Fetishes you just don't understand
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You understand some fetishes? This is news to me. Usually the only fetishes you understand are ones you have.
OT: Rape.
OT: Rape.
Someone already explained it, but incase you missed it. Most American women find a circumsized penis(technically an amputated penis) more sexually attractive. Now, most people would say those are completely different, but thechnically those women are being sexually aroused by an amputee.Rosetta said:
That's why I said "it's funny", because most people would not see those as related but, by the definition of acrotomophilia, they are.
In the somatosensory cortex, the part that receives input from the feet is right next to the part that receives input from the genitals. There might be some neurotransmission "spillage" between the two regions which might explain foot fetishism.
As for sadism or masochism, that can be explained rather easily by a little known classical conditioning experiment conducted by Pavlov. The experiment was very similar to the famous experiment where he discovered classical conditioning, except Pavlov used an electric shock as the neutral stimulus and food as the conditioned stimulus. Basically, he shocked the dog and then gave the dog food. After a while, the dog would salivate when it was shocked, and interestingly enough, the shock seemed to have lost much of its aversive effect after that point. The dog even acted excited when it was shocked.
As for sadism or masochism, that can be explained rather easily by a little known classical conditioning experiment conducted by Pavlov. The experiment was very similar to the famous experiment where he discovered classical conditioning, except Pavlov used an electric shock as the neutral stimulus and food as the conditioned stimulus. Basically, he shocked the dog and then gave the dog food. After a while, the dog would salivate when it was shocked, and interestingly enough, the shock seemed to have lost much of its aversive effect after that point. The dog even acted excited when it was shocked.
Furies, Rape (all types, no exceptions), Anime Pron, and whatever the thing is called when people cut off their arms while nude or whatever... my firends tell me about this shit all the time, and I want to shoot myself with a fifty caliber sniper when they are done explaining it...
For me is this recurring fetish that involves me fighting with another guy until the point that i feel in synch with him all leading to a real passionate sex explosion of frenzy and lasting hours.... Here's the problems with this one (is mine):
1. I cannot find a partner (if is female I can't love her) (if is male I have to trust him)
2. Is a trust thing (I recognize this) it stem of the fact that I lacked "real" friends growing up and was raised in and environment in which woman were dominant (or rather all around)
3. To me it feels like is all about masculinity; yet (here the kicker) i do not consider myself gay... Just have an inert desire for something straight out of anime or some s*** like that...
4. And the most important... I CAN'T LOVE or rather i threw away that emotion and replaced it with rapid adaptability... Meaning I learn fast and understand fast just don't love myself or anyone else for that matter.
In the end this "fetish" of mine prevents me from really forming a "normal" life by society standards... By my account i feel normal. (just living like a wild lion in a cage of repression) in reality I recognize that is impossible to act upon everything.
1. I cannot find a partner (if is female I can't love her) (if is male I have to trust him)
2. Is a trust thing (I recognize this) it stem of the fact that I lacked "real" friends growing up and was raised in and environment in which woman were dominant (or rather all around)
3. To me it feels like is all about masculinity; yet (here the kicker) i do not consider myself gay... Just have an inert desire for something straight out of anime or some s*** like that...
4. And the most important... I CAN'T LOVE or rather i threw away that emotion and replaced it with rapid adaptability... Meaning I learn fast and understand fast just don't love myself or anyone else for that matter.
In the end this "fetish" of mine prevents me from really forming a "normal" life by society standards... By my account i feel normal. (just living like a wild lion in a cage of repression) in reality I recognize that is impossible to act upon everything.
Oh right. Well I'm a Sadist, and the main attraction isn't the hurting of someone, it's them getting off on it. Most Sadists get off on getting other people off, and like to push that as far as it can go. I think to an extent most girls are slightly masochistic, or at least very submissive in bed, and so I kinda rule the playground in that respectjcb1337 said:
Would you prefer I say acucullophilia? Cause really I don't see much of a difference. One is sexually interested in amputees and the other is sexually interested in a more specified group of amputees. By the way, acucullophilia is viewed as a paraphilia, so whatever arguement you were trying to make above is not valid.Rosetta said:
EDIT: The quotes were too gigantic, so I just took what I was responding to.
We could argue whenever rape is actually a fetish or just a name for sexual assault. Fantasy-Rape or Quasi-Rape is what would be much closer to general idea of sexual fetish, when the 'victim' is actually excited by the concept of being taken by force, or other way around, when the assaulter just pretends to rape, knowing well that the 'victim' expects it.riottrio said:
There also is difference between deviations and fetishes. With fetish it doesn't have to be something you actually do, it may just be the sight, smell or even thinking about it that triggers you.
For eg. if you get excited by reading rape stories it doesn't have to mean you will ever rape someone, but rape will be your fetish.
Fetishes are pretty personal, so nobody should expect to understand any but their own (if any). And be tolerant of others', of course.
