Gamers! Why is this so hard?

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NinjaDeathSlap

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Ok, disclaimer for starters. I am ill, tired and irritable, so I am sorry if this ends up just being a rant lacking in coherency, or if I start a flame war. Trust me, my intentions are exactly the opposite.

Right, why is it so hard for the gaming community to just ignore stuff that they don't like? I, I just... why? Everyone is entitled to their opinions granted, but just because you have an opinion does not mean that you suddenly have to bleat it to anyone who will listen, no matter how tired and overused your arguments get. Do we as a community enjoy trying to ruin everybody else's fun or something. I understand that when something you don't like is popular it can be easy to feel ostracized, which is irritating, but the way I see people responding to situations like these is just so stuck up, and so goddamn childish, that the haters come out looking worse than the fanboys, no matter how retarded the fanboys were being!

The Upcoming Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 3 is the perfect example of this. (Yes, I happen to like playing Call of Duty. No, I am not an obsessive who hates on everything that isn't CoD, and I am certainly not here to tell you why CoD is perfect and why you should all love it too. To be brutally honest, I couldn't give a flying fuck whether you think CoD is the second coming of Christ of the spawn of Satan.) I am not being hyperbolic when I say that every time a trailer for this game has appeared, pretty much every first comment that isn't on a forum specifically for CoD fans has been along these lines... *assume most condescending tone imaginable "Hey, look! They've done another map pack for MW2. Wait? You mean to tell me this is a new game??? How can this be? It looks like just more of the same..."

Urgh! Yes, ok we get it! CoD is not a franchise praised for it's innovation, and you think that buying the new game would be a waste of money with apparently so little changed, but have you considered that maybe what other people do with their money is none of your business, and that you just made yourself look like an utter tool for no reason other than making you feel like you're the big man for going against the main stream, or whatever it is you get your jollies from?

Before anyone tries to claim that they wouldn't be saying this stuff if their weren't idiots running around wetting themselves over how CoD is "TEH B3ST GARME EVARRRR!!1! IF U NO LIK COD U R TEH GAY"... I too have encountered the occasional drooling fanboy in my time, so I can sympathise that they are far from pleasant creatures. However, I tend to just find them funny more than anything, which makes their bleating so much easier to just shrug off, so why can't you? There aren't that many of them you know. Do you really have so little confidence in your own convictions that you can't just rise above it? The moment you puff out your chest and let rip with the smugness you are dragging yourself down to their level, and from what I've been seeing recently their are actually far more obnoxious haters than there are obnoxious fans.

Nobody worth bothering with ever said you weren't allowed to have your own tastes when it comes to gaming, so getting so defensive that you feel the need to bash on a game, and its fans, over and over and over again until your points lose all impact is as unnecessary as it is unflattering.

I know the whole 'Welcome to the internet' drill too, and that excuse is getting old as well. We are all people, we are all intelligent lifeforms, even the worst of us. I get that you're always going to get people being douches on the internet but I don't see why we just bat it away like it's just how things work. We are capable of being so much better than that!

So, tl;dr: if there is something we don't like about gaming, but ultimately doesn't affect us, why is it so hard for us to just let it go? Why must we degrade everyone by using our opinions as an excuse to be unpleasant, and why do we not know when to just shut the fuck up about it already?

At the risk of sounding like my mother I'm at the end of my tether. When I look at all the people who make up a community I belong to act like this, it makes me ashamed to call myself a gamer.
 

NotSoLoneWanderer

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Complaining on the internet about things you can't change is fun for some people I suppose. Internets gonna internet I guess.
 

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i agree, if someone mentions something or talks about somethings and you don't like whats he talking about, or how he diss something you don't like, just ingore him... maybe dumb things like pc vs console, hard vs easy, hardcore vs casual would all die out, but nooooo we must argue argue argue its getting sicking...

So ya, ingore what someone posts if you do not like it, whether it be cod, halo, mlp:fim, hafl life, portal, etc, just ingore it....

play the games you love.
 

skywolfblue

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It's not just gaming. It's humanity in general.

People find it easier to be vitriolic then to find a way to respectfully disagree.
 

BiggyShackleton

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I agree completely and it's only set to get worse, especially now that devs are starting to do the same thing (Look at the whole BF vs CoD bullshit going on at the minute).
 

mjc0961

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Why is it so hard for people to ignore comments they don't like instead of posting giant rants about them? At least when the people you described hate on something in the manner you described, they usually have the decency to make it just one or two sentences. But no, some people have to complain about others complaining, but be worse than those they are complaining about, making them giant complainers and hypocrites. When I look at all the people who make up a community I belong to act like that, it makes me ashamed to call myself a gamer.
 

