Finally snapped!!

[Lord Kloo]

To be honest, If I had snapped to some of the abuse I was given I wouldn't actually be as popular as i am today.
Being called gay (and other homosexual insults) almost everyday earns you a lot of sympathy in the female market place, as soon as you have their respect you just have to manipulate everyone else in to thinking the same way. Its much easier to snap, trouble is then everyone, apart from a few, then think you're weird.

This might be a isolated situation that appears only in semi-rural UK schools, but who knows..

I have snapped a few times at some people though, didn't help much, just gave them more ammunition..

 

[PoliceBox63]

Happy to hear that you found some sense of , not closure but that you won this time. good on you

 

[llew]

ye something like this has happened... guy who used to be my friend turned into a right twat and started bullying me, then one day he decided to make fun of my uncle who died of cancer and next thing i knew i had one arm grabbing his throat choking him and the other arm ready to smash his face into the wall behind him... never did it again xD

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

Im going to go with the time about 6 months or so ago when i was hanging out with two of my "Friends." I air quote friends, because only one of them is my friend anymore.

Well, we where haning out, then my girlfriend of over a year texts me (Where still together, btw) saying that my friend, Ill call him Richard this time around (Cookie if you get why i used that name) was hitting on her via text like a loser, well, needless to say, I got pissed off, he knew, for a fact, that I am head over heels for this girl, and hes so desprite that he has to try to take his friend's girlfriend.

Well, i confronted him about it, words where said, then he called her a *****, and then i beat the shit out of him, walked off, never looked back, and have not heard a word from the jackass sense.

Sorry for the rant.

Richard, haha. I see whatcha did there.

I have to say, I hate 'friends' who will forget your friendship for the sake of a girl they have no more right to than any other prick. It's so...primitive.

 

[tombman888]

My message to you, OP, is to do better than every one of them. The sense of accomplishment is far beyond punching any of them in the face.

This. People can push me around all they want to, but I know that they will accomplish nothing with their lives and I'll be sitting around rubbing my success in their face.

although, a good punch in the face is very satisfying too.

 

[jultub]

At a time or point I have reached the rage level where I see my fist flying towards a person without me feeling it in my arm. But I've never had a "bully" in that way. I've been weird, but not the kind of weird that you make fun of.

I'd like to point out that those few times are the only times I've ever hit someone with the purpose of hurting them. I'm far too peaceful for my own good

 

[DuplicateValue]

Was gonna read it, but then you said you had Asperger's and I stopped caring....

Can I ask why?

 

[SenseOfTumour]

As much as I don't advocate violence as a solution, it's gotta be said, you might be bullied for being weird or strange or different, take that step to unhinged or crazy and generally they'll leave you alone. They'll just make fun of you behind your back, but you won't have to take it to your face any more

 

[RedDeadFred]

You gave into temptation, resorted to physical violence, and in doing so lowered yourself down to his level. Why is that considered a good thing?

So he's supposed to let the guy beat on him? Everyone has a right to self-defense. Your telling me that if a guy punched you in the face or kicked you to the ground, you wouldn't defend yourself?

No. I would leave. I have no desire to get into a fight. I would only fight back if he was actively pursuing me. And even then, I wouldn't take pride in it.

I thought he was being actively perused by this guy. Even so, if someone punches you, you have every right to use equal force against them. I believe this is actually in the charter of rights and freedoms. Also, walking away after they've already beat on you will make them think you are weak and they will probably just come back at you even harder.

Considering that he hadn't seen this guy in years, I doubt that. Either way, it still doesn't change the fact that taking pride in revenge and encouraging it is still wrong. Again, I don't really blame him for punching him. It's an understandable thing to do, and may not have even been morally wrong if it was in self defense. It's the fact that people see this as a good solution and take pride in it that bothers me.

Oh. I see what you mean. I agree with you then.

 

[Wolfy1328]

Let me just say something here, it was in first grade(lol), so it wasn't really that intense.

Back in grade 1, when things were simple, and it was okay to have a friend of the opposite gender and not be called anything, (my friend was a boy), there was some kid who constantly tried to drive me away from my friend who he was friends with as well. He would shove me down and call me names. Later that year he approached me on the playground and proceeded to pick on me. I told him to shut up and go away, and he punched me in the gut. So i gave him a good kick to the nuts,(lol i didn't know how he would react at the time) and he fell over of course, crying. We both got in trouble but it felt great.

the funny thing is, years later we made up and were friends again.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

You think that's good?

I'm currently doing a degree in earth sciences, and the other day whilst I was in McDonald's (my mate wanted a burger. I'm a Subway kinda guy) I was served by the old cliche bully from school.

I had already known that he worked at McDonalds full-time, but asking for a Big Mac and paying with a £50 note (I only had that because I sold some stuff. I don't usually get that much money at once) is much more satisfying than just knowing.

I guess it's not really snapping, but it is similar to what you did. Sort of.

 

[Player 2]

I broke a guys nose with a policeman's helmet once.

 

[Wardnath]

Was gonna read it, but then you said you had Asperger's and I stopped caring....

Can I ask why?

I would also like to know why.

 

[Ildecia]

People don't really mess with me...

but to the OP and all else with this kind of experience, well done and cookies all around!

 

[Artina89]

One person tried to start something with me in my 1st year of high school until I confronted her verbally. I forgot what I said, something like, "If you're gonna hit me, hit me hard or else I will kick the ever loving crap out of you" and she backed the hell off. Fast forward 10 years and I am in my final year at university and shes had 2 kids and is unemployed (last I heard). I got the last laugh I suppose.

 

[FallenJellyDoughnut]

My sister will sucker punch any girl who gets in her face, its funny because she isn't a good fighter, but it only takes one punch and its over. I do believe she has broken a girl's nose before.

