But Sapkowski's novels are very firmly against the sexist and racist tendencies of the authority figures within the setting. In fact, a major theme of the novels is the anti-authoritarianism of its lower-class protagonist, who's essentially the fantasy equivalent of the plumber that everybody needs and nobody wants to pay.
Look, I can see that it would upset you to see women treated brutally in a fantasy setting but...that's the point. It's meant to be upsetting and unpleasant. That's how you convey the fact that sexism is upsetting and unpleasant. People don't play this game and go "Herp a derp, that lady gets beaten by her husband! I am so hard right now."It would be nice to play The Witcher without the sexism. Because for people who are a part of the oppression it just isn't fun. I can imagine it's entertaining for those who are privileged enough to be in the same position as Geralt ie above it all but when you are constantly told your sex is worthless even by something that is meant to be an escape and fun it gets to you after a while.
Judging from your responses I guess you guys can't understand that.
Would you prefer it if the games were whitewashed and never addressed sexism as a problem?
Its the same way that django unchained was actually making you feel how brutal slavery really was by escalating everything. Its the first movie that made me feel bad and educated me on things. Other films just looked at it reverently which is fine but it does nothing for me to not know how brutal and terrible something is. Knowing it sure I know slavery was bad hell those three words sound like a tshirt. But "feeling" that slavery was bad now that was an accomplishment. The witcher made me feel just how subjugated the elves were. I certainly didnt smile a wicked patriarchial smile when that poor elf was kept as a sex slave for months on end by the most elfist racist mug in the game. BUT! I did have an appreciation for how that mentality is harmful. These days racism tends to just lead to words and hurt feelings or not getting a job. Seeing the extreme I was able to revile such a thing.bastardofmelbourne said:I...well, I don't have much of a response to that other than to say that I don't think Sapkowski put pervasive, institutionalised sexism in his setting because he enjoys subjugating women.Moonlight Butterfly said:If I actually thought that was the reason they made medieval type games sexist I would be all for it. I actually think they do it because men like it that women are oppressed. It gets kind of tiring after a while. I try to put across my point of view on this but most of the time I just get shouted down and told my opinion is worthless.
Robert Jordan, maybe. That's an allegation I'll lend credence to. But Sapkowski's novels are very firmly against the sexist and racist tendencies of the authority figures within the setting. In fact, a major theme of the novels is the anti-authoritarianism of its lower-class protagonist, who's essentially the fantasy equivalent of the plumber that everybody needs and nobody wants to pay.
Look, I can see that it would upset you to see women treated brutally in a fantasy setting but...that's the point. It's meant to be upsetting and unpleasant. That's how you convey the fact that sexism is upsetting and unpleasant. People don't play this game and go "Herp a derp, that lady gets beaten by her husband! I am so hard right now."It would be nice to play The Witcher without the sexism. Because for people who are a part of the oppression it just isn't fun. I can imagine it's entertaining for those who are privileged enough to be in the same position as Geralt ie above it all but when you are constantly told your sex is worthless even by something that is meant to be an escape and fun it gets to you after a while.
Judging from your responses I guess you guys can't understand that.
Would you prefer it if the games were whitewashed and never addressed sexism as a problem?
Its the same way that django unchained was actually making you feel how brutal slavery really was by escalating everything. Its the first movie that made me feel bad and educated me on things. Other films just looked at it reverently which is fine but it does nothing for me to not know how brutal and terrible something is. Knowing it sure I know slavery was bad hell those three words sound like a tshirt. But "feeling" that slavery was bad now that was an accomplishment. The witcher made me feel just how subjugated the elves were. I certainly didnt smile a wicked patriarchial smile when that poor elf was kept as a sex slave for months on end by the most elfist racist mug in the game. BUT! I did have an appreciation for how that mentality is harmful. These days racism tends to just lead to words and hurt feelings or not getting a job. Seeing the extreme I was able to revile such a thing.bastardofmelbourne said:I...well, I don't have much of a response to that other than to say that I don't think Sapkowski put pervasive, institutionalised sexism in his setting because he enjoys subjugating women.Moonlight Butterfly said:If I actually thought that was the reason they made medieval type games sexist I would be all for it. I actually think they do it because men like it that women are oppressed. It gets kind of tiring after a while. I try to put across my point of view on this but most of the time I just get shouted down and told my opinion is worthless.
