Girl Problems: Which to choose?

[ribonuge]

Wait you have two girls after you and there is a problem!? Whaaaaaaa?

Remember you have a choice here. Be thankful for that.

And just to add, if you take Girl B and Girl A hears that you knew that she liked you, it could be pretty bad for her. I would go with the sure fire thing and choose Girl A. That is if you like her.

 

[kazakun853]

Flip a Coin always works on the really hard decisions in life or rock paper scissors

 

[TheScarecrow]

Battle to the death?

That's the way to do it.

...Preferably while wearing some very flattering costumes, like chainmail.

 

[Wigglyman]

1 word... threesome.

 

[Quaxar]

Battle to the death?

Nothing wrong with a litte Crawplach.
Or go with the one you know likes you.

Also: Welcome to the Escapist! Keep your arms and legs inside the ride at all times.

 

[ethaninja]

What Jedoro said. If you have equal feelings for them both, go with A.

 

[MrSmellyFinger]

My guess would be who ever has bigger boobs or better ass, based on your personal preference.
I'm more of an assman.

Amen.

1 word... threesome.

Absolutely.

So, you want to get with at least one of these girls, but you aren't sure which, and are "afraid" of hurting one of them. Not to trivialize your situation, if you are considering which one to "pick", then both of the above comments absolutely apply (seriously), as your heart has not already made the decision.

Therefore, it's pretty straight forward: go for the one you think you have a better chance with. IF that doesn't work out, play the "I-am-so-broken-up-inside" rebound game, and you can retry your chances with the other girl.

Look, reading between the lines, it sounds like you are relatively young, so you aren't selecting a marriage partner or a mother of your child (hope not!!), so don't take it too seriously - have some casual relationships, get some experience under your belt (pun intended), and then go from there into something more serious.

 

[Varun Garuda Maharaj]

Analyze their Modus Operandi (behavior)

 

[Anonin]

Right, so here is the scenario.
There are a lot of cute girls in my school. Recently I found out that this girl who goes 1 year lower than me, likes me. I was told so by her friend, and I guess that she is telling the truth.
BUT
Realising that this girl liked me, I realised that there was another girl that liked me, because they always act really similarly around me. They are shy, smile a lot, always say hi to me, and laugh at everything I say. Well, the laughing part is girl B...
So, Girl A is in my lower class and I know that she likes me. Girl B, I believe that she likes me. So, I don't know which one I like, and if they both like me, won't I hurt the other one by going out with the other?
:S some help would be appreciated

Well, you're working on half assumption, and half word-of-mouth. This is gonna take more than one post, so allow me to help you with this step by step So, do you have any preference between the two girls? Do you find one more attractive or anything?

Thnx, for point of fact, I'm 16...woot teenage drama (2nd one in 2 years! )
They are both cute, both funny, but i don't know them quite well enough to know them deeply. Especially girl A, who is in a younger class. I could always ask girl B, but if she rejects me then it might ruin my friendship with her. Besides, i can't really make up my mind..... but.....

 

[Sieni]

Pick the one that looks better, always worked for me.

 

[TheScarecrow]

Battle to the death?

Nothing wrong with a litte Crawplach.
Or go with the one you know likes you.

Also: Welcome to the Escapist! Keep your arms and legs inside the ride at all times.

Yes, welcome.

 

[bassdrum]

Welcome to the Escapist! While it would take more knowledge of the situation to know for sure, I'd recommend that you go with the sure bet... just because you're positive that a girl likes you doesn't mean she actually does (I say this from experience, I wasted far too much time on a girl who was just being friendly).

So I'd agree with many of the other posts here: go with Girl A unless Girl B has something you really like that Girl A doesn't, i.e. significantly better body (if you want to be shallow about it) or better personality.

 

[Woodsey]

Get their bra sizes.

Biggest wins.

 

[Loves2spooge]

The one with the biggest rack. Srsly.

I hear that.

Actually, the best answer would be to stop being a gigantic pussy, don't worry about rejecting the other (rejection is something we all have to go through, consider it experience for her), and don't consider your decision the be all and end all of decisions. Your life isn't One Tree Hill, so just flip a coin or go with your heart or some shit.

 

[lyrandar]

Invite them round for a battle royale on your favourite FPS, then choose the one that turns up.

 

[TimbukTurnip]

Thing is, they are both really nice it's mostly just that I don't know them well enough to know which one I like. It's kinda hard to go purely on looks nowadays when almost all girls have something going for them.
As Girl B liking me, I was unsure but it seems to fit. If she sees me, she says hi and smiles, but if someone else in our class, whom she might know better, passes by, she doesn't... And she laughs ALOT at what i say.... i am very sure i am not that funny....

I would suggest then that you get to know them better. Don't jump into things, just talk to them more and see what happens. Thats about all i can recommend.
They might end up telling you they like you themselves, and by then you would probably know them enough to decide what to do.

 

[Anonin]

Is this a viable method:
ask each girl to go downtown with me (casual date) separately,
and then find out which one i really like?
Or does that raise their expectations and make me an asshole?

 

[firedfns13]

... dude... BOTH.

You just have to play your cards right and be James Bond. Curiously enough, I'm James Bond when I'm single and don't care about the girls, but when I do, it all goes to hell and down a toilet.

 

[Bat Vader]

I hate to ask but does actually use the advice we give them? I have seen a lot of help me threads and yet I haven't seen any of them come back and say it worked.

On Topic: If you can't decide which one you like yet best thing to do is figure out which one you like first and then decide to tell that one you like them.

Also, I wouldn't trust that friend, I mean she could be just saying that girl likes you as a cruel joke. Best piece of advice I can give is Never Trust Anybody.

 

[ma55ter_fett]

Go with the girl who is the same age (relatively) as you, you pedophile!

Unless she is seriously jail bait hot in which case (if you are both under whatever legal consent age applies in your country) hit that brotha.