AndyFromMonday said:
Because with time people will come to associate pedophilia with being a mental illness and fucking a child with rape and child abuse. Because at the very least those pedophiles would learn how to control their urges and manage to live a relatively decent life. Because at the very least we wouldn't be condemning people who suffer from a mental illness to jail.
Granted, maybe not all pedophiles are in need of therapy as long as they do not abuse children. Still...
And there's no stigma against mental illnesses? >.>
I said I agreed with not jailing people based on thought crime. No argument there.
AndyFromMonday said:
I never said homosexuality was not normal human sexual behaviour. During our entire discussion I proclaimed pedophilia to be a deviation of normal human sexual behaviour and that through the use of therapy and certain drugs those urges could be controlled if not downright removed.
Homosexuality is normal and has always been normal.
I think you missed the point of that bit entirely.
I wasn't calling you homophobic. It was more about how, in the past, people have tried to "cure" a person of their unusual sexual attractions against the person's will, almost invariably with disgusting consequences as well as clear breaches of basic human rights.
And you're not doing a great job of convincing me that you're much different.
AndyFromMonday said:
But it IS a mental illness. I've already explained countless times why and I don't feel the need to do so again. I understand why you might be reluctant to say it is, since you supposedly have a friend who is a pedophile. Still, it is an abnormal deviation of human sexual tendencies and is classified as a mental illness
By that definition nearly every unusual fetish is an illness that needs treatment (which, again, is what brought up homosexuality in my last post).
The clinical definition of most mental illnesses includes a clause about how it's only an illness if it either significantly impedes the person's ability to function in some way, or causes them to be a danger to themselves or others. Sexual attraction does not present any danger. If attraction were as irresistible as you seem to believe, then rape would be much more commonplace than it is.
Here's the clinically classified definition that I could find (off Wikipedia >.> but it cited a real manual):
"Pedophilia is a paraphilia in which a person has intense and recurrent sexual urges towards and fantasies about prepubescent children and on which feelings they have either acted or which cause distress or interpersonal difficulty.""
Notice how it's not an illness until it's so extreme that they act on it or get distressed over it?
The fact is that most people have self-control. "My right to swing my fist ends where the other man's nose begins," obviously still holds true, but my right shouldn't end any sooner than that and neither should anyone else's.
AndyFromMonday said:
That is true, however all mental illnesses have the potential to degenerate into something much worse.
We all have the potential to do horrible things, and with a definition of illness so broad that the only criterion is abnormality we may all be ill in some way.
AndyFromMonday said:
I'm not saying we should. However, this is a slippery slope. Would a pedophile willingly go to therapy once their illness becomes to hard to manage by themselves? There's already a huge stigma associated with mental illnesses but the stigma associated with pedophilia is much higher.
I suffer from Generalized Anxiety Disorder. I refused to receive help and there was a time when I had panic attacks almost every few hours. I'm not saying eventually a pedophile will rape a child but it is not entirely unfeasable and I believe removing the stigma associated with pedophilia is the first step in giving the pedophiles a reason to treat seek help for their disorder.
It depends on the person. Many people seek help when they can't manage themselves, yes. The ones who don't, and who harm others as a result, should have measures taken upon them to prevent further harm coming to others.