Vault101

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thats the thing...it ISNT hard, and I think in real life its all rainbows and blue skys

but are you forgetting your on the internet? all of this gets swept aside in favour of extreme love, hate and trolling

Ill play my part, why do some PC gamers get al pissy if you mention the idea of owning a conole...yeah PC is better in alot of ways but I have my reasons dammit

"so Im thinking of getting a console"
"...a console? dont bother with that..all you need are some computer parts, a flux capacitor and a degree in computer science and you can have your very own rig!"
 

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JakeTheSnakeMan said:
NotSoLoneWanderer said:
Complaining on the internet about things you can't change is fun for some people I suppose. Internets gonna internet I guess.
That pretty much sums up how I feel about the OP.

To the OP, why do you care if people have a problem with a game and love to talk shit about it.


For that matter, why do I care that you care...

short answer for EVERYONE.

[HEADING=1]BECAUSE WE DON'T HAVE OTHER SHIT TO DO!!!![/HEADING]
 

NinjaDeathSlap

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skywolfblue said:
It's not just gaming. It's humanity in general.

People find it easier to be vitriolic then to find a way to respectfully disagree.
Is it? I mean, sure. Everyone likes a good argument, and I would be lying if I said I had never once been obnoxious about any of my opinions. But in gaming fandom, it seems that we take this facet of humanity, and turn it up to 11. You don't see this level of immature bitching and counter bitching over movies do you (with the possible exception of Twilight), or with TV? That;s not even going outside media culture and already the gamers are looking like brats compared to everyone else.
 

Thaluikhain

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Pft, long rants on the net about games you don't like are cool. Now, if these people were protesting about social or economic issues IRL, they'd be told to get a life, grow a skin, go to Africa cause there are worse things there.

But games are Serious Business.
 

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mjc0961 said:
Why is it so hard for people to ignore comments they don't like instead of posting giant rants about them? At least when the people you described hate on something in the manner you described, they usually have the decency to make it just one or two sentences. But no, some people have to complain about others complaining, but be worse than those they are complaining about, making them giant complainers and hypocrites. When I look at all the people who make up a community I belong to act like that, it makes me ashamed to call myself a gamer.
Thankyou for doing sayimng it for me.
 

Techno Squidgy

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You make some wonderful points. However, people are dicks. That's about the extent of it.
I made a thread only a few days ago about MW3 and it's stance on dedicated servers, why it pissed me off, why I was cancelling my pre-order and was hoping for some discussion about similar experiences or why people thought it wasn't such a bad idea. Instead I was mostly derided for being 'spoilt'. I was even accused of being a cheater because I believed ranked dedicated servers controlled by players was a good thing.
NinjaDeathSlap said:
When I look at all the people who make up a community I belong to act like this, it makes me ashamed to call myself a gamer.
I know exactly how you feel.
 

NinjaDeathSlap

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mjc0961 said:
Why is it so hard for people to ignore comments they don't like instead of posting giant rants about them? At least when the people you described hate on something in the manner you described, they usually have the decency to make it just one or two sentences. But no, some people have to complain about others complaining, but be worse than those they are complaining about, making them giant complainers and hypocrites. When I look at all the people who make up a community I belong to act like that, it makes me ashamed to call myself a gamer.
Because there is a point to me doing this. I'm not just ranting for the sake of it or deliberately trying to provoke anyone. I actually want to achieve something. It probably won't make any difference in the broader scheme of things, but if just 1 or 2 people who come to this thread think "Yeah, I really could be doing much better for myself than I am right now", it would make me a lot happier about all this.

If anything, the fact I have been driven to complaining about people complaining (something which I knew full well was open to accusations of hypocrisy) then that just shows how frustrated I have become by the whole thing. I could ignore it at first, but now I'm fed up.
 

Palademon

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What's that, you're complaining about something you don't like instead of ignoring it?

As a serious response: Some people are just that way and want to vent their feelings on the internet and maybe find people with similar opinions, because nothing makes you feel better than a circle jerk that stops you from feeling alone.
 

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skywolfblue said:
It's not just gaming. It's humanity in general.
Yeah, seriously. It seems weird to single out gamers.

It's kinda like asking what's up with gamers and all that oxygen they breathe.
 

NinjaDeathSlap

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thaluikhain said:
Pft, long rants on the net about games you don't like are cool. Now, if these people were protesting about social or economic issues IRL, they'd be told to get a life, grow a skin, go to Africa cause there are worse things there.

But games are Serious Business.
Thank you. I thought I needed a long rant to get across just how I felt, but your few lines pretty much just sums it all up right there.
 

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