Friend zone sucks

[oldmanwynter]

ah, the friend zone...

*looks back on how often that has happened...*

Yeah, I got nothin'. Good luck, kid!

 

[Flying-Emu]

1) Watch porn

2) Learn from your mistake(s)

3) Don't tell the internet.

 

[yosophat]

I would suggest becoming less of a friend; why don't you go off and hang out with other people mainly guys. I can tell you that if you don't want to go back to the "friends zone" don't spend to much time with a female specially if you think you would want to have an intimate relationship her.

 

[Deef]

You can't, I hate to say it but you can't.
The only way I could ever imagine would be to not hang out with her for a year, and then make moves on her after you've changed a little bit.

 

[Greeboz]

Dude, I'm in the same place but I've tried hard to get out like taking her to prom, going to the movies with her(Everytime I say "With me", but she shrugs it off and brings a friend), going out on dates, picnics, just hanging out, etc... I'm sure she doesn't want to date me and I'd move on but my town is so ugly. She's the only mildly attractive one around who has the same interests as me.

 

[Samurai Goomba]

Move on.

Find somebody else, because the Friend Zone just plain sucks and it's hard as crap to get out of. Tell her how you feel and if she says no, leave. Don't get played.

 

[ottenni]

Well I've been told mixed things about this, but i would say move on. It would just make things weird and awkward.

 

[inpachi]

I have never gotten why people hate "The Friend Zone" thing.. Because it has only helped me.. I find getting to know the person as a friend first then stepping up telling my fealings later only leads down a couple paths that almost always lead to sex or a better relationship.. Either shes not interested and you can still stay friends which is fine by me.. She is interested also and wants to improve the relationship as well. Or she thinks your a perv and beats you in the head with a phone.. Friend zone isnt a bad thing if you know how to work it..

 

[MR T3D]

distance for a few months while you take a level in badass and then as a more alpha male you ask why they hell aren't you two dating, she say she never knew you were like this, and BAM!
problem solved.

Just put her in the rape zone.

insanity wolf, nice!
people here learn to see a joke if it came up and...

I gotta admit, I lol'd hard at that. I love fucked up humor.

well, you saw it.
props.

 

[Low Key]

I knew a girl like that once. I basically watched her date tons of other guys while I sat back being nice. I got fed up one day, told her my intentions and if she didn't like it to never talk to me again. We haven't spoken in almost 8 years and I feel fantastic about it. She even tried calling me a couple of times afterwards, but the damage was done and I wasn't about to be suckered again.

You see, there is a fine line between being a friend and being used. You might actually consider the girl you know a friend (that's cool, do your thing), but I was being used and it pissed me off to no end.

Moral of the story: If it doesn't work out, there are 3.5 billion other women on this planet. Go mingle.

 

[Souplex]

Show her this:

 

[JEBWrench]

The friend zone is a myth that you'll realize when you're out of school. It's much much easier to establish a meaningful relationship with someone if you actually KNOW THE PERSON FIRST.

 

[IckleMissMayhem]

Ok i have a friend she is very pretty and amazing and a great friend but im stuck in the friend zone, how do you get out of the friend zone T-T

There is no getting out of the friend zone my man. Not if you want to keep any contact with this girl whatsoever. However, if you've never told her how you feel, you're not technically stuck in the zone as yet. Talk to her not to us. Unless, you know, the object of your affections is one of us...

 

[Galletea]

You ask her to go to coffee or something and judge her reactions, then if it goes well, make it clear that you like her. Speak now or forever hold your peace...or something like that.

 

[AfroTree]

Ok i have a friend she is very pretty and amazing and a great friend but im stuck in the friend zone, how do you get out of the friend zone T-T

i see your problem

great friend

stop fucking things that work boyo'

 

[JEBWrench]

Quit being a whiny, spineless twat who cries to the internet about your personal problems for one thing. For another, get over it she simply doesn't like you and you can't change that. But hey, who cares about friends she's a girl so she has to date you, right? It's her duty as a female to go out with you?

In addition to my original comment about the Friend Zone not existing, I endorse this post.

 

[Beldaros]

This friend Zone thing, is entirely a concept imagined by friends.

You can never be too close to attempt a relationship. I have dated many of my friends. We're all still friends. In fact my little friend group have all been with each other at some point, or almost.

If she's a good friend just promise yourself that if it does go wrong you'll still be her friend. One of my best friends from school is now my partner of five years. It DOES happen sometimes.

If however she has said she doesn't want to be with you for this reason, let it go. I can't remember exactly what the OP said now.

So yeah talk to her about the possibility, you may find it doesn't feel right, then you can both move on. Just don't have a one night stand, that will end your friendship, even if it is a drunken accident. If that happens just never drink again. Sorted.

 

[Beldaros]

DragonflyBlade21: A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.

That is depressing. Most of my friends are females, I just get on with them better. There are other reasons to have female friends then just crowbarring your way into their trousers. Men are generally immature insensitive dicks, so females make for better company. I do have experience of the job applicant example though, so that I will support.