Extremley Bad Self Image

[Fred233]

My Girlfriend has an extremely bad image of herself and no matter what i say she wont believe me that she is beautiful, she always calls me blind in what i see in her. i just wanted to know if i was really blind and check if others see the same thing that i do. shes 17 and i live in Australia so don't feel like a pedophile if your older . I am also not new to the forums, iv been lurking for over a year. I also don't know if this is allowed in the forums as i couldn't find any rules

 

[Fred233]

aww the poll didnt come up

 

[__Anarchy__]

Yea man she's pretty, shame u couldnt have got a less toung pokey outy photo haha

Ps: go being Australian

 

[JacobyPAX]

She seems okay to me. On a side note, I'm assuming that you are the guy in the photo, you and I have very similar noses.

 

[jamesworkshop]

aww the poll didnt come up

Your picture also came up the wrong way round, bad self esteem is a good way of getting compliments out of people, just sayin

 

[TheComedown]

Nice hickey.

Yeah she has nothing to worry about... cept maybe the wind changing direction.

 

[Arkzism]

yeah shes adorable, but again she wont believe us.. have you tried shaking her and going your beautiful what part dont you get!!!

 

[Fred233]

She's fine but you look like a bloomin' idiot.

Thats Because i am a bloomin' idiot haha

 

[thenumberthirteen]

I thought everything was upside-down in Australia not on it's side. Was the photo taken at the equator?

Any yes she is very nice (as long as she isn't pulling that face all the time). I've known a lot of girls who won't believe they're not ugly it must be a phase or something. I could suggest taking her to one of those beauty salons where you get those weird treatments involving seaweed and ear candles, but if handled wrongly it may be misconstrued as confirmation that you think she's ugly.

At least she's not one of those girls who think they're way hotter then they actually are and act like total bitches.

For what it's worth she has my seal of approval

<img height=250>http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/22/seal-of-approval.jpg

 

[WorkerMurphey]

Teenage girls, or women of any age for that matter, often have self esteem problems even without severe physical deformity. Get used to her attitude, ask her to not degrade herself around you or move onto someone a little more mature. It couldn't hurt to smile in photos and maybe cover up that hickey.

 

[Fred233]

I thought everything was upside-down in Australia not on it's side. Was the photo taken at the equator?

Any yes she is very nice (as long as she isn't pulling that face all the time). I've known a lot of girls who won't believe they're not ugly it must be a phase or something. I could suggest taking her to one of those beauty salons where you get those weird treatments involving seaweed and ear candles, but if handled wrongly it may be misconstrued as confirmation that you think she's ugly.

At least she's not one of those girls who think they're way hotter then they actually are and act like total bitches.

For what it's worth she has my seal of approval

<img height=250>http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/22/seal-of-approval.jpg

Thank you that was actually very helpful

 

[Fred233]

Teenage girls, or women of any age for that matter, often have self esteem problems even without severe physical deformity. Get used to her attitude, ask her to not degrade herself around you or move onto someone a little more mature. It couldn't hurt to smile in photos and maybe cover up that hickey.

Yea sorry about the hikey and the weird face, it was the only pic i could find of her online and i didn't know how to upload one from my computer

 

[dmase]

Welcome to women. If they don't have a bad personal image physically then they do emotionally.

gf 1: Cute blond little bit of prep, but had nerdy glasses skinny as a rail all around hot. She wouldn't believe me when i said she was beautiful

gf 2: Still insults herself with i'm fat, i have a big nose, i'm not pretty. Yet i literally have to beat guys away from her.

friend: A little bit looser girl then i became friends with through her boyfriend, my friend. I don't wanna have a threesome with him because i don't want him picking the other girl.... what?

gf 2: I'll never get any friends when I go to college. bla bla bla

Somehow men got roped into making women feel better about themselves. I think its not that we aren't self conscious we just judge other people more often then ourselves... or just don't verbalize i personal disdain, because we're men and real men don't talk about their feelings.

oh and go you, I approve of your gf.... now remember to invite me to the just broken up with her thread.;p

Edit: looser not loser

 

[Ironic Pirate]

She is pretty good looking, I have to say.

 

[Fred233]

Welcome to women. If they don't have a bad personal image physically then they do emotionally.

gf 1: Cute blond little bit of prep, but had nerdy glasses skinny as a rail all around hot. She wouldn't believe me when i said she was beautiful

gf 2: Still insults herself with i'm fat, i have a big nose, i'm not pretty. Yet i literally have to beat guys away from her.

friend: A little bit loser girl then i became friends with through her boyfriend, my friend. I don't wanna have a threesome with him because i don't want him picking the other girl.... what?

gf 2: I'll never get any friends when I go to college. bla bla bla

Somehow men got roped into making women feel better about themselves. I think its not that we aren't self conscious we just judge other people more often then ourselves... or just don't verbalize i personal disdain, because we're men and real men don't talk about their feelings.

oh and go you, I approve of your gf.... now remember to invite me to the just broken up with her thread.;p

haha, yes i know. I had a feeling i wasnt alone in my problem . And thanks mate, as long as your tall white and geeky she will probably go for you :-D

 

[Rarhnor]

I say get a new girlfriend. Seems to me you can do better than...that...thing.

 

[Megacherv]

Welcome to women. If they don't have a bad personal image physically then they do emotionally.

gf 1: Cute blond little bit of prep, but had nerdy glasses skinny as a rail all around hot. She wouldn't believe me when i said she was beautiful

gf 2: Still insults herself with i'm fat, i have a big nose, i'm not pretty. Yet i literally have to beat guys away from her.

friend: A little bit loser girl then i became friends with through her boyfriend, my friend. I don't wanna have a threesome with him because i don't want him picking the other girl.... what?

gf 2: I'll never get any friends when I go to college. bla bla bla

Somehow men got roped into making women feel better about themselves. I think its not that we aren't self conscious we just judge other people more often then ourselves... or just don't verbalize i personal disdain, because we're men and real men don't talk about their feelings.

oh and go you, I approve of your gf.... now remember to invite me to the just broken up with her thread.;p

haha, yes i know. I had a feeling i wasnt alone in my problem . And thanks mate, as long as your tall white and geeky she will probably go for you :-D

Dammit, why do you have to be all the way in Aus- I mean...urm...yeah...good going on you...*whistles and walks away*

 

[Kif]

Here's the deal... in my years I've gleaned that most women have a bad self image and as a general rule of thumb the ones who don't have an attitude which is usually worth avoiding.

So, the fact that your girlfriend has a bad self image is actually not a bad thing and it also leaves you a lot of room to make her feel good about herself.

As far as commenting on your girlfriend goes... I'm not going to bother, you know how you think she looks and you've seen plenty of other humans on the planet to make a judgement call for your own personal taste there are plenty of people who will agree and plenty who will not find her attractive. What and to whome exactly are you trying to justify?

 

[Lucifron]

Very few women are as ugly as they think, your girlfriend included. I think she's very good looking.

As someone above me said, all/most young women have some form of imaginary self-esteem issue.