I asked my girlfriend out with a kiss. And we've been together for two years! Every relationship is different, so just do what you want.
First Kiss
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You should have kissed her already. If she is giving a second date, it is "on". If you are going to have the initiative to ask her out, you need to have the initiative to kiss her too. Point isn't a matter of when, it is a matter of "I am attracted to you so I am gonna kiss you". I mean if she hasn't negatively shown anything from your advances, you should go for it. Maybe start with a hug. Here, take the encouragement of a hermit crab.
Just do it when you feel like you want to. Although I'd make sure that she's at least open to you doing so. If she isn't interested at the time then wait a bit. Other than that though just do it when it feels right.
This, pretty much.Pirate Kitty said:
Although you shouldn't jump on her straight away and start sucking face. In a way, you might be making it more exciting for her, she'll be waiting for it now.
Before I met up with my boyfriend for the first time, I was saying that I wanted to hug and kiss him the second he got off the train, but when he did meet he went to kiss me and I recoiled in horror xD
We went to a museum and I gave him a kiss there, then went to a park for a cuddle on the swing where I properly kissed him. I don't like people when I first meet them, but I warm up to them pretty quickly.
I'd say whenever you feel comfortable enough to kiss her, that's when it will feel best. If it still doesn't feel right, it will feel forced and your heart won't be making that fluttering feeling.
When it feels right, always remember that!
No number of dates should dictate anything, just go at it when it feels right, that is all there is.
And the only existing plan of attack should be to have no plan of attack, over thinking it will just end up biting you in the ass.
No number of dates should dictate anything, just go at it when it feels right, that is all there is.
And the only existing plan of attack should be to have no plan of attack, over thinking it will just end up biting you in the ass.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying one should pounce on the poor lass with no provocation. You just have to follow your instincts, man... And don't just for the kiss right out; build it up a little. Everyone has their pre-kiss routine... Alternatively, just don't listen to me at all...PanicxBoss said:
I generally don't think you can force 'physical chemistry'. I mean some leeway could be given to newbs, but most people get set in their ways pretty quickly. I also don't know how one would go about telling someone they're a bad kisser to their face without dying on the spot from awkwardness.Jewrean said:
I agree with all that has been said in the above post.HankMan said:Dude, how old are you? ALWAYS KISS HER GOODNIGHT! >(
You're gunna have to make-up for that one and quick! Right when you meet her again, say "Here's something special, getting to see you again." then kiss her right there. She'll forget all about it.
You're welcome
kiss her the next time you see her. Right when you see her, don't wait for the end. say something dumb like "just making it up to you"Jewrean said:
So as a few of you may know from a recent thread I created I'm currently dating a girl (holy shit a real one you ask? Not inflatable?). Now according to this family guy skit the perfect time to wait for the first kiss with a girl is the third date. My first date out with her was for coffee, a walk in the park, and a nice peaceful drive in the hills of a beautiful day. Our second date was to the movies and we saw 'Easy A' (her choice of course). I nonchalantly commented that the movie was "Decent" and we had Pizza at an Italian restaurant nearby after-wards (albeit a very pedestrian restaurant). So subconsciously in the back of my head I was basically thinking it was too early to kiss her after dropping her back home and walking her to her door. It didn't occur to me that she wanted to kiss. It wasn't until I was at home later that night when she sent me a message saying "You didn't kiss me goodnight waaah
So my question to all of you is when do you think is the right time to kiss (/or other relevant milestone) with someone. Do you jump in straight away or give some time for it to settle down a bit and really get to know each-other? What's your plan of attack?
OH! And I need an awesome idea for our next date. Discuss!
I will mail you 5 dollars if that doesn't go well.
If you didn't seriously enjoy Easy A you have no taste.Jewrean said:
Just saying.
As for the real topic: when it feels right.
For my part I've usually been in situations where the girl takes the lead on the kiss.
With one, it was after we'd been friends for a while, (but ewe both knew we liked eachother, we just never really acted on it) she was clearly looking for it, and sending signals to that effect.
The next one, I don't even remember how it started, but it was FAST.
The next one, we'd met previously, and when we had our first date we ended up kissing while at a viewpoint overlooking the beach.
after that was about a month of me failing to read signals untill she basically siad, "are you gonna kiss me or not"
Another one was technically "second date" and it was my lead, but we weren't really dating, so it's kind of fuzzy.
and another was first date, she initiated.
go with what you feel is apropriate.
-m
You should've pulled out a notebook, peered at it intently, and said, "But I hadn't planned for it. It's too spontaneous."
1. NEVER take advice from Family Guy of all sources
2. From what I've read, it's an in-the-moment thing. Thinking on it so hard makes you more reluctant to do it than just doing it.
3. I'll let you personal experience whenever the fuck I find a girlfriend again. The last (and first one).. really failed.
2. From what I've read, it's an in-the-moment thing. Thinking on it so hard makes you more reluctant to do it than just doing it.
3. I'll let you personal experience whenever the fuck I find a girlfriend again. The last (and first one).. really failed.
To be clear I put the family guy sketch in there because I thought it was relevant to the thread. I am not, repeat, not taking advice from family guy. I haven't kissed her yet because I just didn't think it was the right time. That's all really.Kpt._Rob said:
