Girls, do you like men with facial hair?

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Hagi

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LilithSlave said:
Being into androgyny, I'm not super into facial hair, or even body hair in general on guys.
Quick question out of curiosity, is androgyny a taste you find yourself mostly alone in or something more common amongst women?

Especially seeing as it's rather uncommon amongst men I think (not sure though, come to think of it I've no clue what exactly would constitute an androgynous woman).
 

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Bara_no_Hime said:
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A little facial hair is slightly scratchy when the lips are kissed - I don't want a Brillo pad attacking my chin.
I was ninja'd!

But yes, this. So much this. Plus I dislike having to deal with the rash afterwards, it just looks odd.
 

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Hagi said:
Quick question out of curiosity, is androgyny a taste you find yourself mostly alone in or something more common amongst women?
All over the place? All sorts of diversity?

I don't know, it's quite a question. I guess that more women are more comfortable or fond of androgyny than guys. There's a social construct out there that seems to much more define something as "gay" or "faggy" than what we'll easily define as lesbian. Heteronormative society seems very, very quick to judge a behavior as "homo" on men.

I think that women's typical opinion of what consistutes an attractive man differs from what a typical man defines as proper for a man to look like and "manly." Perhaps, then, women are a little more into androgyny than men on average, because men and women have different standards of what is attractive in a man on average.

That's just my attempt at answering a difficult question, though. Certainly some women like really "manly" men, but also there does seem to be a large subset of women out there who prefer more "androgynous" looks, even if we don't call them that. Thus a lot of the fictional characters designed as a fanservice with women in mind, are fairly androgynous.

I think that there's a large subset of women who don't like men who look like women, but who don't like men as masculine as many men would perceive masculinity. I don't think it's a thing of purposely going for androgyny, like me. It's just that they like a more gentle form of masculinity. Seeing a giant, bodybuilder of a man, often feels more threatening, than anything.

An androgynous woman would be a woman with a set of hips that are like a man's, or basically not very wide. Not very large breasts in comparison to the rest of her body fat content. Quite tall, 5 feet and 6 inches tall, or plenty taller. Having a fair amount of body and/or facial hair. The presence of an Adam's Apple(a surprising amount of women have this quite prominently). A more angular than round face. Oh, and wide shoulders. Specifically, wide shoulders in comparison to hips. A woman with wide shoulders, but not wide hips, is fairly androgynous.

Not all of them required, but some mixture of these things is androgynous. The only feminine feature I seem to like all across the board is round faces.
 

Hagi

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LilithSlave said:
All over the place? All sorts of diversity?

I don't know, it's quite a question. I guess that more women are more comfortable or fond of androgyny than guys. There's a social construct out there that seems to much more define something as "gay" or "faggy" than what we'll easily define as lesbian. Heteronormative society seems very, very quick to judge a behavior as "homo" on men.

I think that women's typical opinion of what consistutes an attractive man differs from what a typical man defines as proper for a man to look like and "manly." Perhaps, then, women are a little more into androgyny than men on average, because men and women have different standards of what is attractive in a man on average.

That's just my attempt at answering a difficult question, though. Certainly some women like really "manly" women, but also there does seem to be a large subset of women out there who prefer more "androgynous" looks, even if we don't call them that.

An androgynous woman would be a woman with a set of hips that are like a man's, or basically not very wide. Not very large breasts in comparison to the rest of her body fat content. Quite tall, 5 feet and 6 inches tall, or plenty taller. Having a fair amount of body and/or facial hair. The presence of an Adam's Apple(a surprising amount of women have this quite prominently). A more angular than round face.

Not all of them required, but some mixture of these things is androgynous. The only feminine feature I seem to like all across the board is round faces.
Heh. That's about as far as I got :p.

Was eating at a fancy restaurant a while back celebrating my father's birthday when a random old lady commented on how androgynous me and my brothers looked. Didn't have a clue on if I was being complimented or something else.

Question popped back into my head when I read your reply. But I guess it'll have to remain a mystery.

Of little importance overall but nothing wrong with a bit of curiosity I reckon.

Thanks for your answer though :).

At least it seems I learned that I can appreciate a few androgynous features although the height preference is more out of practicality.
 

Starik20X6

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Good thing not all girls like beards, because I'd be shit outta luck if they did. I can't get a full beard, my mutton chops are non-existent. I can grow a goatee and a mo, but I don't like to... At times I've thought about going the Stark...



... but that's all I'd do.
 

Snowbell

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I have a deep set phobia of beards so I'm entirely prejudiced when I say I can't stand a man with facial hair. However, I've asked a few of my friends whether they'd prefer a guy to have facial hair or none, and only my mother said she liked her men to have beards :|
 

Screamarie

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Mostly, no. I generally dislike all facial hair. For some guys it is attractive, it does work, but usually it's guy with like hair just around the mouth or something like that. Maybe a goatee. I never like straight up mustaches and bears.

But...fuzz on the other hand. Yeah a guy with a little five o'clock shadow...for some reason I don't know why, but that's just extremely sexy to me.
 

ReservoirAngel

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As a guy who likes guys I'm answering this anyway, because fuck you all.

I don't like beards. I mean full-on beards. I hate those. It's an instant no-no with me. I like guys with those things... I don't what they're technically called. You know, when a guy has a little patch of hair just below his bottom lip. I love those things, but I don't know why. They just look awesome. 9 times out of 10 they make a hot guy even hotter.
 

Robert Ewing

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My girlfriend commands what I'd call hipster stubble. Which i'm reaaaally not keen on.

And the fact that I'm 21 and I can't grow a beard. Moustaches are fine, they grow real bushy, but no beards as of yet :(
 

SadisticBrownie

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I tend to have a beard most of the time, simply because I can't be arsed shaving. Right now it's quite short and civilized for my new job, but at times it's full-on Viking.
 

Raika

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I am a homosexual female. However, someone once asked me what I would do if a gun were placed to my head and the instructions "fuck a man of your choice or die" issued to me. Ultimately, I decided that my first choice would be John Goodman as seen in The Big Lebowski, pictured here about to introduce a sporting opponent to a world of pain.


So I suppose that that means that my preference is indeed toward men with facial hair. However, there is that big looming asterisk leading to the footnote of me not liking men at all, and Walter Sobchak just being the male sexual experience I'd despise the least.
 

Jessabi

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A proper beard? Yuck. I find many variations of stubble attractive though. It all depends on the guy I suppose and what suits their face though.
 

Suicidejim

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My girlfriend hates it when I don't shave (which happens frequently, since I'm a little forgetful about that kind of thing), although last night, in the middle of her sentence telling me off for not shaving, she stopped and went "Actually, with that jacket, your stubble looks pretty damn hot right now." As soon as the jacket came off, she went back to hating it (but weirdly went back to liking it when I didn't have a shirt on). So basically, if I plan to not shave, I have to have a specific outfit to go with it so I don't get mauled.

Also, as a guy, I'm of the opinion that facial hair is pretty damn awesome.
 

iLazy

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Yes, but only if they are NICE beards. Not those stupid pencil mustaches, and you have to be able to rock said beard and maintain it. I also enjoy the 5 o clock stubble thing, only because I like the feeling when I rub my hand against it. Every time my friend gets a buzz cut, I have to rub my hand against it. Love it.

Facial hair is sexy~! (on men)
 

keve4433

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I'm a very hairy person so I look silly without my beard. I haven't had any women complain about my facial hair yet. Though I have to ask, why all the neck-beard hate? You should never doubt the neck-beard for it chooses its own fate from day to day!