Does no one else actually play 'characters' when they play games, or do they just play 'themselves' in the story? When I go into a game, I play a character, separate from myself, with flaws and traits and personality different from my own. Sometimes that means I'll play a female, sometimes a male, sometimes one who bats for the other side, sometimes white hats or evil overlords or the comedic relief or the player. I will challenge myself to think how that character would, react as they would, find motivations and goals for them within the game world and then live it out within the story.
And yeah, sometimes that means I'll come across an issue that I as a person am uncomfortable with, ethically, morally, whatever! Dragon Age: Origins had the Morrigan child thing that if you were in a relationship, you had to choose to cheat or not to save a life, or sacrifice one. Mass Effect, you had to choose one teammate over another. I know there are countless other games that have the same issues within them. You wonder, 'What would I do? What would the character do? Does this feel right or wrong?' (Not "IS this right or wrong?" because that is subjective.)
You encounter them. You deal with them, and then continue to play the game. Some people might wonder at them later, some might spend hours thinking about the decision before they eventually choose. Others might choose the path that nets them the best swag. There are more motivations than can be listed. But then you move on and keep playing the game. That's it. You continue.
Because it is a character, you can make decisions that you're perhaps uncomfortable with. You can see how it plays out, you can learn from it, you can take that knowledge into every day life. I know there are tons of other gamers who think that way. I think it's why Bioware games are so popular; they create immersive worlds that make us think about what is presented to us and get us involved and engaged with the stories being told. But they do so by involving everyone, whether female or male, straight or gay, whatever-have-you.
If you don't like issue X that is brought out in a game, then you have the right to not play it. Distance yourself from it, if that's what you think is the right thing for YOU. But it should not be excluded: it is also another player's right to have that same issue X INCLUDED in the game.