Flirting

[SamFancyPants252]

touching invokes a more intimate relationship between two people,it could be the difference between her remembering you and her remembering 'that guy at the bar'

In a study conducted by Allan and Barbara Pease, they set up an experiment in which hey would leave a 2 dollar coin in a phone booth, and after the person who saw it and took it walked away, they would go up to them and in 10 cases, ask the person if they'd seen the coin, and in another 10 they touched their arm and asked. Results showed that it was something of a 25% return of the coin boost, as the person saw the person in a more intimate manner and felt connected to them in a way.

So touching is good, but not too much.

 

[Inverse Skies]

I still think the best thing you can do is make eye contact. It also keeps your eyes looking at their faces rather than their chests which helps a lot.

Flirting is a very individual thing, and everyone is going to be influenced by different styles and ideas. Personally the best thing to do would be to ignore most of the advice you're going to receive on here and try to remember this one thing which a good friend of mine drilled into me.

She always told me that girls like guys with confidence. Really, as long as you're comfortable with what you're doing and don't seem awkward it's the best you can hope for. The other thing to always remember is to never get discouraged if things don't go right, and they most likely won't for a large proportion of the time. That's when you have to have patience and not get down on yourself, because if you let that happen to you you're gone before you've even said hello.

Confidence, eye contact, self belief if things go wrong. Not much more you need to know than that.

 

[Deyja]

this video came to mind when i was talking about confidence.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2J5xs2ukksE

Mr.Bean dancing to Mr.Bombastic by shaggy.

it is priceless.

 

[The_Blue_Rider]

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[SimuLord]

Yeah, when it comes to flirting I seem to do it without noticing. Counterproductively, I'm oblivious to flirting.

I wish I could tell the difference between "she wants me to jump her bones" and "she's just being nice." Confusing one for the other has got me in trouble over the years (but then again, it's also gotten me laid. So it's a double-edged sword. I just wish I'd guess right more often.)

Well you really won't know most times. The only time you have a chance at getting laid the first time is when you attempt to leave or move things elsewhere and they go along with it or ask you to stay.

And if she moves things for you- you are so in. lol.

I will say this about being back in the dating pool---it's finally revealed to me the thing I miss most about my ex-wife; at least I didn't have to sort through the emotional confusion of a 15-year-old in my own head. I just said "let's go to..." (restaurant, park, bedroom to fuck like wild animals) and didn't have to wonder how she'd react.

Dating sucks. But then again, when you've got a few girls interested in casual/semi-serious but non-exclusive relationships (like I did in my mid-20s before I met that now ex-wife), it is AWESOME.

 

[Amberella]

I'm a natural when it comes to flirting and often don't even know I do it. =/

I'd just stick at being yourself and perhaps get a little more confident and try to hold a conversation with the girl. Flirting can always backfire and put the girl off, depending on the girl of course. Best of luck though.

 

[Dogstile]

I don't realise i'm flirting, but apparently i'm always doing it.

Sorry buddy

 

[Azure-Supernova]

I'm a natural when it comes to flirting and often don't even know I do it. =/

You're a terrible flirt! That's all you did when we first met >.>

 

[Amberella]

I'm a natural when it comes to flirting and often don't even know I do it. =/

You're a terrible flirt! That's all you did when we first met >.>

I must be good at it because we're together now babe! =P That, and you didn't know I was flirting with you for awhile, my obtuse darling. xD

 

[FranzTyphid]

I'm a natural when it comes to flirting and often don't even know I do it. =/

You're a terrible flirt! That's all you did when we first met >.>

I must be good at it because we're together now babe! =P That, and you didn't know I was flirting with you for awhile, my obtuse darling. xD

D'awwww are you guys together or something?

 

[JohnnySex]

If you're a guy, act like an asshole. Not the asshole kind of asshole, but the funny kind of asshole. Tease them and stuff. It works very well.

 

[Mbellarusa]

I can't, man. I do it naturally. People will actually have to point it out to me. I usually just confidently speak to people. My friends tell me that I flirt with everyone. >.<

Ditto

 

[Amberella]

I'm a natural when it comes to flirting and often don't even know I do it. =/

You're a terrible flirt! That's all you did when we first met >.>

I must be good at it because we're together now babe! =P That, and you didn't know I was flirting with you for awhile, my obtuse darling. xD

D'awwww are you guys together or something?

Yesh! :3 Lol.

 

[FranzTyphid]

I'm a natural when it comes to flirting and often don't even know I do it. =/

You're a terrible flirt! That's all you did when we first met >.>

I must be good at it because we're together now babe! =P That, and you didn't know I was flirting with you for awhile, my obtuse darling. xD

D'awwww are you guys together or something?

Yesh! :3 Lol.

Thats awesome!

 

[Amberella]

I'm a natural when it comes to flirting and often don't even know I do it. =/

You're a terrible flirt! That's all you did when we first met >.>

I must be good at it because we're together now babe! =P That, and you didn't know I was flirting with you for awhile, my obtuse darling. xD

D'awwww are you guys together or something?

Yesh! :3 Lol.

Thats awesome!

Yes it is!! Been together for almost a year now! =D

 

[Niko Stepz]

I can't, man. I do it naturally. People will actually have to point it out to me. I usually just confidently speak to people. My friends tell me that I flirt with everyone. >.<

I'm the same way, it gets hard in relationships though when my girlfriend gets mad at me for something I don't notice >_<

 

[FranzTyphid]

I'm a natural when it comes to flirting and often don't even know I do it. =/

You're a terrible flirt! That's all you did when we first met >.>

I must be good at it because we're together now babe! =P That, and you didn't know I was flirting with you for awhile, my obtuse darling. xD

D'awwww are you guys together or something?

Yesh! :3 Lol.

Thats awesome!

Yes it is!! Been together for almost a year now! =D

Congrat's!

 

[Amberella]

Yes it is!! Been together for almost a year now! =D

Congrat's!

Thank you!

 

[Jonatron]

Wow your love life must be really horrible because you are talking about on a forum. Have fun being a lonely sad ass.

Wow, your love life must really be horrible because you're talking about other people talking about their lack of a love life.