Robert Jordan, maybe. That's an allegation I'll lend credence to. But Sapkowski's novels are very firmly against the sexist and racist tendencies of the authority figures within the setting. In fact, a major theme of the novels is the anti-authoritarianism of its lower-class protagonist, who's essentially the fantasy equivalent of the plumber that everybody needs and nobody wants to pay.
Look, I can see that it would upset you to see women treated brutally in a fantasy setting but...that's the point. It's meant to be upsetting and unpleasant. That's how you convey the fact that sexism is upsetting and unpleasant. People don't play this game and go "Herp a derp, that lady gets beaten by her husband! I am so hard right now."It would be nice to play The Witcher without the sexism. Because for people who are a part of the oppression it just isn't fun. I can imagine it's entertaining for those who are privileged enough to be in the same position as Geralt ie above it all but when you are constantly told your sex is worthless even by something that is meant to be an escape and fun it gets to you after a while.
Judging from your responses I guess you guys can't understand that.
Would you prefer it if the games were whitewashed and never addressed sexism as a problem?
Such a naive view to think games are merely for enjoyment, rather than the exploration of all emotions.Moonlight Butterfly said:I'm kind of puzzled as to why you 'enjoy' seeing women oppressed though, yes.
I have ive been treated like that. She didnt take a picture and collect it but I was merely a conquest plain and simple which was the implication of the cards and thus the point. Women do it all the time to guys. Go into bar or a dating site, pretend to be so interested in you and so into you and then never call you again the next day.Moonlight Butterfly said:I've never met a woman yet who treated sleeping with men like fucking card captors (or a man, happily)...rbstewart7263 said:Well you know its common practice for girls to also brag and show off there conquests in certain circles so I dont really see the problem.Moonlight Butterfly said:I played the first one and the cards made me feel physically ill. I didn't buy Witcher 2 because of that. A lot of people defend it by saying 'Oh it's the books setting everything is sexist'. Well that's nice and everything but it doesn't stop it from making me feel uncomfortable.
So yeah it's probably mature in the way Leisure suit Larry is mature...
It would be nice to enjoy the gameplay without that stuff being rubbed in your face but what can you do. Hoping cdprojeckt bring an RPG out one day with a different setting so maybe I can play it.
It's the only AAA game series I really feel excluded from as a female.
Well as long as white males don't feel uncomfortable then I guess it's fine.wulf3n said:Such a naive view to think games are merely for enjoyment, rather than the exploration of all emotions.Moonlight Butterfly said:I'm kind of puzzled as to why you 'enjoy' seeing women oppressed though, yes.
The sexist acts [ignoring the card fiasco] are there to make you feel uncomfortable, everything in that world is there to make you uncomfortable, the atmosphere their building is that of a shit place to live full of shit people.
You missed the point, it makes everyone uncomfortable, that's the idea.Moonlight Butterfly said:Well as long as white males don't feel uncomfortable then I guess it's fine.wulf3n said:Such a naive view to think games are merely for enjoyment, rather than the exploration of all emotions.Moonlight Butterfly said:I'm kind of puzzled as to why you 'enjoy' seeing women oppressed though, yes.
The sexist acts [ignoring the card fiasco] are there to make you feel uncomfortable, everything in that world is there to make you uncomfortable, the atmosphere their building is that of a shit place to live full of shit people.
You certainly missed Geralt's speech against a mob of zealots that are trying to burn Abigail, a witch, based on their prejudices and the fact that she sleeps around (and he CAN do this and STILL NOT HAVE sex whit her, thats a PLAYER CHOICE, fact that many people have reminded you thouout the thread but YOU choose to ignore in your comments).Moonlight Butterfly said:Like I said before if I was saying gamers were sexist I'd be including myself in that since I've been gaming for over 25 years.bastardofmelbourne said:I understand that this may be a radical suggestion, but perhaps the reason guys get so defensive about it is because you are insinuating that the product that they like is sexist, and thus that they are sexists for liking it.Moonlight Butterfly said:I guess I figured you guys would only be so defensive of it if you enjoyed it.
I'm kind of puzzled as to why you 'enjoy' seeing women oppressed though, yes.
