Finally snapped!!

[lazy_bum]

bGood for you, i am generally noted as being not a violent person, but there is always a point were violence is the final option, i should know, had only a few scrapes in my education, every one has gone down i school memory and resulted in people suddenly being nicer to me think i managed an icident every year.

yr7: yr10 picked me up by the collar and was going to beat me up, so i nutted him and brokew his nose.

yr8: kid ambushed me and beat me up while on camp so i jumped him in his tent and broke his collar bone.

yr9: new kid in our year gave me 4 weeks of solid abuse, teachers didnt respond so i threw him through a pc.

yr10: got hit with stool in chemistry and threatened with chemicals, he ended up wearing chemicals.

yr 11: kid swung a chemistry text book into my face so i stabbed him with a pen (he still has the scar.

no idea how i got away with all of this really, though alot of the time there were witnesses and other factors. and ironically after each of these incidents the other person was suddenly my best friend and i had no hassle through 6form. so sometimes violence is the answer, but never the fisrt answer.

 

[Blunderman]

My story is very similar to yours, but the receiver of my "snapping" was so much worse than just a bully. Long before that, I'd hit a bully right black in the face before I even started High School. Diplomacy is bullshit against someone who only communicates through violence. Talking, turning the other cheek and so on, it only works against adults. Children need to learn through consequences.

 

[etherlance]

While I generally say no to violence, some people just deserve a good fist-to-face confrontation. I remember one time I was on the bus and was getting messed around with constantly until I eventually hit one of the kids in the face. He never looked at me again.

Maybe you blinded him lol??

 

[RootbeerJello]

During 8th grade I was picked on by two kids because I practiced Judaism at the time which led to a full year of harassment and my leading to my breaking point where they carved three crosses into my skin with a metal tipped pencil.

That's... fucked up.

OT: I've never gotten too much shit from people, since I guess I go to a pussy school or something, so this problem never really arose for me.

 

[chinangel]

"Has anything like this happened to you and what happened"??

i was always a really gentle kid, if not a bit strange (i won't get into why here) but needless to say the result was the biggest kid in school decided I was a fun target to bully. I had to put up with him for my entire public school life. I then changed schools in high school and I was relieved! He was gone!

...or not.

In my final year (I went to 3 high schools) he shows up and starts to bully me once more, it was like old times!

But with a difference. My brother had made friends with a guy who wasn't tall..but VERY strong. THe guy was also renown for being a little imbalanced, but he was really friendly to me and I think he kind of had a crush on me.

anyways, so the bully started attacking me, and then my friend walks up to him and does the scariest, most amazing thing he ever did to me. he grabbed the bully by the arm (and the bully was TALL) and dragged him out of the hall. Now this was mildly comical because the bully just stared, stunned, and then my friend dragged him outside (the bully was angry and fighting back, my friend ignored him. )

I later found out that he beat the living crap out of the bully. He got suspended but was sm iling the entire time. I...was really grateful to have someone protect me.

SO yeah, that's my story.

 

[Thedayrecker]

I'm 6'4" so people tend not to mess with me, and occasionally when one starts, I just stand up and they shut pretty quick. Also, I tend to be everyone's friend, so there's another reason nobody messes with me.

There was this one kid, though, in 9th grade. He was just a dick to everyone. Few people liked him, and even his "friends" thought he was an ass, and while I never exacted physical revenge on him, I like to imagine that karma did. Last I heard he'd dropped out, and has two kids (and he isn't even 18 yet).

 

[Mr. Google]

One kid was being a huge spaz in wrestling once and wouldnt move so we could open the door so i just knocked him in the back of the head and every one just stood still and he never really messed with me again or did something stupid around me cause he knows that i would probably go further and beat the shit outta him. Everyone else just laughed because they hate the kid too

 

[ethan22122]

I used to get pcked on all the time at my old school because I was one of the smallest kids in class and I liked star wars and video games etc. But since than I have grown to neally 6 foot and rather bulky (not fat) . I still get picked on from time to time now at my new school but I'm prepared to fight.

 

[Spellmaster]

Yep, i had few people like that- bullies, sport jocks, essentially the assholes of the school, and they liked to bother me constantly

A few careful nut punches and other carthetic acts of violence [i was half their size], and they stopped bothering me, plus it gives me no end of lasting amusement that they are probably sweeping floors somewhere and will never do any better.

I'm also of the opinion that fighting back is often the only useful option, the usual school policy of hands off and similar crap is pointless, and much harsher punishments should be brought against bullies.

 

[Drakmorg]

I've never actually had a physical confrontation with anyone before,
But that's mostly because when people started talking shit I just made some psychotic remarks about carving out their eyes or burning down their house.

