Girlfriend advice; I cheated

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My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year now. Recently she has suspected me of cheating on her ,but I haven't recently. By this I mean in the beginning of our relationship I had moment of weakness and cheated on her. I still feel guilty to this day now she is saying if I cheated on her to tell her. She has been hurt by past boyfriends and I don't want to hurt her and I don't know what the right thing to do is.
Can anyone help me out or give me advice? Should I tell her and hurt her or should I be quiet and let it fade out?

 

[Some bullets]

You mean you didnt tell her when you did cheat? Tsk tsk. I always say honest is the best policy.

Yea I know I am idoit but I just don't want to hurt her so is it right not to tell her?

 

[Souplex]

Get a time machine and punch yourself in the crotch whenever you think aboot cheatin?

 

[Castratikron]

Well to start out with you probably shouldn't post about online........

 

[scnj]

Phone up 09011 123456 and ask for a lovely man called Jeremy Kyle. He'll help you sort it with the help of Graham Stanier and his backstage care team.

 

[Canadamus Prime]

Well I'll refrain from berating you for your weakness, but I'm sure she'd appreciate your honesty if you came out and told her about it. After all, it's not like it was recent.

 

[super_smash_jesus]

My advice to you is to let sleeping dogs lie. If it meant nothing back then, it means even les now, and telling her about it will only piss her off, even though there are no longer any intentions of "cheating" in the future. I say "cheating" because starts of relationships are meant for you to still be looking around. If you find someone else that you like better, then it is ended early, but if you come away with no feelings with said woman, then your relationship should do just fine.

 

[TriggerUnhappy]

This is a complicated situation. Sometimes things are best left forgotten in the past, and if you cheated on her a while ago, then perhaps you should just stick to saying you've never cheated on her. However, if that issue could ever come up again (she could find out you cheated), then it's just best to be honest with her. All in all though, just do whatever you feel is the best/right thing to do. Best of luck to ya.

 

[bodyklok]

Give her a cookie. People like cookies.

This actually might work:
You: Hay, here's a cookie.
Her: Ohhhh... thanks!
You: So, remember that time I cheated on you?
Her: ...

 

[Hollock]

how early in the relationship did you do it?

 

[Doctor Glocktor]

Wow forums logic:

PIHB

OR

Kill yourself.

 

[grayishfox]

well its up to you really, honesty may be the best policy but after that, the trust will be broken and she'll get paranoid, accuse you some more and it may eventually ruin you. it was a long time ago so there should be no ramifications of what you have done (maybe). so the question is, do you think she will still trust you after you tell her? especially after her previous boyfriends hurting her.

 

[ProfessorLayton]

You cheated and didn't tell her?

Man, that's mistake number one. Sorry, but you have to tell her and explain. If she leaves you, then I don't blame her. If she stays with you, then you lucked out. Chances are that won't happen though. Sorry to say that, but it's the truth. At least it will be a learning experience.

 

[MrSnugglesworth]

Wow. You felt nervous so you CHEATED ON HER!?!?


DO YOU REALIZE HOW STUPID THAT SOUNDS!?

 

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It was the fir

how early in the relationship did you do it?

It was the fourth month we have been dating

 

[Blindrooster]

She'll understand, yall have been dating for a year. Make her feel special that she's dating you, give her a fancy title such as your "sandwich engineer."