Doing things her way...

[Trivun]

Hey, that's right between me and home . I have no idea where Codsall is, never having heard of the place before, but I'm living in Leeds while at university (and afterwards, hopefully), and my shitty hometown is near Birmingham. So Staffordshire's right between them. Next time I visit home I'll get off the train from Manchester in Stafford instead of Wolverhampton, and visit Codsall and have a look there .

[small]DISCLAIMER: Yes, I did just try and fit as many UK place names in as possible then. Hopefully this has confused a lot of people who aren't from the UK and thus have no idea where these places are, because I'm a crafty bugger who likes to confuse and wind people up ;D[/small]

 

[Scarecrow]

I like assertively sexual women. The kind who aren't afraid to take the lead or be on top, but are not overly aggressive about it. Nothing unusual or excessive, just a woman being in control in the same way guys stereotypically are or are excepted to be.

Basicly this....but your avatar makes your choise seem strange....

 

[Cypher10110]

I like independence, to the point where they can stand on their own two feet (and you yours), but you're able to help each other out. I want to be there if they need but I don't want to be there every second.
I enjoy meaningful conversations, about books, films, games, life. I like to be asked questions, and I enjoy asking, but I dislike dependence. I don't want to feel burdened and I do not wish to be a burden.

I want to contribute without controlling, and I'd expect them to feel the same.

Assertive women are a turn on in bed but I don't enjoy feeling like a pet being dragged along on an adventure the rest of the time. I'm an ally, a sidekick maybe, but never a pet. I like to be heard and to listen.

A dynamic equilibrium, it's got the alot of potential for growth while also being very stable. It's the sort of relationship that could break apart, but it would not be a tragedy, more of a change of circumstances. Like two friends moving to different countries; it wouldn't stop the friendship but it would stop the contact.

That said I enjoy learning, if I'm out of my element I expect to feel a bit more like a pet. I just like getting my feet back on the ground between adventures. Building from what I know.

 

[Vlassic]

I'm attracted to guys who are confident to the point of being cocky. I don't like guys that are too nice about everything and everyone, so a touch of cynicism is a plus. I like a guy who can carry a conversation and has opinions of his own, who doesn't just agree with everything I say.

Physically, I'm attracted to different hair and eye colors, but I don't like stupid scene hairstyles on guys. I do like guys who are fit, but don't spend all their time at a gym, skinny guys with some muscles are great. I have never been attracted to a guy who doesn't have nice teeth. And I don't really like piercings or tattoos.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

I want a girl i that needs my protection. Sex doesn't factor into it. ALSO!

Caska. She needs to be protected.

Would that be Caska from Berserk? Or someone else? Just wondering, because I like Caska from Berserk as a character, she's cool.

 

[Motiv_]

I like women with a lot in common with myself, I also like 'em intelligent, being able to hold a conversation for hours without having to ask me what I meant. My current wife fits both of these qualities like a glove, whilst being quite the knockout if I do say so myself.

Really I think most of it just depends on compatibility.

Totally not writing this because she's standing behind me with a whip

 

[gallaetha_matt]

Somebody smart, dark and with absolutely zero maternal instinct. I want the sort of girl that will enjoy my dark sense of humour and won't try to foist any kids out of me at any point.

Like for serious.

I'm pretty certain that such a girl doesn't exist though. All the girls I seem to meet at my age are either married, already saddled with a brat or gay.

I'm not all that arsed about finding her though. I don't have time to go trudging round the world in pursuit of a woman that might not exist. To paraphrase Tom Waits 'I'm busy, I've got things to do! I'll get to it when I can!'

 

[SadakoMoose]

Hey, that's right between me and home . I have no idea where Codsall is, never having heard of the place before, but I'm living in Leeds while at university (and afterwards, hopefully), and my shitty hometown is near Birmingham. So Staffordshire's right between them. Next time I visit home I'll get off the train from Manchester in Stafford instead of Wolverhampton, and visit Codsall and have a look there .

[small]DISCLAIMER: Yes, I did just try and fit as many UK place names in as possible then. Hopefully this has confused a lot of people who aren't from the UK and thus have no idea where these places are, because I'm a crafty bugger who likes to confuse and wind people up ;D[/small]

Yeah, it's an ok town...
It's like a smaller, much nicer, version of Stoke...

 

[Ham_authority95]

with absolutely zero maternal instinct.

This is also a plus. Child-phobes are more likely to take birth control....

 

[astrav1]

I like the delicate type. Or someone in the area of a Tifa, Rinoa, or Sakaki. Sexually I have no idea.

 

[SimuLord]

I've had few successes and a whole lot of failures, but certain common themes emerge in the women I've loved and who have loved me over the years. Most of these points are, of course, negotiable, because what is life but an endless stream of trying something new?

- Domesticated to the point of 50's housewife status. My apartment has been unfavorably compared to a Spartan army barracks because as an autistic I don't have the aesthetic sense required to understand the point of decoration. My friend says "you don't have a home. You have a box you sleep in that holds your stuff. It just happens to have a roof and walls."

- Affectionate to the point of being clingy. I don't get subtle hints, so please, hit me over the head with the fact that you love me. I won't think you're trying too hard---I'll think you're paying attention.

- Submissive sexually. You don't have to be into hardcore BDSM. You just have to be willing to let me take the lead and feel like I'm in control of the situation. I'm the world's chew toy outside of the bedroom, so in it I like to feel like a strong man.

- Intelligent, in a way that engages me in ways I don't get outside of the relationship. History buffs, amateur anthropologists, creative writers, linguists, bookworms. I want to teach...and learn...from the girl I'm with.

- I honestly don't care what you look like, as long as you have no disfiguring scars, truly out-there tattoos (none is ideal, small and tasteful is one thing, sleeves on both arms and your ex's name tattooed on your tits is another), or other major and obvious departures from "normal".

- And please, for the love of the gods, I'm done with "the broken ones". I'm taking the advice of a wise old man who said "never date any girl crazier than you." (admittedly with me this does not narrow the pool very far.)

 

[SadakoMoose]

Next up Riza:
Everybody wants the "strict mommy" (points if you get that reference)
She looks like she would be the kind to dictate to you what to do next and where and how.
In bed, she'd be strong and uncompromising...
In an out of character BDSM setting, she'd be the strait laced, no nonsense domme. She wouldn't talk "dirty" or tease very much, but she'd be big on discipline...
Like Izumi Curtis...

 

[Mcupobob]

I want a girl who is my equal, someone who is my partner and we just get eachother.

 

[vento 231]

Lady on the streets, freak in the sheets.

 

[Death God]

One that shares the same interest, is intelligent, and doesn't dress like she is ready for playboy. Sadly, those kind of girls are hard to come by.

 

[Altorin]

I like them spicier then sugary.
I like it when they don't talk too much, but when they talk have a lot to say. (the "strong silent type" lol)
I like a dirty mind.

Apart from that, the only real requirement is that they like me, which is pretty rare

Everything else is just details.

 

[fgdfgdgd]

Lady on the streets, freak in the sheets.

Well, if this came with a loveable personality and some kinks, shorter than i (which isn't hard) and maybe a tad of a gamer, sure, sounds great to me.

 

[DJDarque]

Someone who shares or understands and appreciates me quirks. That's all I really ask for. Oh, and intelligence.