For all the men out there - how do you prefer your woman's external look?

[janjotat]

A nice face. That's generally it. I'm very much a face man, and if a girl has a charming mug I don't mind too much how the rest of her looks.

I'm also of the mind that someone's personality typically shines through their face.

You dodged the question. Describe the face that you would find attractive.

Granted I am the same way, but admitedly I adore high cheekbones and green eyes. and for once I will not mention that acctress that I always do

 

[templar1138a]

Curves are a definite must. I don't want an anorectic twig, nor do I want someone too fat.

I used to be all about big breasts, but now not so much. A natural C-cup is the perfect size as they're big enough to hold in my hands but not so big as to be weirdly squishy. Besides, the bigger they are, the farther they fall.

Glasses are also very attractive in my book.

Finally, I like redheads the best. Whenever I see remarks about how creepy/soulless gingers are, I just think of

Spoiler: these two women.

So much hotness.

My current significant other meets all of those criteria except for the last. She's a brunette, but she is a prime example of the Sexy Librarian. I am definitely satisfied with her looks.

 

[mokes310]

Korean with a side of aegyo.

 

[Bamba]

Guys. Just thought I'd post a picture of some woman so I can show you the external looks that I like.

Its actress Ashley Tisdale. Yes yes I know, beautiful as hell.

 

[xshadowscreamx]

well 'a' dream would be Elizabeth from bioshock infinite, but dream are only dreams.

but almost any girl around my body size that would say 'yes'.

but its the 'insides' that counts right?

edit: my first and only GF to this point had red hair.
so theirs that

 

[Daniel Janhagen]

This:

Christina Hendricks

Yeah, she's just... a 10 all over. It's almost ridiculous how many of my likes she not only has, but has to perfection. If she has a fault, it's that she's too perfect.
I'm really not picky, though; the only ones I won't do are the skinny ones.

 

[Slayer_2]

I like a woman with some meat on her bones. Not fat or anything, like people always assume when I say "a little extra", but just not skinny. Average with a bit extra, it just seems more womanly to me. Boobs, I prefer bigger, not huge though, like C's. Ass, whatever, not a huge ass guy. For hair, I don't care much, but if a gun was put in my face, I'd say dark hair, brownish preferred. Hottest of all is a good thinker.

 

[Bamba]

Guys why dont you post a picture of a woman with external looks that you like. Just like I did.

 

[FieryTrainwreck]

Whenever I think I've identified my "type", I usually stumble upon someone who shatters the illusion.

Anyways, pale everything. Skin especially, eyes preferably, hair ideally. Also, soft and curvy. And cute voice as opposed to "beautiful".

You know what else helps? Living within 1000 miles. Little personal quip.

 

[VanQ]

I like a nice, long pair of legs and an ass I can grab onto. Small breasts/large breasts I'm not fussed, both have their good points. Long, dark hair is usually my preference but I've seen some girls with short hair that ralley pulled it off. In all honesty though that all comes second to a girl that I can be myself around and still get along with. That's the hard part.

 

[Pieturli]

Spoiler

Well, since someone asked to post pictures, there's mine.

 

[Hana_aoki]

However, I wouldnt mind if a woman would come in and tell us about how she prefer's her man's external look.

Woo, I'm in :-D

Anyway, I like a man at least a bit taller than I am (about 6"/183cm), so 6'2"/188cm or up. Body type doesn't really matter to me. Skin color isn't too important, but I prefer pale. Dark hair is best. I'm indifferent toward facial hair, but I prefer my men to look like men. I adore glasses. Bonus points for hazel, green, or blue eyes.

So... Tall, with dark hair, pretty eyes and glasses.

 

[nomzy]

Spoiler

I don't know why, but I love me some fake red heads.
In terms of body etc prefer skinny to average build but I'm not that fussy as long you aren't a landwhale.
I can't really think of anything else.

 

[Bamba]

Guys why dont you post a picture of a woman with external looks that you like. Just like I did.

Well, because no offense, but I don't find that to be very classy.

