Darken12 said:
There's a difference between me offering you a cookie from a tray and actively trying to convince you to try one. I'm doing the former, not the latter.
Except the cookie in both scenarios cost something. The difference here seems more akin to the guy at the counter selling you one and the guy outside in the gorilla suit. Sure the one in the suit can't sell you it, but still, you wouldn't be wrong in assuming they'd know something.
Darken12 said:
The problem with this argument is that it implies that some types of education are invalid. The point of a documentary is to educate, simple as that. All documentaries have this point. Asking for more than that leads to the unequal and marginalising ideology that some documentaries or educational works need extra justification to exist. You may like one documentary subject more than another, but they all have the same right to exist, and fulfil the same point: education.
No, it is more based on the idea that some education is worth more then other, and when based in an idea of money, the notion is one of "does this education justify the money and time required to make the documentary?" They do have the same right to exist, but, again, on a topic that is related to a project requesting money, people will question if it is worth it.
Darken12 said:
Actually no, I do not have to put up with people's bigotry or prejudice. And neither do the people behind the project, either. What you are doing is victim-blaming. You are absolving people of blame for their own prejudice and instead shifting it to the project for daring to exist and to me for daring to make a thread about it. It's not my fault that people are unable to comprehend the basic point of a documentary and let their prejudice loose when the subject comes up.
Hold it! Right there. At no point did I say anyone here is a victim, nor treat them as such, so put the card down and get off the soap box. I haven't made any claim about people's personal bias or preconceived ideas beyond how they might result in asking questions in relation to any kick starter. So the entire paragraph here is worthless, except as a rather blatant attempt to throw yourself and your cause on the ground and cry foul. Seriously, that is pathetic.
Reread what I was saying if you must, but try to do so without your own perchance to cry bigotry. I can fully see someone saying "this is pointless" based on a number of issues, anywhere from concentrating on a minority opinion in a field where even majority opinion can and often is ignored (see DRM practices), to the idea that it will be bland, uninteresting endeavor since gay gamers are still just gamers in the end and thus they would not see their responses to most things any different then their own. Any project advertising itself will have people question it, because that is human nature. Get over the topic of it for a moment when looking at my post and instead look at it in a general view, as I have been trying to keep it. A project is asking for money advertised in a thread. This will get:
1. Discussion
2. Questions
3. People asking what the hell the point of it all is
This is pretty universal, regardless of topic, so blaming people doing so on bigotry or whatever else like that comes off as dismissive, hand waving and outright dishonest.
Darken12 said:
People who demand a point for a documentary such as this one but wouldn't demand a point for a documentary on a specific subtype of beer, Mongolian architecture or the history of shoelaces, are being prejudiced. If you demand every single documentary to justify itself, fine, you're not prejudiced, you just flat-out don't understand the purpose of documentaries. But I am fairly certain that every single person who has demanded to know the point of this project is fully aware of the purpose of documentaries. Those who ask that, or who say that this is unnecessary, are not innocently confused people who are unaware of why documentaries exist. They are people who have issues with the LGBTQ+ community or their harmless projects. And that, as I said before, is prejudice.
No,
other people might question the existence or purpose of that type of documentary, as they would not deem it worth the time and effort to look into it and just dismiss it with a "why the hell would anyone care" attitude. I know, because my dad does it all the time when I try to watch the history channel's "how it works" series. Or was that discovery channel..? anyways, the point here is that you will always get some people who don't see the point and saying such, or even outright asking for the thing to justify itself. This is not limited to topics on gender, sexual orientation, race or whatever else.
Thus dismissing people on that as being bigoted is openly assuming that your cause has to be treated differently or have a deferred respect then they might give documentaries on beer subtypes or whatever else. I'm sorry, but no, you don't get to expect that. Nor do you get to play victim when people treat you the same as people would treat any other documentary or kickstarter. It comes off as you wanting to be treated differently the the rest. Some people don't see the point of something you understand or enjoy, sucks, but hey, that is life. That is not discrimination, oppression or even a valid insight into their motivation for not understanding, and your attempts to present it as otherwise are underhanded if not only misguided.
Darken12 said:
I have already answered this in my previous paragraph. I do not have an obligation to validate people's prejudice. Don't want to back the project? Don't back it.
There is a grey area where people haven't made up their mind. Hence questions. But I will say that playing victim because people dare ask what the point of the kickstarter's documentary is in the larger scheme of things does nothing but shore up prejudices that it is nothing but mental masturbation session by a closed off group of people who merely want to whine about the situation rather then what it could potentially be, a unique outlook by an often overlooked group into an entertainment medium that many enjoy. Your hostile responses and prejudice that anyone against it are bigots do far, far more harm to the kickstarter then anything else.