WARNING: LOTS OF TEXT AND BIG WORDS INCOMING!Gorfias said:I think this suggests something about female (and possibly male homosexual?) sexualtiy. I get the impression they (females and gay men) don't have the same reaction to male nudity that straight men (and lesbians?) have to female nudity. Maybe we're just more stimulated by it and the powers that be want us to chill the heck out? If that is a big part of it, does male nudity not count as something to be kept under wraps in the way female nudity is?
Or is there another explanation? Your thoughts?
I'm a bisexual male, but I have a strong male slant, and while I can't speak for all of us I can confirm that my attraction to members of the same sex is considerably different than that of the opposite sex. (note, I'm assuming we're strictly talking about physical attraction, not emotional, keep that in mind as you read this)
When I'm attracted to a male, it usually has something to do with facial features, body figure, or hair (I'm a reeeeal sucker for longish (but not too long) black hair on a dude) things that are clearly viable of someone who's fully clothed. Male nudity doesn't really attract me all that much.
Now my attraction to females is just the opposite, things like facial features and hair are still factors, but they're nowhere near as strong in my attraction to women as they are with my attraction to men. And female nudity is defiantly attractive to me.
Now as for why I still consider myself to have a male preference is more due to something much deeper in how my brain is wired, due in no small part to the way male and female identities are interpreted socially. Simply put, I feel more protected and nurtured by being in a relationship with a man, whereas when I'm in a relationship with a woman I feel an obligation to do so myself, which I've never fully seen myself as capable of. You could interpret that as the roots of an inferiority complex, and/or a perfect example of how society impacts one's perception of gender identity to the point it being an unconscious reaction.
Also, I've always perceived my attraction to males as more "pure" so to speak, that is more complementary to my personality. I've never really seen my own gender identity as being strictly male, nor necessarily female, I guess I'm a little bit androgynous when you get right down to it.
Hmmm.... that just got waaaaaaaaaaay off topic, sorry for clogging this thread with my incessant talking about myself.