Ever been in love?

[fudgebo]

I have been and am.

Diddo, and i feel quite good about it too.

 

[RanD00M]

No.Seem to be such a bother.

 

[Nicolefranklin]

I save the term "love" for the real big thing, but I've had deep feelings for another person before. I'm in love now. Was love at first sight, with a light from above, a choir of angels and all that. Or almost, anyway haha. My life has turned into a bloody sitcom because of it though, despite the feelings being mutual. So I'm not that happy about it. Damned long distance. *sigh*

 

[SultanP]

I don't know. But people say that if you have, you know it. So I guess that means I haven't.

 

[Evil the White]

Depends what you mean be love, I've been 'obsessed' over many things. But since I've never had a girlfriend (and I don't count attraction as love) I wouldn't really know.

So right now my perception of love is that it's an obsession of another person.

Generally. If I'm going to go into the scientific details then love (outside of family etc) is the biochemical reaction formed by the brain when it senses certain types of hormones secreted from the other person that indicate traits that blend well with your own, or if they have been involved in a traumatizing situation with the other person and the other person is in a positive perspective, that seems to set it off as well.

Am I in love? I suppose I am. Got set up with a girl, started talking to her, we arranged to meet up and she keeps just popping back into my mind whenever something reminds me of her. Whether she feels the same way about me, I don't know, but I hope so. Either way, she's a nice girl, even if she is a year younger than she said she was (13 to my 15), which is of course a huge thing in secondary school, despite someone else in my year being in the exact same situation. Hypocrites.

 

[Xero Scythe]

this would have worked out so well as a poll.

 

[headshotcatcher]

Yeah, but love is a joke anyways, in my opinion it is just an evolutionary tool to get males to breed and be very protective of their mating-partner, so as to ensure survival of the child.

Wow you must have a very exciting life

Taste (as in food) is just an evolutionary tool for you to know whether or not you should eat something

Happiness is just an evolutionary tool for you to know that your body is doing fine (or so you think)

Need I go on?


Anyway, OT: No, at least, not in a rational way (as far as love and rationality go together that is)

 

[Andalusa]

Quite possibly. Although I may not have understood what it was at the time, or maybe I did and I got scared.

 

[similar.squirrel]

Yep. Not nice to have the bubble burst.

 

[Ben7]

I have, but the friend zone strangled those ambitions.

 

[Berethond]

No, just primal fascinations with certain girls. I'm 15, though, so I've still got 5-10 years before I should.

Really?
I guess I was just 6-11 years early then...

 

[The King of Rock and Roll]

No, my longest relationship was five days. And besides, I'm ugly and unpopular, and girls prefer douche bags anyways. So I'll just be content with being the nice guy around that all my chick friends call crying when their asshole boyfriends cheat on them, or dump them, or ignore them, or hurt them in some other way that makes me feel ahamed to be male.

I mean, it totally doesn't make me feel even worse that they think I'm so pathetic that I'm the one they confide in because none of the chicks I hang out with could ever see me as a guy they'd date. Okay, rant over, depression begun. -sigh-

 

[Drazier]

I have been in love. It's not something can easily describe, and I'm telling myself I'm over her...But, I think I'm only trying to distract myself. I've asked out 5 girls in my life, all of them being in this year. I have been rejected, 5 times. She was number 3. Numbers 2 3 5 I still have feelings for. Comparing each of their peaks, 3 blows 2 and 5 out of the water. But I still just don't know. Yesterday at marching band I screwed up the show so bad at our 2nd football game. I couldn't stop thinking about 5. And right now I'm thinking that reffering to them as numbers is demeaning, but I can't call them by first initials because it goes A S A M A. 3/5 being As would get rather confusing. But once you really fall in love with someone... Damn. thats all I have to say, it's amazing. 3 doesn't talk to me anymore, and if I try to talk to her I get ignored. And I hate it. I'd so much rather be treated like shit then ignored. And I know this, because the first words she'd said to me in 41 days where: "Clark why don't you just leave me alone?" Except they were tinted with anger. Damn again. But her voice was just so amazing to hear.

 

[katsa5]

Once and twice, but both were exercises in futility. Until College and I met the man who became my husband three years later. And he's still the man of my dreams, and he 'found the tower and his princess'.
Still have many years ahead, bring it on. (includes youtube clip) ^_^ That's what I mean.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JoJxmt5Euuo