Gorfias said:
3) Straight men disproportionately govern what we see in the main stream. These men think that women, gay/bi men do not have a strong response to male nudity and likely themselves find it pretty damn funny and think everyone else does as well, so they don't think twice about including it where female nudity would not be allowed.
I don't know if they think that, it seems more that they don't care.
Why worry what minority care about, if they will pay for the same stuff the majority does?
People are going to watch movies about heterosexual white males, even if they don't fit that demographic themselves. The reverse doesn't seem to be as true. That's why you have bookstores with a "black fiction" section in the US.
Hell, look at Watchmen, That movie was about a big blue penis. Sure, there was a little bit about an alternative Cold War and retired superheroes and a mid-life crisis and a love scene or two, but those are utterly forgettable, it seems, because they are standard and to be expected. But a big blue penis...WTF?