Fetishes and why you think you have them.
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I would have to say big boobs are must for me. I don't know why, it's just how I've always been.
I mean, I like many types of girls. I enjoy a big ass, a set of nice thick thighs, dark hair of any length(especially red), and I enjoy them with a little weight on them. I don't like the really skinny girls, or the especially sculpted ones. I like em with a little heft. But if all they got is a nice rack, that's enough for me.
I find the most unattractive thing is a bitchy personality, regardless of how she looks. Bad personalities are a real turn-off.
I mean, I like many types of girls. I enjoy a big ass, a set of nice thick thighs, dark hair of any length(especially red), and I enjoy them with a little weight on them. I don't like the really skinny girls, or the especially sculpted ones. I like em with a little heft. But if all they got is a nice rack, that's enough for me.
I find the most unattractive thing is a bitchy personality, regardless of how she looks. Bad personalities are a real turn-off.
I have an interest in BDSM or at least the bondage/discipline aspect over sadism/masochism. There's something so alluring about the idea of owning a woman, like one does a pet. I also believe a collar is one of the sexiest accessories a woman can wear.
As for why, it's something I've always wondered. I can't recall the exact moment it all began. There are a few reasons for it that come to my mind, though.
The first is my desire for self control and control of the things around me. I enjoy being in control and I enjoy working for it more.
Second might be the way I viewed my parents and their relationships. They were never together, so I always saw my mother as a whore and my father as a coward. Possible Oedipal issues hidden in there someplace.
lastly, I'm a misanthropist. I'm unable, or unwilling to trust people, especially women. Because I feel I can't trust anyone, I have to own the one I love. In a master/slave relationship, the slave has to trust the master and earn their trust. I might even fetishize trust and possession. I'm also terrified of what I have being taken by someone else.
There are more issues that led to this fetish; these are big ones I want to keep private until I can articulate them to myself. I will say that some of them have made me incapable of viewing porn.
As for why, it's something I've always wondered. I can't recall the exact moment it all began. There are a few reasons for it that come to my mind, though.
The first is my desire for self control and control of the things around me. I enjoy being in control and I enjoy working for it more.
Second might be the way I viewed my parents and their relationships. They were never together, so I always saw my mother as a whore and my father as a coward. Possible Oedipal issues hidden in there someplace.
lastly, I'm a misanthropist. I'm unable, or unwilling to trust people, especially women. Because I feel I can't trust anyone, I have to own the one I love. In a master/slave relationship, the slave has to trust the master and earn their trust. I might even fetishize trust and possession. I'm also terrified of what I have being taken by someone else.
There are more issues that led to this fetish; these are big ones I want to keep private until I can articulate them to myself. I will say that some of them have made me incapable of viewing porn.
The only possible explanation I can come up with as to why I'm attracted to woman of orange hair (It's not red, or ginger. IT'S ORANGE DAMNIT!) is that orange is my favourite colour, although I can't really see how favourite colour = sexual fetish...
You know, I have no idea why I have some of my fetishes. I just do. I don't question it, that's for sure.
For me, this whole thread was won right there on page one.Programmed_For_Damage said:
On Topic: Fetishes are tied so innately to those parts of us that are difficult / impossible to shape or mould that they can be seen as a form of self-expression. We rarely work to actually develop a given fetish (unless you're trying to join in your partner's fun, which is more a desire to please), they just "are".
Personally I have a thing for girls that wear chokers, as well as a more general emo/goth fetish going on. I'm not sure how that would've come from my childhood, but I can see how that might have developed during my teenage years.
Well I cant really talk from experience...but If I had to say anything
I think I'd be into the Idea of being on the submissive side of things...
I think that probably comes from being a complete push over in real life, ive gotten better now but I used to be a complete doormat also shy and quiet/timid, perhaps with that "innocent" vibe I dont know
I think I'd be into the Idea of being on the submissive side of things...
I think that probably comes from being a complete push over in real life, ive gotten better now but I used to be a complete doormat also shy and quiet/timid, perhaps with that "innocent" vibe I dont know
I'm a 5'10 dominican american. "first generation" and I've been told very attractive.
I love 5'0-5'2 romanian bred females. so cute. so adorable. but any tiny girl will do. Probably because of . . . things involving height that make certain texts such as the Kama Sutra more viable... or maybe it's just that a short guy needs a shorter girl for a complex? dunno.
I love 5'0-5'2 romanian bred females. so cute. so adorable. but any tiny girl will do. Probably because of . . . things involving height that make certain texts such as the Kama Sutra more viable... or maybe it's just that a short guy needs a shorter girl for a complex? dunno.
*his head explodes as he grapples with the differences between "fetish," "kink/sexual variation," and "paraphilia."*
The question is not within my grasp to answer...regrettably.
The question is not within my grasp to answer...regrettably.
2 main ones for me, I guess.
Breasts at least a C-cup (I've dated girls with less, just for the record. It doesn't actually affect the quality of the relationship, just... Yea :S ), and I by far prefer to be the one giving the pleasure during our intimate moments (though I won't say no to the other way around
I just prefer it...).
No clue about why, I just go with it. Amature psychologists?
EDIT: Oh. And even though I'm fine with doing stuff once we get started, I'm much more comfortable when she starts it off.
Not necessarily aggressive-pushing-me-to-the-bed starting it off, just... Letting me know she's in the mood, at least. Anything from telling me, to her body language (which I'm a natural at reading, so I haven't made a mistake at reading body language yet. Yet. God I hope I never make that mistake in future ).
Double-EDIT: Also, wow. I kinda got off the topic of Fetishes and into other stuff with that first point. How embarrassment. My apologies.
Breasts at least a C-cup (I've dated girls with less, just for the record. It doesn't actually affect the quality of the relationship, just... Yea :S ), and I by far prefer to be the one giving the pleasure during our intimate moments (though I won't say no to the other way around
I just prefer it...).No clue about why, I just go with it. Amature psychologists?
EDIT: Oh. And even though I'm fine with doing stuff once we get started, I'm much more comfortable when she starts it off.
Not necessarily aggressive-pushing-me-to-the-bed starting it off, just... Letting me know she's in the mood, at least. Anything from telling me, to her body language (which I'm a natural at reading, so I haven't made a mistake at reading body language yet. Yet. God I hope I never make that mistake in future
).Double-EDIT: Also, wow. I kinda got off the topic of Fetishes and into other stuff with that first point. How embarrassment. My apologies.
Girls who are sexy but could beat the shit out of me in a straight up fight.
Actually getting beat up by them would be the worst.
But just knowing they could hmm.
Actually getting beat up by them would be the worst.
But just knowing they could hmm.
Yaaaaaaas da booty ftw.icame said:
Also there was this girl where I used to work. She had the most perfect orb ass of life I have ever seen. My boss used to talk about how he could munch on that shit all day, we all agreed of course. By all I mean every male species that worked there. It was incredible.
Although i haven't had sex yet the whole BDSM/Bondage/Femdom thing seems fun.
I think it's partly because of one episode of Hercules (the kevin sorbo one) I watched when i was 4/5/6 where he got tied up by a bunch of really hot chicks. If i remember correctly, this inspired me to tie myself to a post with a skipping rope which was sexy (the act of doing so, not the rope!)
I then had to get my mum to untie me, I felt no shame as a child.
EDIT: DAMMIT! 666th post! I was hoping to save this for something special!
I think it's partly because of one episode of Hercules (the kevin sorbo one) I watched when i was 4/5/6 where he got tied up by a bunch of really hot chicks. If i remember correctly, this inspired me to tie myself to a post with a skipping rope which was sexy (the act of doing so, not the rope!)
I then had to get my mum to untie me, I felt no shame as a child.
EDIT: DAMMIT! 666th post! I was hoping to save this for something special!
I've got a thing for hentai and various sub-genres therein. It probably stems from my over-exposure to anime and video games somehow...
Leather's my big kink, though I can remember how it came to be. It was at some barbeque and enter the most smokin' looking red-haired biker bird you'd ever seen. Black leather trousers and jacket really got my motor running that day. (Especially as most of the other guests were wearing quite boring summer clothes.)
Oh, how I do miss being 15 sometimes.
Oh, how I do miss being 15 sometimes.