For one thing, if you start posting photos of celebrities or porn stars, you're claiming women whose careers are invested in maintaining an appearance are an ideal.[footnote]And I would not post photos of former girlfriends because that would be creepy as fuck. And I don't play that game, because I know how photoshopped a lot of those women are and I'm not looking for someone who needs to have their legs insured just to protect their livelihood. But mostly because I'm interested in women that exist in the real world, not fantasies. If everyone starts posting celeb photos in this thread then the topic will only be a hair's bredth away from "Who is your waifu?", and I don't want to have that conversation because I find it rather creepy.

For another thing, because as I said before, I don't know exactly what my type is, so I don't know of anyone who embodies it. I think that rather than being attracted to a single set of physical features, I'm more attracted to what women do with what they've been given. So no one embodies my type.

Well, you dont have to post a picture if you dont want to. Lets just keep it that way instead of deterring other people from posting pictures as well. I dont see a problem with it, and I dont want a single person(which is you) to make the idea seem like a bad thing to do. Obviously any picture has the possibility of being photoshopped or whatever it may be, but does that really matter? And what are the chances its true? Furthermore, I never said people should post pictures of celebrities. It can be any woman in general with external looks that matches your preferences for a woman's look.

So basically, no problem if you dont want to post a picture, but lets not deter others from doing so as well, because I personally find it a good idea. Not that I force anyone to do it, just thought it'd be good if I brought it to the attention of people here. And thats all I did actually.

 

[Mojosaur]

Exactly the way my girl looks, cute face, brunette, just a bit smaller than me, beautiful body and a stunning smile.

 

[Bamba]

You asked why I don't, I said why I don't.

Obviously any picture has the possibility of being photoshopped or whatever it may be, but does that really matter?

It matters a great deal.

We live in an age where the standards of beauty that get pushed on us by the entertainment industry are literally impossible. Photos are constantly retouched. The only way to reasonably expect that a photo hasn't been retouched is to look at candid snap photos, which is creepy in an entirely different way.

Check out Photoshop Disasters [http://www.psdisasters.com/] sometime. It's amazing just how much bad photo-editing gets done for professional products. But what's even more amazing is how trained we are to not notice it. If you don't look around you with a very critical eye these kinds of things can easily fly under your radar.

We could talk about how bad this is for the self-image of ordinary women, or how bad this is for heterosexual men because it creates standards they can't possibly ever achieve, but I think the best reason is far more direct. We just spent several pages with a great deal of men talking about how they prefer natural looks with minimal makeup. To turn around then and post photos of almost-certainly photoshopped celebrities as feminine beauty ideals would be the rankest of hypocrisies.

The point is that there are people who dont care whether the picture is photoshopped or not. Its not like it really matters to us especially in this thread, for the sole intention of discussion external looks. Posting pictures here is merely for demonstration purposes, and therefore whether a picture may be photoshopped or not has zero relevance to the point of this thread, which you seem to be missing for some reason. Basically like I said.....if you dont like the idea of posting pictures of women, you dont have to do it. Nobody has to do it, like I said before.....Im not trying to force anyone to do anything here if thats what you think.

 

[Bamba]

The point is that there are people who dont care whether the picture is photoshopped or not. Its not like it really matters to us especially in this thread, for the sole intention of discussion external looks.

Look at those two sentences. In the first you acknowledge that it doesn't matter to some people in the thread. This is absolutely correct. It clearly doesn't matter to some people in this thread. But it also clearly matters to others.

Posting pictures here is merely for demonstration purposes, and therefore whether a picture may be photoshopped or not has zero relevance to the point of this thread, which you seem to be missing for some reason.

Now you're trying to pretend that the "some" you are a part of is the "whole" of the thread. This is very poor form. As is insulting me by implying I don't understand something simply because I disagree with it.

Basically like I said.....if you dont like the idea of posting pictures of women, you dont have to do it. Nobody has to do it, like I said before.....Im not trying to force anyone to do anything here if thats what you think.

I never said you were. I simply expressed why I take a dim view of men who hold up snaps of celebrities as illustrations of the ideal women's look.

I dont understand what makes you think I tried to insult you by saying that. I didnt try to insult you. All Im trying to do here is make you realize that no one has to post a picture of a woman if they dont want to. You're the one arguing with me about this here and causing drama.