As for the 'Geralt is oppressed' theme I never got that when I played the witcher. I got more of an impression that he was a Gary Stu. An overpowered male fantasy figure who could get all the ladies. Maybe I missed the point...
The gameplay would be a lot more tedious if Geralt collapsed from potion use as he does in the books. Being a witcher he is faster and stronger than normal, he can see in the dark, ... so we could say he is overpowered in game, because there are no downsides.Moonlight Butterfly said:As for the 'Geralt is oppressed' theme I never got that when I played the witcher. I got more of an impression that he was a Gary Stu. An overpowered male fantasy figure who could get all the ladies. Maybe I missed the point...
In fact they're probably not joking, since they're actually racist and sexist.BrotherRool said:If so it's a fail in voice acting, because it doesn't sound like they're joking.freaper said:I always imagined that the reason you get the shitty jokes and remarks is because the people uttering them are backward, racist peasants. So, good character design?
It was worse than just a casual acceptance of domestic violence, as well as beating his wife a man could appeal to what passed as the authorities and have his wife classed as a scold. [http://www.medieval-life-and-times.info/medieval-torture-and-punishment/scolds-bridal.htm] She would then have a metal mask with a built in gag strapped onto her head and dragged through the streets to be mocked and have things thrown at her.The-Traveling-Bard said:Besides during medieval times man would beat their wives,BrotherRool said:There is no sensible world where people (a woman at that) would talk so casually about an abusive relationship.
Not "gamers." Male gamers specifically get very defensive when it's implied that a game they like is "sexist." If you're male, under 30 and grew up in the first world, you were probably raised to think that all prejudice is unjustifiable, men and women are equal, and that "sexist" is an awful thing to be. So when someone else says they think a game is sexist, regardless of whether they're right or not, male fans of the game get defensive, because they've been conditioned to think of sexism as abhorrent.Moonlight Butterfly said:Like I said before if I was saying gamers were sexist I'd be including myself in that since I've been gaming for over 25 years.
I'm really confused now because I don't remember saying that. Or anyone saying that, for that matter.I'm kind of puzzled as to why you 'enjoy' seeing women oppressed though, yes.
Geralt is discriminated against in-universe. The fact that he's an ideal power fantasy for a contemporary, real-life male is distinct from the fact that in the context of the story, he's considered an abhorrent mutant and has to live on the fringes of society.As for the 'Geralt is oppressed' theme I never got that when I played the witcher. I got more of an impression that he was a Gary Stu. An overpowered male fantasy figure who could get all the ladies. Maybe I missed the point...
Technically, Geralt has been cheating on his one-true-love Yennefer with Triss for the past two games. I don't think he can cheat on Triss if he's already cheating on Yennefer with Triss. That's like...double adultery.Saviordd1 said:The Witcher series seems just a bit to happy to shove tits in my face at times...aren't we supposed to be loyal to Triss? I mean, I get that the rules of hoity toity weren't quite the same but still, you can bone half the god damn female cast through the game.
This is actually something really interesting about the game - a lot of the ambient dialogue is people gossiping about you behind your back. Stuff like telling their children to go inside when you walk past, asking "what do witchers really eat?", "Is that a witcher? I thought they had horns!" and stuff like that. It's a really good oppression simulator. That's to say that it creates an atmosphere where you get the feeling that nobody in the town likes you, and that you stand out like a sore thumb.neur0mans3r said:People tolerate witchers only when they need their services. People in cities say things like : 'Look out, a witcher is in town. Hide your kids.' The game portrayal is a bit more standard RPG, but you can see it everywhere.
Right. Please explain how Geralt, Triss and Dandelion are shallow stock archetypes and I'll take you seriously. Or maybe Iorveth, Roche and Ves? It shouldn't be a problem for you since all the characters are shallow stock archetypes right?Dark wolverine said:The idea The Witcher is mature is so laughable I don't know where to begin.
The characters are all shallow stock archetypes so anything they do falls flat and empty, while trying to maintain an embarrassing veneer of grandeur.
Swearing and tits, a deep and mature experience, they do not make.
Those are a 10 yr old's impression of maturity, a mindset people who made and play this game should've grown out of a long time ago.
I think The Witcher is an excellent if flawed game and I often find myself defending it.Moonlight Butterfly said:And I'm pretty sure people agree with me about the card business.