First Kiss

[Arachon]

It's too late, you're already in the friend zone.

When someone gets complaints about not kissing a girl, from said girl, I very much doubt so.

 

[Caspertjuhh]

best way, say you want her for something, walk to a quiet stairway, and kiss her. It's always worked for me...

THOUGH!!! you have to be relatively certain that she is into you too for this to work.

 

[dex-dex]

Do it when you think it is right.
It is not that big of a deal. compared to others firsts in life.

 

[Kpt._Rob]

Planning it out with a time frame is ridiculous. I've had relationships where the first kiss wasn't for three months, and I've had relationships where the first kiss happened as soon as I asked the girl out. The timing on both couldn't have been better.

Just let yourself feel for what's right when, planning these things out too much will make them seem forced, and that almost inevitably makes them awkward.

If I were in your shoes, I'd come out and tell her everything you've said here. It'll let her see some of your vulnerabilities, and also show her that you're confident and comfortable enough with her to admit to doing silly things like waiting till the third date because Family Guy told you to. It'll also make a good bridge into a first kiss.

 

[Jaranja]

When you can get a friend to hold her down.

Whenever it comes natural. Planning things like this is just silly in my opinion, especially when she seems to genuinely want a kiss from you. Don't rush it, don't take forever, just do it when it feels right for you.

Yeah, this post voices my exact thoughts on the matter.

I met my girlfriend, in person, not long ago. We didn't expect anything to happen immediately, as it was only the start of our physical relationship. However, the awkwardness of meeting her for the first time soon wore off and we kissed rather quickly.

Just goes to show, don't listen to Family Guy. Kiss when you both want to.

 

[Kermi]

I met the girl who'd later become my wife at a friend's party then didn't see her for six months until I invited her to my 21st. We made out for 3 hours.

 

[s0p0g]

what pirate kitty said.

also, if you try to impress her, and "convince" her that being with you would be awesome by thinking of more and more awesome dates, i wonder what you want to do if you two were together. more and more and more awesome things?
do you know if you are "compatible" in "everyday life"? = do you KNOW her? or did you rush into them dates rather quickly? because the latter is sort of a guarantee for a rather early break up.
but regarding the first kiss specifically, i'd say you should "feel" when the time is right. she'll let you know. and if you don't recognise the more or less subtle signs she'll give you then, then maybe (just *maybe*) you aren't tuned to the same wavelength?

but, as i don't know any of you, what do i know? ^^

 

[PanicxBoss]

Second date, no tongue. As for special; do it at a time when you find he really attractive. Like when she's just said something really cute or funny. If you know she wants you to kiss her, then you can't really worry about timing on her part, just do it when it feels right; when you really want to. Then it will be a good kiss.

Uh, nope... I'd say it depends on the girl. Second date, at the end of a long marathon of movies, and after getting to know each other for a good bit (was it like eight hours or something? I love free weekends), mine was all over me. You are right in one respect, you can TELL when she wants you to kiss her. She just has that look about her. Best of luck, OP, she sounds like a nice girl!

 

[Lunar Shadow]

Whenever it occurs.

Treating a kiss like a carefully planned and thought out mission is a great way to ruin the fun and romance of a relationship.

This, a million times this. Trying to plan it out just means it comes off even more awkward. >>

 

[Verlander]

Just do it. If you build something like this up so much, you'll end up doing the same to every milestone, and while it can be cute at first, it will end up irritating and pushing girls away.

 

[Brandon237]

Hmm, I think I only did it on our fourth date, but the timing was good. Just do it when you feel right to do it.

For me, It was a big arena at a shopping center, quite dark, not many people and we kinda got into a conversation not so subtly hinting at kissing. After a few more minutes of talking, I said something along the lines of "Sorry for the wait, but I hope that it's worth it" followed by a kiss. Yeah, that simple.

But if she said ahh no kiss goodnight, then on your next date would be good. Just have her over at your place or go over there, when there are no irritating crowds and you can just relax and be with them, it is better by far. And when you guys are together watching a movie, just about anytime is the right time to kiss.

So go with the flow, when the moment seems good, go for it. She wants to be kissed as much as you want to kiss her, and good luck.

 

[ParkourMcGhee]

So as a few of you may know from a recent thread I created I'm currently dating a girl (holy shit a real one you ask? Not inflatable?). Now according to this family guy skit the perfect time to wait for the first kiss with a girl is the third date. My first date out with her was for coffee, a walk in the park, and a nice peaceful drive in the hills of a beautiful day. Our second date was to the movies and we saw 'Easy A' (her choice of course). I nonchalantly commented that the movie was "Decent" and we had Pizza at an Italian restaurant nearby after-wards (albeit a very pedestrian restaurant). So subconsciously in the back of my head I was basically thinking it was too early to kiss her after dropping her back home and walking her to her door. It didn't occur to me that she wanted to kiss. It wasn't until I was at home later that night when she sent me a message saying "You didn't kiss me goodnight waaah ". I sent her a message back saying that I was saving it for something special (pulled that out of my Arse!).

So my question to all of you is when do you think is the right time to kiss (/or other relevant milestone) with someone. Do you jump in straight away or give some time for it to settle down a bit and really get to know each-other? What's your plan of attack?

OH! And I need an awesome idea for our next date. Discuss!

It's whenever it feels right to both of you.

So far I've not had a girlfriend I didn't kiss (or you know what) before starting to date sooo... I wouldn't know. However, it seems she's feeling something and you either haven't picked up on it or haven't acted on it.

Either way it's your choice of move next. - and you have a set up "you've been saving it". So follow through.

 

[mortalsatsuma]

I'm not suggesting you dive onto her next time you see her and immediately start playing "tonsil tennis" but do not leave it too long. The first girl I ever got a date with dumped me on our second date as she thought I didn't like her as I didn't kiss her. I still to this day regret not kissing her.

 

[ciancon]

Seriously, just kiss her.

 

[vanthebaron]

when its emotionally right

my first kiss was a goodbye kiss from my best friend (Kayla Bush is beautiful) right before I moved away from St. Louis.

 

[Pingieking]

Whenever it occurs.

Treating a kiss like a carefully planned and thought out mission is a great way to ruin the fun and romance of a relationship.

This.
If you think and plan too much about it, it'll be a massive disappointment. Even if it was a success, it'll still be massively disappointing. Just a general rule in life.

 

[Spinozaad]

Outside or before a relationship I kiss and fuck whenever the opportunity is there, really.

Life is about those little joys, and those are two of them. Might as well make the most of them.

 

[orangecharger]

You should have said that you were taking the advice of Familiy Guy.

Clearly, it was the best solution.

Isn't it always? OT: I found in my dating days (now over) that it truly depends on the vibe between you and that girl... mostly the girls vibe on you. I have gone in too early in one girls opinion... then waited a little longer with another and been asked "WTF don't you kiss me already?" So the girl and the vibe will set the time. Doesn't help much I am sure but I think that's how it goes.

As for making with the sexy time it will depend on what both parties are after. If it's a relationship it will need to be again based on vibe and usually her feelings towards you. Let's be honest more often than not a guy will take what he's offered.