 

[Brad Shepard]

Im going to go with the time about 6 months or so ago when i was hanging out with two of my "Friends." I air quote friends, because only one of them is my friend anymore.

Well, we where haning out, then my girlfriend of over a year texts me (Where still together, btw) saying that my friend, Ill call him Richard this time around (Cookie if you get why i used that name) was hitting on her via text like a loser, well, needless to say, I got pissed off, he knew, for a fact, that I am head over heels for this girl, and hes so desprite that he has to try to take his friend's girlfriend.

Well, i confronted him about it, words where said, then he called her a *****, and then i beat the shit out of him, walked off, never looked back, and have not heard a word from the jackass sense.

Sorry for the rant.

Richard, haha. I see whatcha did there.

I have to say, I hate 'friends' who will forget your friendship for the sake of a girl they have no more right to than any other prick. It's so...primitive.

Heres your cookies

But i agree, I dont even talk to the bastard anymore, If hes willing to destroy a 7 year friendship just to try to steal my girlfriend away from me, well, he can fall in a well.

 

[rockera]

nope nothing one kid threatens me a lot but I just call him on it and that's it, most people will do anything to stay out of a fight(cookie if you get the reference)

 

[Louis Hermann]

I've had a lot of experiences like this not just bullying either.

In 4th grade when I was 10 it started after I had made the decisions to move in with my father (my parents were divorced). He lived in a dingy, dirty, trailer park which was basically one big ghetto somewhere in Georgia. There were actually quite a few kids my age but a couple of them were mentally unstable. One of them was noteworthy because he would try to fight me every day. We'll call him Justin.

Justin started by confronting me face to face every single day in the same way and he would always get beat. I was a better fighter (which wasn't saying much) so I would win the fight and carry on about my business. It eventually became like an inconvenience to fight him so I tried avoiding him all the time. I took back ways and all sorts of tricks to avoid him, so then he tries jumping me. He'd catch me by surprise and get the first blow but yet I'd still win. All this time I would never really hurt him either because I felt bad for him, but that changed one day when he pulled a knife on me. He was advancing with a knife and backing me into a corner. When my back touched the wall fight or flight kicked it and I started kicking at the knife hand which got me stabbed deep in the side of the leg, but he also dropped the knife. I beat the everliving dogshit out of him that day and he didn't mess with me since.

5ht grade was in a different place at a different school. Few kids messed with me because at that point I was borderline psychotic. There was one teacher who always had it in for me and would act completely unfairly in regards to me. The culminating point was when she accused me of some stupid little thing and tried to give me a "strike" so I told her she could go **** herself and punched the wall hard enough to put a hole through it. Rumor was eventually spread that I threw a desk at the teacher and a chair through a window. (Don't really understand that one).

After that I mellowed out a little bit, but my middle school had kids from a different elementary school as well and they didn't know the rumors. I also got glasses that year so I was the definition of prime target. Except I did not give a shit who it was I would buck up against anyone. For example: one day one of the "big bad eighth graders" decided to shove my against a locker in a crowded hallway, I dropped my stuff and jumped on his back with a rear naked choke with my left and my fist beating him on the right.

But there were a few who were just bullies, but the bullies stopped after this next incident. Kid was messing with me in gym class and no matter how much I tried to fight it I could feel tears welling up in me. Though I successfully avoided crying everyone knew that he had won and I was pissed at myself for the rest of the day until... On the way back from lunch later that day I saw the same kid leaned over getting books from his locker. I took off in a full sprint pushing people out of my way to get there and when I did I punted his locker door closed hard against his face and he was knocked out cold. I was questioned but no one did anything because there wasn't enough valid evidence.

Other than that it was mostly just dumb kids that wanted to get messed up. I would say that the most prevalent bully in my life (and one of my best friends now) was my father. In two years there were three fistfights. The first one ended with me getting thrown through a fishtank and getting cuts all down my back. The second was mostly unremarkable. Oh, but the third one. I had just gotten into bboying, self defense, and strength training. My self defense knowledge was entirely self taught with a willing volunteer.

Just to straighten things out I had hit my teen growth spurt but my dad still stood a good 6" taller than me and easily 80lbs heavier. He was drunk yelling about some political bullshit on CSpan when I told him to "calm his drunk ass down". Drunks don't like being called drunk I found out as he threw something at me and hit me in the face. I stood up as he ambled over and stared right through him and told him that I took that "as a threat and if you ever threaten me again I will make it the last thing you ever want to do."

He said you'll do what and put his massive hand around my throat and started to squeeze and click the self defense kicked in. I C-gripped his throat with my fingers behind his trachea and kneed him hard in the gut/solarplexus. I pushed on him with the c-grip still help and shoved him against a countertop corner. He pushed back and we ended up heading towards my room. I pivoted at the right time and when we entered my room i was the one doing the pushing. There was a lone chair in there that I'd sit at to play video games. I saw the opportunity and shoved him hard into it and just like I wanted he fell between the chair and one of the beds. I jumped onto him while he was disoriented and delivered a flurry of elbow and knee strikes to his face. I got in like 6 or 7 before I was pulled off of him. I felt like I had just brought down a mammoth with a sling. The entire way I was getting dragged out I was talking shit: "Motherf***er that's what you get b*tch. Let's see you do something now!" I felt amazing. Granted I had two huge bruises a busted lip a bleeding eye which helped sell my story to local police when they came to pick him up. As the escorted him out I stood there smiling proudly showing my wounds so that he would know that I beat him one on one.

After that I had no need to fight. I didn't care if someone started something. The only time I'd fight is if a friend of mine was endangered. But yea, after overcoming that I was the winner. I had already won all my fights from that moment forward.