henritje said:
I wonder why people are against circumcision?
people have done worse things to their pride and other parts of their body and they are fine with that but not this?
I think it's because it's done to kids who don't get to pick (rather than at 13 as used to be the tradition. The Jewish tradition I mean, where I come from circumcision is a Jewish thing and isn't done by anyone else that I know of).
From what I've heard, a while back in North America some people thought that if boys were circumcised it would make masturbation painful to them due to lack of foreskin, and therefore started talking about how it was healthier, and it became common in the US and Canada.
Both are perfectly fine options though, most people here aren't circumcised (and I mean, like, 90% of guys at the very least aren't) and they don't have any of the health or hygiene problems that are apparently why it's done in North America.
On the other hand when it's done right it's definitely not the same as cutting off a woman's clitoris, it would be more like cutting off her hood, so I'm like, if people want to do it I don't really care.
If done wrong though, it can get really, really messy. Ugh. Good thing these are the exceptions.
However as a straight woman, I do really prefer uncircumcised partners. It feels like unwrapping a present, and the skin is softer and more sensitive there, which makes oral sex nicer to give.
I've also known circumcised guys who were so desensitized that, well, sex was pretty much impossible, but that's far from the norm (and for each one of them there probably is an uncircumcised guy who is too sensitive to do anything as well).
I would say, in doubt, don't operate when it doesn't make much of a difference, so if I had the decision over someone getting circumcised or not, I would say no. But a) I don't think it's harmful enough to go around telling people not to do it and b) there is really no reason to get antisemitic about the issue. I mean, seriously.
I also know a guy (well, my second husband knows him) who is really pissed at his parents for circumcising him, he says it's his body and it should have been his choice, and he's not talking to them anymore as a result. Honestly, I think it's something that can always been done later if the person wants but can't be undone, so I'd err on the side of not doing it, all other things equal, but I don't think it should be prohibited either.