As somebody who has, in the past, written articles in the same vein as yours, let me say that I truly commend your efforts with this series. You seem to bring a wealth of experience to every one of your reviews, each one being informative but eminently readable. It's always good to see somebody else clearing up the inconsistencies and discrepancies between computer games and reality.
Hopefully, our purposes won't clash too much. Perhaps we should form some sort of informal treaty where I stay away from your areas of expertise in exchange from you not writing articles on cars or computer things. ;-)
ARMA 2 is a game that has been mentioned in the comments of these reviews, with justification. ARMA 2 itself is a very accurate game, but it really takes mods to bring it up to its full potential. My favourite mod is called ACE 2 (for Advanced Combat Environment), and it adds many of the things which you write about in these reviews. Grenades are portrayed far more accurately than in most series, launchers have been given backblast (and the SMAW that you're familiar with has been given its spotting rifle) and combat optics are usually portrayed with their accurate, useful reticles. Elevation and windage calculations have been added as well.
The only thing it's missing, and I find this to be a slight weakness in the engine, is the missing presence of +1 reloading; as in, no round remains in the chamber after doing a tactical reload. It's a pity, because the rest of the game goes about its business with a lot of simulation-style accuracy and authenticity.
Anyway, keep it up; these are always great to read and really show experience with the weapons in question.