Does gaming create social rejects?

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ChristianxKrupps

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no it doesn't. what kind of question is that? you people are all here because you enjoy your video games. you interact, share beliefs, etc. etc.

if you were social rejects, none of you would be here
 

irrelevantnugget

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The_root_of_all_evil said:
Wrong way round. Social rejects create excessive gaming because that's the only way they have of socialising.

A better phrase to use would be "rejected by society" though.

Let's see, play on a game with hundreds of different nationalities testing your wits against others or hang round with your clique repeating insular peer pressure ideals

Hrrmmmm.
Well, you're more or less right, and I'm a prime example of that.
People made fun of me (and they still do, sigh) in any ways they could possibly do that, whereas I just tried to gain their respect. I gradually started gaming more and more, not wanting to join the scouts and all that shit, just because I didn't see the point of it all.
If being social meant being ridiculed for what I am (I have a slightly darker tone of skin due to my asian heritage), then I prefer playing games, where I at least get rewards when I solve problems. In real life, people would just abuse my generosity/gullibility.

Society rejected me, I rejected society and turned to gaming. Am I addicted? Yes. But I don't find that I've made the wrong choice by choosing anti-social behaviour over popularity. I likely would've killed myself years ago if I didn't have any form of catharsis when my depression 'peaked' (or hit a new low, rather).

ChristianxKrupps said:
if you were social rejects, none of you would be here
Well, there's a difference between 'society', and 'community'. A forum is more of a community, and I'm here just to chat around whenever I like. I avoid society, but that doesn't mean I want to talk in a community, this one consisting of fellow gamers :)
 

ElArabDeMagnifico

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I think anything that is more "anti-social than usual" can create a social reject. Internet forums for example >_>

-and heck, it depends on how it's used, The Wii's sole purpose was for playing with your buddies.

I wouldn't say simply inserting a game disc = the path on a very long, dark, and crooked road. Just depends on your "addiction" to it.
 

Kehan Wann

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i was a social reject before i found gaming so gaming didnt do it to me.. although it could have prolonged the problem
 

cainx10a

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Been a social reject since the day I stepped into my o-level class, and it was around the same time I started to hang around in LANs and MMOs, I guess I found it easier to make e-friends and keep them than it was in real-life. So yeah, don't steal my internet, and I shall live a happy life. Hur hur hur ...
 

Mr. GameBrain

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No. Society creates "Social Rejects".
Why? Because Society marks people with an interest in gaming as "different", but not in a "everyone is uniquely special" kind of way.

I played a lot of games as a child, (edutainment pc games, snes games, megadrive games), but I also had a lot of friends too, and I had no issues in my education, (except in reading, where I was being HELD BACK, because I was too good at it, and apparently, I had to let the other kids catch up. I spent a whole year on the same reading level! God I must've been so pissed when I was younger!), and physical activities.

Primary school wasn't too bad either as everyone was into pokemon, and I played the pokemon games a lot. Yes, I was bullied a little by one bad group, but that was unrelated to my hobby, (they must've been jealous of my capability to learn both year 5 and 6 stuff, (I was in a combined class in year 5, as the numbers were so small)).

Secondary school was horrid though. Gaming had become somewhat unpopular in that specific 5-6 year period, (this was pre to post ps2 and xbox don't forget), and the popular kids had "grown out" of pokemon and videogames, (I only use pokemon as an example, as it was the best tie-in to gamers and non-gamers in my generation).

I remember serveral times when the popular kids would come up to me while I was playing on my gameboy colour/GBA/ DS (well that one guy was still doing it, but he was an idiot!), and pull the cartridge out and try to turn the system of sometimes if I blocked them quick enough.
To them, games were for kids and weird people, and that was what I was branded as.
I was picked on in Sports, excluded from out of school social events, (that continued on all the way to the end of six form actually, but I was wise enough to know no good would come out of their *cough* "parties"), and eventually, straight up avoided me in any particular thing whatsoever.
(And all this hell I went through, was so that those kids could feel more secure about themselves, by persecuting the ones that behaved in manner that their simple intelligence could not begin to understand, nor their ignorance allow them to)

That being said, this "outcast" made friends with some other "outcasts" (many of which were gamers), and we have friendships 100 times stronger than that gaggle will ever make.

Uni's much better though, gaming is just another activity that some do, but most generally don't care about, (they still wouldn't let me make my own gaming society though, >:/).

The only "gamers" I ever see, are shameless imitators that likely ownly own a PS3 or 360, and likely only play COD or Forza on their system, online, while slurring down their headsets.

I'm afraid that if I were to reccomend them Banjo Kazooie: Nuts and Bolts their heads might asplode! XD
 
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No

It's a case of causation versus correlation (again)

Gaming does not cause social rejects, but people who game have a tendency to be social rejects (this is a general statement, not supported by any facts I can be bothered to find)

If you mistake the high levels of people who are social rejects and also game, it is easy to believe that gaming causes them to become the social rejects (causation), where instead the opposite is true, and social rejects just gravitate to gaming (correlation)
 

Xanadeas

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There's this whole idea being perpetuated that people that play video games have no social lives etc... Except I talk to about 20-50 people daily from all over the world... Where as members of my own family might only speak to two to six people a day save for my sister who might speak to 10-20 a day working on people's insurance.

Now it's true I may not like people but I get along quite well with the majority of the ones I talk to daily. I have a large gathering of friends. o_O
 

DustyDrB

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Correlation does not equal causation. I've known many avid gamers who are socially awkward. I took one to a party when he first came to town and we introduced him to people but ended up standing by a wall alone all night while people asked us "whats wrong with your friend?" That was embarrassing, but he was just that kind of person regardless of his being a gamer.
On the other hand, there are those like me and others I know who game but are still quite the social butterflies.
 

x0ny

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I rarely have anything good to say about/to people, without lying of course. "Oooh I love what you've done with your hair", "That shirt really suits you", "No, that dress totally does not make stomach stick out". I hate small talk, I hate how people patronise me, I prefer being alone so that my actions are not limited by anyone.
 

Nomanslander

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If anything my online gaming has thought me is if you are one, you were one from the start.

Online gaming at least tends to be a mecca of these type of people since being anonymous tends to bring out peoples true character.

And from that experience, I've been able to tell why some people are social rejects in the first place...lol
 
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eh depends...personally i have zero "free time" as fourth my time im gaming, fourth my time im with friends or at a party or at the gym, and the other half im in school or at work, so i really dont think it generates social problems, however people who "reject" society tend to be more attracted to games, i have met some in my day, especially at the mass effect 2 line the other day at midnight..dear god, 3/4 of those people havent shaved in months and haven't seen sunlight in freakin forever, i know we aren't all perfect but takin care of yourself doesn't require that much effort