 

[Gudrests]

ahhh i remember when i did this....this kid.."dick" kept hitting me day in and day out...I told him to stop...told the teacher..(she did nothing) and so he kept doing it...one day when we were all lineing up to leave school (middle school 8th grade) he hit me and said something....so i grabbed him put him into a headlock and made him turn a few diffrent colors...then someone else grabbed me and pulled me back...the "dick" got up ran away around the table and hid behind a teacher (i shit you not) and the other teacher started yelling...SO I YELLED BACK...she said you should have told me...so i yelled..I DID, 4 TIMES AND YOU DID NOTHING SO I HANDLED IT MYSELF...she stood there dumbstruck.....happend 1 other time but that ended badly....when someone pulls you off of someone who your chocking.. and if they put you in a a chicken hold so you cant defend yourself.....hit them even harder...because thats dumb as shit

 

[I Max95]

nope and im a prime target, husky, nerdy, quiet, antisocial
people just ignore me or turn out to be pretty nice people
even people who used to bully me got bored from my indifference and started being nice so i never got the chance to lose my temper
the people in my school generally keep to themselves

 

[oktalist]

Damn, OP's had a shitty day. Well done, though. I'm guessing you didn't really have much control over your actions when the red mist descended. As a self-diagnosed I'm aware that Asperger's can predispose you to total freak-outs under those sorts of circumstances. It happened to me a couple of times when I was younger, but the "violence" it precipitated was rather ineffectual, seeing as I had lost all control, I was just a flailing ball of fists and feet and quite easy to dodge and made me look even more stupid.

I always thought that those sort of twats turned more civilised when they left school and found out that sort of attitude is not socially acceptable in the real world. It seems there's always one, though.

Don't ignore them. Respond politely and engage them in conversation. It confuses them. Worst case, tell them clearly and calmly to fuck off.

 

[KiruTheMant]

Today in fact,As I have the same issue as you,Aspergers led me to be quiet to survive,and so it happened,an ass in Art class was being an all around dick. So,Throwing pencils,stealing my sketcches,and eventually just came over and shoved me out of my chair. One girl,Raven,burst in calling him a dick til I jumped up,and gave one thoughtless rage fueled right hook. I naturally don't fight a lot,and while I am strong for my age,hold punches and flinch a lot. But I threw this fist with rage momnentum,knocking him over a table and onto a red tiled floor,and after a few stomps to the gut,I sat down,my face was red as if blushing,but that was Adrenaline. Felt good knowing he couldn't look me in the eye that day,and made some excuse he fell down the stairs, and i'd just smirk.

Damn,That felt good.

 

[Marter]

I'll likely snap one day and either go on a rampage, or just kill myself.

But, I'll probably rage here and get banned here first though.

Hasn't happened yet. ^_^

 

[Imperioratorex Caprae]

I got lunchboxes banned from my school for a few years cuz I whalloped some bully upside the head in first grade. Little bastard cornered me and wouldn't leave me alone, I had a full old-school thermos in my lunchbox and heaved with all my skinny-punk strength. He went down.

People didn't mess with me much after that until about 3rd or 4th grade (short memories for them), I usually let it go but about 5th grade I got cornered again in the school's new gym locker room. Kid tried to push me, but I'd taken some martial arts lessons and stepped back, grabbed one arm and slammed him into the lockers.
2 years pass...

7th grade science class, some kid tried to steal my shoes, in broad daylight. I told him to keep his hands off if he wanted to keep them. I guess he didn't like that and disappeared to the bathroom right before class ended. I usually stayed behind and he was waiting for me when I popped out the classroom door, charging toward me like a linebacker. And like a good halfback, I jumped back 2 steps and watched him plow into the hardened concrete block wall and fall to the ground unconscious. I swear I remember thinking "Thank you video games for teaching me to move when things are charging at me and I'm next to a wall."

I always got picked on cuz I was one of those kids who didn't talk much, and when a teacher called on me I always knew the answer, even if my nose was stuffed into some comic book instead of class. You would figure since I went to the same school for all of elementary/middle school (K-8th) that kids would have figured out not to push me. I'm non-violent at heart but I have no problem using it when it suits.

 

[Rasputin1]

I can't say I've had any experiences similiar, but all I can say, OP is. Well! Fucking! Done!

Bullies need to be put in their place. If that guy put you through years of misery, the least, of what he deserved was a bleeding lip.

 

[Rasputin1]

I'll likely snap one day and either go on a rampage, or just kill myself.

But, I'll probably rage here and get banned here first though.

Hasn't happened yet. ^_^

;O Marter I expect better from you!

 

[Marter]

;O Marter I expect better from you!

I still think it'll happen. Don't know when, but I believe it will.