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PrototypeExKrow

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Ok i have a friend she is very pretty and amazing and a great friend but im stuck in the friend zone, how do you get out of the friend zone T-T
 

Insanum

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IN BEFORE BONZAIK TEARS OP A NEW ONE!

Seriously dude, She's not interested. Do yourself a favour & move on.

Edit: http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161 Try this thread for any relationship advice, but under no circumstances use the term "friend zone"...It aggrivates the OP.
 

rockingnic

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Easy. Just end the relationship... But if you want to get "closer", actually try to be flirtatious and let her know. It's all you can really do.
 

Xpwn3ntial

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Yeah, there's no getting out of the friend zone unless you take the proverbial leap of faith from the friend zone ladder to the dating ladder. I'll post a link later, maybe.
 

Souplex

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How direct have you been with your intentions? The shortest distance between any two points is a straight line. Otherwise, you end up doing Ross & Rachel bullshit.
 

atalanta

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Ask her out. If she says yes, fantastic! Way to be.

If she says no, don't push the issue and just let it go. Don't do that passive-aggressive thing where you make it really obvious you're interested but actually make a move; it probably won't get you what you want (i.e., a date), if she's not interested it'll make her uncomfortable (possibly to the point of losing the friendship), and you'll miss the opportunity to date other equally lovely girls.
 

quiet_samurai

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Is this a self diagnosis or has she told you this? You never really know, so make sure you are absolutely sure. As for getting out..... eh, that really depends how far into the friend zone you are.
 

wizzerd229

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Dr Poochenstein said:
Just put her in the rape zone.
WHAT?!
Ot: no what, poochenstien WHAT?!
OT: Ok, WTH POOCHENSTIEN
OT, no really: idk, just move on
 

Berethond

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PrototypeExKrow said:
Ok i have a friend she is very pretty and amazing and a great friend but im stuck in the friend zone, how do you get out of the friend zone T-T
Ask her out.
You'll be out of it one way or the other.
 

MattZero

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In my experience it doesn't happen. See other people and if you're lucky things might change between the two of you, but don't waste too much of your life wishing for something you can't have. I ignored the woman who ended up being my wife for a stupid crush for three years when we were in high school.
 

Trivun

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Dr Poochenstein said:
Just put her in the rape zone.
Yeah, you really are a sensitive and mature guy, judging by this and your other post where you quoted me...

Anyway, OP, I have the same problem. I'm usually stuck in the friend zone too, and so far I haven't ever gotten out of it. My advice is to just try and make it clear that you like this girl, and see how things go. If she likes you as more than a friend then things will work out fine, if not then simply accept that you'll never be more than friends, keep her as a friend, and move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea, as I found out last week...
 

TheNumber1Zero

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Dr Poochenstein said:
Just put her in the rape zone.
You're not gonna be here long

Anyways, from what I've heard, the only way to get her out of the friend zone is to find someone new, and then become insane and believe "New girl" is the Friend zone girl"

Otherwise
*Bender voice* You're Boned
 

stone0042

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Dr Poochenstein said:
Just put her in the rape zone.
That's messed up, and I honestly found no humor in it

OT: Let her know, I'd be willing to bet she has no idea you're interested and thinks you just want a friendship. Go all out, what do you have to lose?
 

VeX1le

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Souplex said:
How direct have you been with your intentions? The shortest distance between any two points is a straight line. Otherwise, you end up doing Ross & Rachel bullshit.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wywqD5JvGXE

No one is like Ross & Rachael in book keeping.

OT Either take a nose dive, or just stay friends.
 

Tinneh

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Cheveyo said:
rockingnic said:
Easy. Just end the relationship... But if you want to get "closer", actually try to be flirtatious and let her know. It's all you can really do.

Probably wont work.
She'll most likely get all weird and stop talking to the dude.

Move on. She's just not that into you.
Oh, how was that movie? I never saw it.