first date and asking out ideas

[sparten042]

i need something to do when i ask her out i dont know something fun, charming etc.. but i just want it to seem special and something she'll remeber. and i really dont care how outrageous something happened today that made me realise that i should go for it whatever i do.. , and any ideas for a first date

 

[Palademon]

If you want it to be something she remembers it's probably a good idea for it to actually be your idea.

First date...hmmm. Find something you both like.
If not, is a movie too forward for a first date (being in the dark with eachother etc.)?
If you want the first date to be something to remember too, make it original and personal.

 

[sam13lfc]

Firstly, not a movie, you need to be able to talk and stuff haha. Well, erm...find something you both like/would like to do and something that would allow you to talk and be close and stuff, if you can do that you can make anything charming and special ;P

 

[Meggiepants]

When I was in high school, a guy took me to a park and we played on the swings and took a walk. Then we walked to a ice cream stand and picked up a cone.

I have to say, it was quite charming indeed. Not only that, but we had plenty of time to talk, and it didn't require a lot of money.

I would say it was memorable, because I still remember it well.

 

[Aur0ra145]

Mini-golf.
Coffee.
Dinner.

Where are you from? That will help me think of stuff.

 

[Grospoliner]

You: "Hey, can I ask you what some of your hobbies are? Things you enjoy and what-not?"

Girl: A) "F--- off!"
B) "Sure./(Lists stuff)"
C) "I like chocolate milk!!!!"

You: A) "..."
B) "What do you enjoy?/ Want together and do that this weekend?"
C) "Me too!"

Girl: A) "..."
B) "No./Yes."
C) "Potatoes"

You: A) "..."
B) ".../Great I'll pick you up at X:XX."
C) "..."

 

[smearyllama]

If all else fails, get a friend to ask someone else out and then play Super Smash Bros. at one person's house.
Also, this video comes to mind:


Weenie roasts are quite fun...

 

[Mcmuffin]

Well i took my girlfriend an ice rink that i had rented out for just the two of us(cost me $100 for 2 hours, probably different in different places) i taught her to ice skate and we had a fun night. She said it was the best date shes ever been on, women love the romantic stuff. Remember whatever you do, bring Flowers im assuming youre in high school, Girls that age dont often get flowers from people they go out with now a days, dunno why.

EDIT: Note this was our first date but we had been flirting for months so maybe not right for you.

 

[Zer_]

If you want it to be something she remembers it's probably a good idea for it to actually be your idea.

First date...hmmm. Find something you both like.
If not, is a movie too forward for a first date (being in the dark with eachother etc.)?
If you want the first date to be something to remember too, make it original and personal.

Movies are a bad idea. For the evening, you're focused on a movie, and not each other... Not the best idea.

Eating out is a decent idea, but it's pretty cliche. Getting something interesting done is a great idea.

Take her to an arcade, then go play pool or something. It doesn't matter if you suck at playing pool, it'll be fun, and you can get to know one another afterwards. Then later in the evening you can buy two foam swords and duel in the streets. When you focus on fun little activities as a date, it's okay to just eat at a hot dog place or something. A quick bite to eat basically.

 

[AussieTex]

A picnic at a park is a romantic idea and no matter what anyone says, pushing someone on the swings is one of the best things you can do for someone to make them feel special and happy. A first date doesn't have to be big or expensive. One of the best first dates I ever had was when my now ex-boyfriend took me to Macca's for lunch and we talked for a while before going over to his place and we beat each others butts on various games. It was relaxed and fun and a way to get to know each other without too much pressure or expectations and a way to feel and show more of your true self which is always a good thing.

 

[jbchillin]

mini golf is always good its surprising how much fun it can be on a date and its usually in expensive.

 

[Zer_]

A picnic at a park is a romantic idea and no matter what anyone says, pushing someone on the swings is one of the best things you can do for someone to make them feel special and happy. A first date doesn't have to be big or expensive. One of the best first dates I ever had was when my now ex-boyfriend took me to Macca's for lunch and we talked for a while before going over to his place and we beat each others butts on various games. It was relaxed and fun and a way to get to know each other without too much pressure or expectations and a way to feel and show more of your true self which is always a good thing.

Being too romantic on a first date can push girls away.

The key word for a first date (if you're unsure of what she'll enjoy) is FUN. Making a very small romantic gesture like buying a single rose and putting it in her hair or something can work. This can show her that you definitely have a romantic side, while not being cheesy about it.

Originality is a HUUUUUGE plus.

Original + Fun = successful first date... ALWAYS.

 

[Evil Moo]

If you want it to be something she remembers it's probably a good idea for it to actually be your idea.

First date...hmmm. Find something you both like.
If not, is a movie too forward for a first date (being in the dark with eachother etc.)?
If you want the first date to be something to remember too, make it original and personal.

Movies are a bad idea.

Take her to an arcade, then go play pool or something. It doesn't matter if you suck at playing pool, it'll be fun, and you can get to know one another afterwards. Then later in the evening you can buy two foam swords and duel in the streets.

This sounds so epicly fun that I'm gonna summon up the courage to ask out the girl I've been kinda into just to duel her.

It does sound fun, but I can't stop thinking a scenario like this would happen if I tried it:

Me: I challenge you to duel! *slaps with duelling glove*
Girl: Oh my god! You just hit me! *kicks in crotch then walks away*
Me: D:

As you may be able to tell, I haven't been on many (read 'any') dates recently (read 'ever')... >:

 

[Zer_]

If you want it to be something she remembers it's probably a good idea for it to actually be your idea.

First date...hmmm. Find something you both like.
If not, is a movie too forward for a first date (being in the dark with eachother etc.)?
If you want the first date to be something to remember too, make it original and personal.

Movies are a bad idea.

Take her to an arcade, then go play pool or something. It doesn't matter if you suck at playing pool, it'll be fun, and you can get to know one another afterwards. Then later in the evening you can buy two foam swords and duel in the streets.

This sounds so epicly fun that I'm gonna summon up the courage to ask out the girl I've been kinda into just to duel her.

It does sound fun, but I can't stop thinking a scenario like this would happen if I tried it:

Me: I challenge you to duel! *slaps with duelling glove*
Girl: Oh my god! You just hit me! *kicks in crotch then walks away*
Me: D:

As you may be able to tell, I haven't been on many (read 'any') dates recently (read 'ever')... >:

They're just examples. I mean, Break out two foam swords and throw one at her, then be like. "en garde!"

 

[SillyBear]

If a girl likes you she likes you. Unless you do something incredibly outrageous that turns her off, you'll be fine. Don't listen to people who think they know what a perfect first date is, because there is no such thing. They are armchair experts who probably don't have a girlfriend to begin with.

 

[Sacman]

My general rule is: Don't you're just gonna get shot down anyway...

but when the planets align and weird cosmic rays effect my self esteem levels and assuming she says yes, which is highly unlikely, I usually go with, "I dunno I'll think of something..." and than think of something later... just whatever happens to come up... last date I went on like last year... I went to go see a local band preform... they weren't that good and she wasn't that into them anyway...<.<