Flirting
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Which just goes to show tha the OP will never know for sure when a girl is into him or not, since women frequently flirt for a variety of reasons other than actual attraction.arsenicCatnip said:
Rather despicable and dishonest behaviour if you ask me, but then again we all have our opinions.
OP: If you want to know for sure, I suggest you take more active charge instead of being a passive party trying to deduce when a woman is flirting with you or not. Make to-the-point questions and impart a sense that you have no time for games and bullshit.
Quite simply: dare her into being honest.
Some will buckle under such pressure and that's something you'll have to accept. But those who do give a straight answer will most likely give a truthful one.
The important part is that you stop being passive.
ugh, I HATE it when they do that! the last 3 girls I liked (sorry, like) all got flirty with me. "I've got to go catch the last train, want to come to the station with me?" wink wink, and then she was totally surprised when I manned up enough to ask her out. or come talk to me, ask me to dance, and then totally disappear. one did that like 3 times. sometimes you just want to shake them and yell: what the fuck?
Wow. I have a psych background and I'll tell ya... Reading some of these posts, I should set up an on-line course "She likes you, dude!". Women, are more complex in the way they approach these things. They don't just bar up and slobber. Nooooo!
Women have a HUGE variety of ways in which they will flirt. Some are verbal, most are physical. A tilt of the shoulder, a finger twisted through the hair, crossing her legs toward you, physical contact, wetting the lips.... FUCKING BLINKING!
The main thing to remember in successful flirting is... FLIRT BACK! If you show no passing interest, a woman will stop being interested in you, quickly. There's the occasional girl who finds the ultra shy or stand offish guy ultra sexy, but they're the exception. Confidence is crucial.
So, here's a physical flirt tip. If you think that a girl across the room might like you, look but don't stare. When she meets your eyes, take around one second, look a little supprised, then instantly embarrassed, glance away. Now, don't miss a beat. Look back at her smile, shrug and mouth the word "sorry". Even if she's not interested, chances are you'll make her feel good about herself. Flirting gold.
*DISCLAIMER* RESULTS MAY VARY!
Women have a HUGE variety of ways in which they will flirt. Some are verbal, most are physical. A tilt of the shoulder, a finger twisted through the hair, crossing her legs toward you, physical contact, wetting the lips.... FUCKING BLINKING!
The main thing to remember in successful flirting is... FLIRT BACK! If you show no passing interest, a woman will stop being interested in you, quickly. There's the occasional girl who finds the ultra shy or stand offish guy ultra sexy, but they're the exception. Confidence is crucial.
So, here's a physical flirt tip. If you think that a girl across the room might like you, look but don't stare. When she meets your eyes, take around one second, look a little supprised, then instantly embarrassed, glance away. Now, don't miss a beat. Look back at her smile, shrug and mouth the word "sorry". Even if she's not interested, chances are you'll make her feel good about herself. Flirting gold.
*DISCLAIMER* RESULTS MAY VARY!
It's called typical attentionwhore behaviour (or TAB for short).Floppertje said:
They want to insure that they are considered attractive, but they never really dare to try and explore feelings or commit to their flirtaseous behaviour. They only do it so they can have it confirmed that guys like them and will do anything for them.
Hence why an overpowering no-nonsense attitude is of utmost importance.
I was, especially with the first one. turns out she was just getting back together with her ex, which, as she later told me, explains the absolutely soulcrushing reply she gave me. so basically my timing sucked. but I still think she was sending the wrong signals... I'm too chicken to ask anyone out unless i'm pretty sure she's interested. incidentally, I'm probably renting a house with her soon ^^ sense, I make it!ApeShapeDeity said:
Oh, man. Be ULTRA careful there. If you love this girl, be prepared to get crushed again. She sounds like she's emotionally confused, so she's not likely to take any chances...Floppertje said:
BTW, asking 'So, do you like me?' is not such a smooth way to go.
haha, nonono, not like that. My dad offered to rent me a house, but being a poor student, I could never make rent on my own, so I'm getting friends to come live with me, her being one of them. She's still with that boyfriend I mentioned (goddamnit), so we're not getting involved anyway. But yes, I do really like her. I suspect that's just because she has a boyfriend though, which means she's not slutting around, which is what turns me off most other girls.ApeShapeDeity said:
I'm a relentless, shameless flirt who's about a hundred thousand a year in income and a good suit away from being Dan Fielding from Night Court, and I've got a charisma that tends to be of the slow-burn variety, as in I'll meet a girl at work or school and six months later she'll be practically begging me to ask her out when my oddball nature drives her crazy to the point where she simply has to know "what's with this guy?"
So I wouldn't really know much about being flirted with right away by someone I didn't already know.
So I wouldn't really know much about being flirted with right away by someone I didn't already know.