I was mainly half-joking about how real life goth girls are rarely hot (but my fetish is real), but yeah I also dislike punk mash ups and prefer the more classical, closer to the renaissance style. Kinda like this [http://www.origenmagazine.com/imgs/Moda%20Urbana/My%20goth%20picture.%20gothic%20girl%20wallpaper.%20femme%20gothique.jpg].
I read a book called 'The Brain that Changes Itself' that deals with neuro-plasticity and
it says about sexual fetishes that they stem in some way back to your childhood.
Take for example my latex, pvc, leather fetish. To be brutally honest this most likely stems from my mother's knee length leather boots which used to sit in my closet when I was a very young kid. My mum wore them because they were the style in the 70's (not cos she was a hooker) and as a child I used to like them cos they felt nice to touch, looked interesting and were associated with my mother (which when you're child she is the mortal embodyment of God).
Now I'd need to re-read the chapter to get this right but somehow your adolescent brain wires in some of your sexual preferences with the first experiences (non-sexual mind you) you had with the opposite sex because they are identified as safe, nurturing, live givers. If you didn't have such a parent then you can see how your sexuality can get distorted and poisoned. It's all very Freudean. Anyway my affinity for my mum's leather boots as a three or four year old have "evolved" to my affinity for women in skin tight latex bodysuits. That and the neighbourhood girl used to play games where I'd be tied up as a child and it was somewhat frightening and a touch exhilarating. So I think that somewhat explains my predeliction for bondage.
If this is true, then I know EXACTLY where my fondness for guitarists come from. When I was little, my grandparents had an old Geisha guitar that I was allowed to play when I was very good. When I turned 21, they gave it to me as a present because I loved it so. That old Geisha still lives in my room and I still play it on the occasion (despite moving to drums and keyboards as a teenager). But I still have a weak spot for guitarists, or even just a guy holding a guitar. I suppose in my warped little mind, they are a treat?
(Totally explains my fascination with Santana, Slash and Richie Sambora...)
I was mainly half-joking about how real life goth girls are rarely hot (but my fetish is real), but yeah I also dislike punk mash ups and prefer the more classical, closer to the renaissance style. Kinda like this [http://www.origenmagazine.com/imgs/Moda%20Urbana/My%20goth%20picture.%20gothic%20girl%20wallpaper.%20femme%20gothique.jpg].
Lol, indeed. As far as my Hentai is concerned. I prefer it when members of each gender retain their respective genitalia. Tentacles are acceptable in my case, but I prefer Human on Human...err well, animated human on animated...you get the point
My fetish started when i was in my early teens. Why? Not entirely sure exactly. I think that was when I first started looking at dirty stuff and suddenly I found it really attractive when before I never cared at all. I wont say what because I have a friend or two that hang around here on occasion but yea.
I love pale skin, which is likely because I've always been sort of pale and as a child I liked to think of myself as a person of the shadows rather than the light. I was shy and socially inept, I'd always rather be alone than with people because I wasn't confident in myself. This lead to my liking of the "different" things. Dark rather than light, pale rather than tan, evil rather than good... you know, all that.
Which has translated into me liking:
(As previously mentioned) Pale Skin
Coloured hair, especially dark red
Tall women(I'm rather tall and thin)
Note: These things often make up Gothic type women, which I love for those reasons
Large Breasts(not unusual at all... just a normal kinda thing)
And on the weirder side, and mostly from watching porn:
Girls covered in oil, girls covered in cum
And on a side note, I do like Hentai/Ecchi, which is because I watch anime and read manga... and 4chan probably helped that one out.
I, for one, don't think you're fucked up at all. Just into things far less widely socially accepted. You're obviously not alone, there are sites out there chalk full of that sort of thing.
I grew up watching Nickelodeon during the Slime era. As well, I dislike my fiancées' 'perfect cleanliness'. Not the same @Sightless Wisdom's spoiler above. Except for the oil. Not a big mud person, but food is always fun. Especially banana or butterscotch pudding...yum
Boob fetish may have a very deeply rooted Freudian origin (god I hate Freud, I swear one day I'll go piss in his tomb) because I was never breastfed as a child. And Boot fetish came from watching The Incredibles when I was hitting puberty. That I know very well. Drooling over readheads may have come from my natural affinity to the colour red.
I read a book called 'The Brain that Changes Itself' that deals with neuro-plasticity and
it says about sexual fetishes that they stem in some way back to your childhood.
Take for example my latex, pvc, leather fetish. To be brutally honest this most likely stems from my mother's knee length leather boots which used to sit in my closet when I was a very young kid. My mum wore them because they were the style in the 70's (not cos she was a hooker) and as a child I used to like them cos they felt nice to touch, looked interesting and were associated with my mother (which when you're child she is the mortal embodyment of God).
Now I'd need to re-read the chapter to get this right but somehow your adolescent brain wires in some of your sexual preferences with the first experiences (non-sexual mind you) you had with the opposite sex because they are identified as safe, nurturing, live givers. If you didn't have such a parent then you can see how your sexuality can get distorted and poisoned. It's all very Freudean. Anyway my affinity for my mum's leather boots as a three or four year old have "evolved" to my affinity for women in skin tight latex bodysuits. That and the neighbourhood girl used to play games where I'd be tied up as a child and it was somewhat frightening and a touch exhilarating. So I think that somewhat explains my predeliction for bondage.
If this is true, then I know EXACTLY where my fondness for guitarists come from. When I was little, my grandparents had an old Geisha guitar that I was allowed to play when I was very good. When I turned 21, they gave it to me as a present because I loved it so. That old Geisha still lives in my room and I still play it on the occasion (despite moving to drums and keyboards as a teenager). But I still have a weak spot for guitarists, or even just a guy holding a guitar. I suppose in my warped little mind, they are a treat?
(Totally explains my fascination with Santana, Slash and Richie Sambora...)
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