Ever been in love?

[Hexadecimal]

No. I plan on falling in love after I get my graduate degree.

 

[Dapsen]

I, for one, see that many people here are very pessimistic on the subject of love, and I would like to express my sadness on this, for I think everyone has a chance to find love.

I, for one have found my love, and have been engaged for many months.

Good luck to everyone else.

now this! this is B-E-A-UTIFULLLL. *pointing upwards to the qoute*
when i entered this topic / question /discussion i also saw that alot of people are just walking cynicism bombs when it comes to love, i was like that myself no more than 18 months ago, i was fat, pale, and like most people with brains and no luck in love i was a cynnic (or however thats spelled, im not english/or american) but i went camping with my family in the summer holidays, a year ago for the reason of nothing else to do.
and i met a girl there that i thought and still think, was such an incredible person that i almost instantly fell in love with her, after getting to know her better.
it wasnt fleshly urges that drove me to love her, it was that she was such an open person, filled with life that looked away from my seriously messed up appearance with chin long hair all around my head, and a gamers cheeto gut and just befriended me.
no this sounds wrong it wasnt because finally some was my friend, i had friends, but just no girl (female) friends with such an awesome personality and thats what i really liked about her, she had like a life loving personality that just made her click with everyone.

but i had way too low selfesteam to ask her to get together, and even if i had i wouldnt.
i loved her and still do to much to let her be seen dating such a geek like me.
but after i went home it just pained me so much that i had spent so far the best week of my life, only friends with a girl like that.
but that experience really changed my view on life, and taught me that cynicism is just a sorry exscuse for being to scared to interact socially, with anyone, and i still think of her evrytime i hear something about couples or love, just out of that hope of meeting her again sometime.

 

[FightThePower]

I'm not sure I loved her but I definitely really liked her. Even now when I've got over it and it's been years since my obsession I still look at her and think "yeah, she is really something special".

 

[SmartIdiot]

I thought I was. Then it all went to shit.

 

[Drazier]

Now listen, I wouldn't do either of those because I don't want to hurt her in anyway. I've considred offing myself, but the last thing I want is for her to think it was her fault. And contrary to popular belief I have not ever, nor am I currently, nor will I ever stalk someone.

 

[Shadowfaze]

i have been and currently am. its a great feeling, when you find the right person.

 

[Bulletinmybrain]

I have a personality that seems to draw people, I don't have trouble in finding it..

 

[The_Chief]

yes...for the past 5 years...but she lives so far away now...and i miss her so much. but one day im going to see her again and be with her.

 

[Guitar Gamer]

besides a petty structureless crush no.......................have no idea what it's like and it doesn't seem like I will in the future...............I would say it's lonely but I have no idea what the alternative is like

 

[Kriptonite]

I think so. Maybe not, I still think about her a lot even though I don't see her much anymore.

 

[VanityGirl]

I'm in love now. My love is laying directly to my left reading the Marvel Registration act comics. =P

 

[Kron_the_mad wants to be deleted]

yes, two of the happiest and most fulfilling years of my life. then she left me for the guy that got drunk, forced himself on her and left her an emotional wreck.
It's been over a year and I still love her, still trying to watch out for her and still driving myself insane.

 

[Phoenix Arrow]

Yes. It was awesome. I still believe we're soulmates and I didn't used to believe in that.
We did break up but we're still as close as ever and I'm sure neither of us can imagine actually settling down with anyone else.

Oh and ITT: some people who don't know the meaning of the word. Not talking everyone, obviously not. But some people mistaking a fleeting crush for true love? Once you've found someone you truely love, you'll laugh at ever mistaking love for what you used to feel. It's worth every second of relationship related pain.

 

[PyroZombie]

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That story made me feel anxious out of suspense, made my jaw drop at one point and made me feel truly shitty after I put myself in your shoes. I couldn't imagine your pain.

Nothing I say will change how you feel, but it's still important to not give up hope yet. Saying that may be a cliche, but it is true. Don't hate things in life just from this one experience. Happiness is right in front of you, you just need to view it with the right mindset.

While I have hope, I don't hate things in life for this. I hate a lot of things, bigots, hypocrites, and various other garbage human beings, but this I do not hate. It's been somewhat of a learning experience. And it's funny you should say that "happiness is right in front of you" because recently one of my friends just got broken up with feircely, his girl was a fucking harpy, the Eva Brawn of cheating, lying, accusatory psuedo-bitches. I said that to him and he responded in a way i still can't think of a reply to;

"I know but, Pyro, man, brother, I've been chasing it a long time, but when do i find out that the rabbit that we greyhounds chase isn't actually a rabbit? and is there actually ever a rabbit or are we doomed to run around the track till we go to greyhound heaven or greyhound hell?"

And as a person who knows how beautifully and stupidly random the world is, I could not answer him. Could you give me a answer so i can give this greyhound a bone?

 

[Aqualung]

Nope. And as much as I'd like to be, evidence of past relationships seem to prove that I could care less about mushy-gushyness.

 

[Duck Sandwich]

I'm a fighter, not a lover.

Same here. I've had my fair share of infatuations - all of which have gone unfulfilled. It's been a good year or so since I've had that feeling, and strangely enough, it feels good to no longer be bound by it.

 

[Clashero]

If you mean have I experianced Chemical reactions in my brain to trick myself into a feeling of Compatablitiy with someone only because of the strong need to Reproduce then Yes, I have.

You can't rationalize love. Love is something other than lust or longing.

I pity you, very much.

 

[Supreme Unleaded]

I only wish.

 

[Aedes]

After reading about 4 pages of this thread, I see a fairly good number of unbelievers. That is kinda sad. I hope your opinions change once you have experienced what love is.

Now, back on topic...

Well, have you ever been in Love? Yes? No?

Yes, once.
One of the best moments of my life. It was great... until she said the magic was over. That came totally by surprise for me. And it got worse when I found out 1 month later she was with another one. Now there's only ashes of what once was my heart.

But what doesn't kill us, make us stronger, right? I have faith that I will find someone just for me. It's just not the time yet.
Before love and lost than never to have loved.

 

[Supreme Unleaded]

yes...for the past 5 years...but she lives so far away now...and i miss her so much. but one day im going to see her again and be with her.

And then you will find out she's with another man whos just better in the dark then you and you'll call her a slut and she'll say no and you'll say yes and then you'll try to make up but you'll always have this nagging feeling that everything didnt turn out as planed and theres always that feeling of does she realy love me and you'll always feel a bit akward around her now and eventually you'll break up again and then move as far away as physicaly possible from eachother and never see eachother again except when the stepmother tryes to have a family reunion and you feel akward again, then you die.

And that was all in one breath, wow i guess i could compete with Yahtzee.

But yeah, all jokes aside long distance relationships never work out as planned and usually dont end well.